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"Brothers & Sisters" Finale Recap: “Prior Commitments”

Post-reception, Kitty pours Senator Prettyboy and herself each a Big Gulp-size portion of whiskey. She announces that she’s decided to go ahead with adopting, which apparently will have the benefit of allowing her to drink right up through the baby’s arrival.

In all seriousness, I’m personally a very, very, very big supporter of adoption, and I love that the show is going to pursue this.

Cut to Kevin and Scotty standing at the door at their apartment. Kevin kind of scoffs at the idea of doing the threshold thing, but then Scotty lifts him off his feet and carries him over. Personally, I think they should take turns being the wife in situations like this, because versatility can only be a good thing in a long-term relationship.

Scotty puts Kevin down complaining about how heavy he is. Uh oh. Basically calling the wife fat like that — on your wedding night no less — is just asking for trouble.

Scotty: Oh God, you’re heavy!
Kevin: You’re not going to take me all the way to the bedroom?
Scotty: It’s funny. It’s our first time home as a married couple and suddenly I’m not in the mood.
Kevin: Yeah, Tommy warned me that would happen.

Scotty thanks Kevin for going to his parents and getting the cufflinks, and goes inside to call his father. While he does, Kevin stares at the Tom Skerritt headshot and launches into a flashback.

Flashback. Kevin seems to be sitting on Air Force One, because it’s this cushy looking plane that appears to have no one else on it. William sits next to him to go over paperwork, and Kevin refers to a picture he’s just found in a file and asks who it is.

William says it belongs to a friend who passed away and is of her youngest child — “Ryan” (!). Then, in a clear effort to distract his son from whatever’s going on with this mysterious “friend,” William tells Kevin he enjoys spending time with him. Kevin is all, right back at ya, Big Daddy.

The Present. Kevin’s wedding night. That he’s apparently spending at his sister’s without his new husband in sight. Poor Scotty. Being married to a Walker kind of sucks.

Kevin rushes in and tells Sarah she was right all along. With all the wedding preparations and talk of Scotty’s parents, he remembered being at a conference with their own father who was making a feeble effort to bond with him after he came out. He remembers a guy there named Doug, who was talking about a woman who died, leading William to ask how “Ryan” was handling it. “Ryan” as in starts with an “R.”

Kevin explains that later on, he found a photo in a file, the same one they thought was Rebecca, although he’d forgotten about it. But now he remembers that when he asked William about it, he said it was the dead woman’s son, “Ryan.”

Sarah and Kevin enter the Walker manse. Nora is surprised to see them, wondering why Scotty and Kevin aren’t off on their honeymoon. I’m wondering that myself. Yes, this is sort of important family stuff going on, but their hours-old marriage is important too. Rushing out to give Nora even more evidence of what a bastard her husband was could certainly have waited at least until after Kevin and Scotty had the joy of consummating their union a few times. I sure hope Scotty is prepared for his own needs to constantly take a back seat to Walker family drama.

Kevin tells Nora they have something to tell her. They sit her down, and the camera pulls back, and even though we can’t hear what they say, I’m guessing the gist of it, to paraphrase a line from Chorus Line, is that her husband went through life with an open fly.

Rebecca and Justin hike up to some lover’s overlook overlooking the romantic city smog. Rebecca tells Justin she can’t simply start from square one with him, describing her deep sense of connection with him. She recaps everything that’s happened to her the last few episodes, then says she can’t help wondering if all this insanity was just a way for her to meet him.

Then they start sucking face.

Fin Season Two.

I’m sure that, like Scotty and Kevin’s accelerated path to the altar, the Rebecca-Justin hook-up happened more quickly than Berlanti and crew intended because of the writer’s strike, and so it does feel like it came on too fast, too furious, and way too forced. But overall, these post-strike episodes were among the series’ strongest; it’s definitely going out on a gay high, and I hope it’s able to maintain that come season three.

Now we can spend the next 12 weeks obsessing over who’ll be cast as Ryan Walker. I’m starting my own personal campaign for it to be Cheyenne Jackson, Chris Evans, or anyone else on the AfterElton.com Hot 100 list. Who’s with me?

 

 

snicks's picture

GREAT RECAP, STEVEN!

couple of points:

Did anyone else think the cuff link box looked EXACTLY like the HELLRAISER puzzle cube?

