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Who Are Your Favorite Gay Reality Stars?

Time for another AfterElton.com Reader's Choice Poll! This time around we'd like to identify the all-time favorite gay reality show contestants. To do that, we need your input!

Please use the voting form below to nominate your favorite gay reality show stars — that is, contestants who publicly identify as gay (or bi) and have appeared on a televised reality show.

Note that for purposes of this poll we only want to know which contestants you most like — thus, judges and hosts such as Tim Gunn, Miss Jay, Nate Berkus, and the like are all disqualified. Likewise, we're leaving the ladies to our sister site, AfterEllen.com.

Voting is open until midnight February 20th, and until then you can submit as many of your favorites as you want by returning to the voting form below. But please no ballot stuffing — only nominate each of your favorites once!

We'll tabulate everyone's votes and announce your top choices on March 5th!

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Lobby for your favorites below!

Use the comments section to remind other readers of worthy candidates, and also to lobby for your favorites!
starri's picture

Danny Roberts

I adored Norm Korpi and Pedro as much as anyone else, and I would probably stick Pedro in if I got two choices, but Danny was one of the "realest" Real World castmembers they ever had.  Smart, sweet, and just a little naughty.

Also, he was sex on a stick.

jeannie's picture

Ronnie Kroell

My vote goes to Ronnie Kroell...Who's with me!?!!!
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leedsnyc's picture

Ronnie the superstar!!

I also vote for Ronnie - he is so open and honest about who he is and his sexuality. Didn't hide it and wasn't OTT either. I was glued to 'Make Me a Supermodel' when it aired on UK Living and was rooting for him all the way (even though I couldn't vote and it was probably already over by the time it aired). I think Ronnie is a great ambassador for the gay community across the world. He has ambition, drive and good looks to go with all that! Well done Ronnie!!!!
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Madeleine's picture

Nominate Reichen Lehmkuhl

He's worked hard to promote gay visibility, and openly discusses his sexuality and stance against Don't Ask Don't Tell. Plus he's HOT. :)

I may be straight, but I'm not narrow.

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RJ's picture

Chip Arndt

I was a big fan of Chip & Reichen during The Amazing Race 4, was really happy when they won, and was very saddened when they broke up. In the years since then, Reichen may have been more visible, at least where the tabloids are concerned, but I think Chip has done far more in terms of positive gay visibility, causes and activism.

And personally, I think Chip is hotter. :)

http://www.myspace.com/chiparndt

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Madeleine's picture

Chip IS hot

and he certainly has done a lot of work in the community. But I guess I just sort of have a big crush on Reichen after reading his book. :P

I may be straight, but I'm not narrow.

Zam's picture

Chip

Reichen has only used his success after the Race to further a mediocre acting career, and Chip has been focused on community activism and fundraising.

As a team, they ran a great race with no drama, and on the show represented the community well.  Chip gets my vote for what he's done since the race.

RJ's picture

Pedro Zamora

I didn't actually get to watch Real World: San Francisco when it aired originally but the story of Pedro Zamora is incredibly poignant, sad and inspiring. Pedro's wedding to Sean Sasser is a definite highlight.

I understand a biographical movie with script written by Dustin Lance Black is now making film festival rounds. Hope AfterElton will be able to post a review of this film soon.

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Insideguy's picture

Pedro

It is being directed by Nick Oceano, a latino film maker, who has been a festival darling for his short film EL PRIMO.  It star relative newcomer Alex Loynaz, as Pedro, who was in several episodes of the gay inclusive, GREEK.  It was well reviewed at last year's Toronto Film and recently screened at the Berlin Film Festival ast Saturday. It is likely to to win the prestigious TEDDY BEAR for best gay or lesbian film.

That's all I am saying... 

INSIDEGUY

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TheFabulousThomasJ's picture

Of All The Gay Reality Show Stars. . .

. . .I'll remember Pedro Zamora the best.

When he was making The Real World:  San Francisco he didn't have a lot of time left in his life; yet he faced and lived it with great courage and grace.

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Whitetee's picture

I made a list

Of all the openly gay guys in Survivor history.We still don`t know much about the new kid so I didn`t include him.

Richard Hatch[Season 1 Borneo,Season 8 All-Star]

Brandon Quinton[Season 3 Africa]

John Carroll[Season 4 Marquesas]

Coby Archa[Season 10 Palau]

Rafe Judkins[Season 11 Guatemala]

J.P. Calderon[Season 13 Cook Islands]

Brad Virata[Season 13 Cook Islands]

Todd Herzog[Season 15 China]

Chet Welch[Season 16 Fans VS Favourites]

Charlie Herschel[Season 17 Gabon]

Of all these people I really like a lot of them(with the exception of maybe one or two).I`m voting for Brad Virata not only because he is very athletic and got good looks,also beacuse he was one of the very first,and still is one of some very few gay asian people in the TV history,and he kicked major butt in the game!For me he really helped break down the stereotypes about gay(and asian) people. And Rafe Judkins also did very well in his season,won a lot of individual immunity and reward challenge.I think he might also be one the first gay mormon on TV.