Did anyone else get the urge to bounce a basketball off of Scotty's dad's head? (my undying love to anyone who gets that reference)

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cakeOrDeath's picture

Outstanding! - both episode & recap

Re: Holly: beyotch vs. biatch - is this an east coast vs west coast thang?

Kevin's reaction to the chafing dishes was completely justified if you recall the last buffet at chez Walker - totally tacky tinfoil takeout. Surely Scotty was planning to whip up a delightful 6 course menu, prepared a la minute, with French table service.....and on his own wedding day, no less. Kevin was just standing by his man, who would be in the kitchen where he belongs, barefoot, inseminated, but sadly barren (just like Kitty!!! I can totally see them bonding over this next season).

But, hey, at least we got punch, over which to have awkward incest-related conversations. Gosh, gay weddings are the best, aren't they?

I thought the whole scene with Scotty's parents was done really well. No cartoon bad guys, just people struggling with prejudices that they were raised with, but that now harm their own son and family.

Oh, and given Scotty's apparent age, either Mrs. Scotty's Mom has had major work done on her face, or that's Mrs. Scotty's Dad's Trophy Wife. With the badly highlighted Rachel 'do, I was thinking the former, but it is Arizona, so who knows.

As for the ceremony itself, it was all a bit watery and blurry on my TV, so I'll need to watch it a couple more times.

However, I am so not believing that those two queens weren't out ring-shopping every free moment since last week.   Please.

dgchgo's picture

Oscar-nominated performance!

Hey, snicks --

Finally! Some undying love from someone. The bouncing a basketball off Michael O'Keefe's head is obviously from Michael's Oscar-nominated role as Robert Duvall's son in "The Great Santini" (Duvall was also nominated, BTW).

Spectacular recap of a good, good episode, Steven. Unlike your reaction to her, I thought Scotty's mom looked instantly familiar. I had looked on IMDb before earlier in the day to see what I could find out about the episode, and Jayne Brook's picture (and a cursory look at her credits) didn't ring a bell. But when I saw her onscreen, I thought: man, I've seen her somewhere. So, of course, back to IMDb -- and what to my wondering eyes should appear: she played the sister in Doing Time on Maple Drive. That's where I knew her from -- she also has done some TV guest spots that I'm sure I've seen, but I know that I know her from Maple Drive.

Another reaction I had to Scotty's parents was: Michael O'Keefe is old enough to be somebody's dad?

I'm going to have to think on who I'd like to have play Ryan -- how old will he be?

Here's another thought I had: the character of Scotty was introduced in the first episode of the series, sort of as an incidental character, but Luke Macfarlane is such a strong presence and such a great actor, and he and Matthew Rhys had such wonderful energy and chemistry together, that Scotty is now a regular character and a member of the family. So great.

Knickie's picture

Michael O'Keefe? Wasn't he

Michael O'Keefe? Wasn't he Bonnie Raitt's boytoy at one time. Eek! Time sure flies!
mmmexperimental's picture

Jayne Brook

I remembered seeing her in something and checked IMDb too and its 'Don't Tell Mom the Babysitter's Dead' - 1991! She played the biotch secretary and sister to the boyfriend of Christina Applegate. She is very very good at being said biotch and David Duchovny played her boyfriend & co-worker. Her character, 'Carolyn', is actually one of my favorites because she nailed it so well. Total creep, suck up, trying to get the job that goes to a nobody and spends the movie trying to get Christina fired and it always backfires on her! Its been playing on HBO and I knew the face but never knew her name!

1991!  And so we all grow old together! 

 

"You bit the hand, Marty, You bit the hand!"

db's picture

Jayne Brook

Actually Jayne Brook has been in a lot of television shows and is a wonderful actress.  I saw her last year in a Wendy Wasserstein play here in LA--the play was so-so but she was great.  She was also in that TV series John Doe--which I mostly remember for Dominic Purcell's frequent nude scenes.
Alfred's picture

They had me at...

Scotty & Nora had me as Nora so warmly welcome her new son, when she said "I get another son". Then Kevin & Nora had me when she prided all those beautiful flower arrangement and then Kevin told her "You gave us a wedding". Scotty looks so ever charming. He can be my Prince Charming any time. With the risk of being called typical and corny, now we know Scotty isn't the only "girl" in the relationship as he carries Kevin over the threshold! LOL.
maskbear55's picture

They had me at...too! big time

The scenes with Sally Field were the best in the episode. Sally with Rebecca, Sally with Scotty and Sally with Kevin...I welled up each time.

 

Ed Kennedy's picture

It may have been consistent, but I didn't like it...

I love this show, I really do, and while it had some great messages last night, I truly didn't like this episode. I mean come on - Kitty and McAllister were running for president, and still got a wedding night/weekend on the jet - and Kevin walks out on his own wedding night over family issues that clearly weren't pressing? I get that they needed a cliffhanger, but that just ruined what a great episode for me that managed to hit, almost a little too by-the-numbers, all of the political, familial, and social issue surrounding gay marriage from both the good and the bad sides, almost like a checklist. As much as I wanted to love the whole thing, it just felt contrived. Maybe with a longer season they could have put more time into the story they needed, but they ruined it for me. I was more touched by the brain-tumor death on Grey's than this.
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Steven Frank's picture

Great call on Maple/Santini

I was too lazy to check IMDB on Scotty's parents, but I thank the posters who did. I love the Maple Drive connection because of how that movie also deals with parents' problem accepting their gay son. Plus I love how B&S guest stars seem to all have some Ken Olin connection. I'm waiting for my favorite thirtysomething actress to show up. That would be Polly Draper. Maybe she could be Ryan Walker's "food lobbyist" mother in flashbacks? Or Holly's long-lost younger sister?
Alfred's picture

Replying Ed's comment

I agree with Ed's comment that the wedding seems to be diluted a bit by other stuff. But I think it IS consistent with the producers' intent, since the very start. They said they would treat Kevin's storyline just as equal as any other characters. So I do think that it's fair that we have other issues embedded around the wedding. As for Kevin not staying the wedding night (whilst I would have loved if he was next to Scotty when he talked with his Dad), I think the point of him rushing back to the Walker mansion is because he feels he is a part of the "secret". He feels responsible for knowing about Ryan. That ties in with his not having bonded with William Walker, as much as he would have loved to. So I think that's why.
Dennis Ayers's picture

Buy her the ICE CREAM and CRACKERS already !

Great job Steven! Loved the episode and loved your recap. Especially the bit about Holly's kitchen blackboard and your plea that someone "buy her the ICE CREAM and CRACKERS already." I'm so with you on that.

Like others here I had trouble believing the whole "Oh, we forgot the rings" bit, and also felt a bit cheated when Kevin skipped out on his wedding night to go pow wow with Sarah. I mean, they didn't have to show them in bed or anything (though that would have been nice!), but it would have been better if we were left with the impression that they had a romantic night together. And the exchange after Scotty carried Kevin over the threshold was a bit disheartening:

Scotty: It’s funny. It’s our first time home as a married couple and suddenly I’m not in the mood.
Kevin: Yeah, Tommy warned me that would happen.

Seems like a signal that they're being neutured moving forward.

That aside, it really was an excellent episode.

Steven Frank's picture

Thanks Dennis

I hope you enjoyed being able to watch without having to be in recapping mode. Recapping is tough work, and I'm still in absolutely awe of how you were able to do it for so many consecutive B&S episodes without losing your sense of humor, wit, or sanity. And I agree that I wanted to see a bit more private romantic joy between Scotty and Kevin post-wedding and their realization that they're now betrothed. Again, I'm guessing the writer's strike just meant less time and more story to have to cram in to this final hour. Why does every other ABC show seem to have a 2-hour finale and not this one?
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GayTVluver's picture

I'm not in the mood...meet you in the love palace

I had the same reaction as you about the not in the mood comment but then it was followed up very quickly with "Let me go call my dad, meet you in the bedroom." That kind of told me that they are at the least not afraid to have it known that the two gays "do it".

But the Kevin leaving thing drove me crazy! That Walker family stresses the wireless service in the greater Los Angeles area 24/7...and suddenly Kevin HAS to have a face to face with Sarah? He couldn't just say "Hey Scotty, hun. You go talk to your dad and I gotta call Sarah. I may be a little long. Not long enough for a full fleet clean out but feel free to jump in the shower and use the silver wand while you're waiting. M'kay? Love you too."