Whitetee's picture

I think I should add

the openly gay ones usually would do very well in Survivor.we got two winners,Richard Hatch and Todd Herzog;Rafe Judkins ended up in 3rd place in his season;with the exception of J.P. Calderon(who didn`t come out on the show) and Chet Welch(who was one of the oldest guy),all the others at least made it to the jury.

jjose712's picture

Will Young

Well, it's not an american reality show, but Will is my fave
Dave's picture

Vote for Pedro

I voted for Pedro Zamora also. None of the others listed here have been as brave and beautiful (inside and out) as he was in the far too short time that he was with us.
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nordic balance's picture

I voted for Charlie Herschel

I voted for Charlie Herschel from survivor.Before his season on survivor i really never watched any reality shows.So he(and Marcus really)compelled me to start watching the show.This in itself is quite a accomplishment since no queer reality star no matter how hot or cute could do that before him.I did start watching this season of real world but after 2 epis i got bored with it and dropped it.
Zam's picture

Besides Chip A, there's Danny Roberts

Despite the confessional faux pas, Danny proved a positive gay role model in RW NOLA.
roni1133's picture

My favorites...

Norm - The Real World New York

Pedro - The Real World San Francisco

Danny - The Real World New Orleans

Chip - The Amazing Race

Dale - Top Chef

Daniel Vosovic - Project Runway

Austin Scarlett - Project Runway

EDITED TO ADD: David Bromstad - Design Star

I initially didn't think to nominate David because he's the host of his own show, but, duh, the way he got Color Splash was by winning Design Star.  Please vote for him!

Ed Kennedy's picture

Ronnie also comes to mind

Although Pedro certainly changed the landscape the most for me, for recent memory gays, I'm reminded of Ronnie from MMaS - probably because I just watched the preview for this new season. He worked as a fun distraction for me - I watch a lot of TV, but almost no reality TV, but this was appointment viewing for me.
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roni1133's picture

Others to consider

Some other castmates/contestants to consider:

The Real World Philadelphia - Karamo & Willie

The Real World Chicago - Chris

Project Runway - Jay McCarroll, Santino Rice, Nick Verreos, Andrae Gonzalo, Christian Siriano, Jack Mackenroth, Steven Rosengard, Rami Kashou, Chris March, Keith Bryce, Jerell Scott, Wesley Nault, Daniel Feld

Big Brother - Will, Marcellus

RJ's picture

gays in TAR

Here's a list of all the gay male racers on TAR, from what I can recall. I think there were some lesbian competitors too but I'm sure AfterEllen will deal with those. I didn't watch TAR 12 and 13 but I don't think there were any out gays participating on those races (those who did watch, please correct me if I'm wrong).

TAR 1 & 11 Joe & Bill

TAR 2 & 11 Oswald & Danny

TAR 3 Ken, Aaron, Dennis

TAR 4 Chip & Reichen

TAR 7 Lynn & Alex, Patrick

TAR 9 John & Scott

TAR 10 Tom & Terry

jeannie's picture

Ronnie Kroell

Ronnie Kroell from Make Me a Supermodel has to be at the top of the list. His genuine openness and honesty is refreshing and inspiring to many...In addition he's also hella entertaining and super HOT!! Clearly, Ronnie is magnificent to look at, but it is his altruistic sprit and willingness to use his God-given talents to act on his convictions with determination and intelligence that truly impresses me. That is the reason I am rooting for this extraordinary man’s success. I know that he is devoted to effecting positive change in the lives of others…He already has! VOTE 4 RONNIE!
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indyskye's picture

Pedro Zamora

Reality show favorites and crushes come and go, but only a few stand the test of time. While many listed here are or will soon be forgotten, people of at least a certain age will never forget Pedro. He deserves the recognition of being the ultimate reality show favorite that he is.
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jeannie's picture

WOW

I must confess I had never heard of Pedro until reading the posts here today. He sounds like an amazing man and I'm looking forward to learning more about him.

Thank you.

pecola's picture

Another Vote for Pedro

I went with Pedro Zamora as well. I remember vividly his marriage to Sean Sasser--the first I'd ever witnessed--and his lectures to students about living with HIV/AIDS. And, of course, I remember getting news his death--the day after the season finale of his Real World season--and I found myself crying over this man I'd only met through reality TV.

Certainly there have been other gay reality stars with whom I, personally, have more in common or who I found to be incredibly entertaining, but there is no one whose achievement on reality television did more to advance visibility than Pedro Zamora.

It's been 15 years and no one's managed to come close to advancing our cause on television like Pedro did--which, I suppose, is both a testament to the man he was and a poor reflection of today's reality contests.

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xokennyxo's picture

Ronnie

I completely adore Ronnie!
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fratjock27's picture

JP Calderon and David Bromstad

These two are hot!
sarah's picture

It's nice

to see all the votes for Pedro Zamora. I don't like Reality Shows, but when The Real World: San Francisco was on, it was new and shiny for me, and first time I had MTV and all that. I loved Pedro from day one, he seemed so sweet and real, while most of the other were, in my eyes, trying to play a part. As the story unfold, I loved and respected him more and more. And cried! Oh how I cried for him :(