Jon's picture

I disagree for several reasons

#1 It seemed to me Scotty was joking.

#2 I'm not sure how they can be neutered when we don't see all that much sex from them in the first place. Scotty and Kevin have usually been sweet and melodramatic, but not sexually combustible. We're never going to see that on a network show. Hell, this is the only show that even goes this far.

Liz T's picture

ugh....

As soon as scotty and kevin got home, my tv turned off. turns out, half of D.C. had a problem with blank screens and tv's turning off. just dandy. My parents joked that maybe the AFA was behind it. Oh well. thank god for abc.com

anyways, great episode. (minus justecca) I found scotty's parents interesting. I thought they were going to be against scotty as a whole, and I was dreading the "you both are going to burn in hell for doing this to God" crap...but it seems they were only against the 'marriage' which is...sort of weird. But like you said, it is like hate the sin, love the sinner or whatever it is you said. - -That whole mindset doesn't make sense to me, but if people want to have it...so be it. (they're all on crack i assume)

It bothered me a bit that Kitty was officiating, seeing as she was or is against gay marriage....(did she change her mind or..?)

The nora/kevin/flower scene was sweet and touching and the saul scene at the wedding (ceremony? pft, whatever) was sad for obvious reasons.

...Kevin running off on his wedding night was pretty messed up. seriously, he could've waited a day. I have a feeling though scotty is use to this sort of thing. he probably shrugged it off and went to bed, seeing as he was not in the mood anyway. :-P

anyways, great recap and the nancy drew comment cracked me up the most for whatever reason, probably just me being lame. ;-)

bambino italiano's picture

Most people would cherished their wedding days.

for the ceremonies or the receptions and having witnessed and celebrated with their families and close friends. At the end of the day most couples were exhausted from all the frenzy activities that sometimes would have taken weeks if not months of participation and anticipation. At the end of the day they would just happy to sit around and relax or even retired early. Some of us were conditioned to assume that the wedding night suppose to be the most romantic night in these couples' life. I thought the finale was a nice touch and not over the top and keep other plots of the drama flowing. It is a break through for an American television to be inclusive and have prominent gay characters story development. I would watch Queer As Folks if I want to watch gay soap opera exclusively. Kudos to ABC....maybe there's hope for us after all.....
Liz T's picture

true

"At the end of the day most couples were exhausted from all the frenzy activities that sometimes would have taken weeks if not months of participation and anticipation."

^ this is pretty true, which i find interesting. I remember being at a wedding reception and i made a joke about how i bet the bride just wanted to get laid instead of constantly dancing and stuff. a friend said "liz, i can tell you that she will probably collapse into bed and fall straight to sleep..." - I remember thinking "but it's their wedding night...so romantiiccc"  - - EH,I was only like 14 at the time, but I learned after time lots of people are too damn pooped to do jack on their wedding night. It's actually very amusing to me. :-P

Funny how we usually get other ideas shoved down our throat.

Brent Hartinger's picture

Hilarious

The exploding impressionist painting comment made me laugh out loud, as did the ice cream and crackers comment. I hate the show, but actually thought the finale was pretty good. But what was the "explosive, shocking, twist ending" they kept promising in the previews? That there was another sibling? Ummmm, I guess that's explosive and shocking. (I HATE IT when shows promise explosive, shocking twist endings, because then I get expectations, and I'm always disappointed in the end...) Read my books! Explore "Brent's Brain" at http://www.brenthartinger.com
Steven Frank's picture

Explosive, shocking finale

Thanks Brent for the kind words. Making the voice of the flying monkey laugh means a lot to me!

I too was confused about all those promos, and also because all the spoiler sites I like to read, including Michael Ausiello, talked about how the final scene of the series would show Nora having some sort of breakdown in tears and anger. That probably was going to be a scene of her reaction to the news about Ryan, and someone (Berlanti?) decided to cut the scene. I wonder if it was too much of a downer of an ending?

If the cliffhanger was meant to be the Rebecca/Justin cliff, how lame is that, because it's been clear all along that the whole reason they were de-Walkering Rebecca was to make that kiss (and more coupling) happen between them.

Samuel Gillespie's picture

Scotty's Parents and I just happen to live in the same town...

I had to laugh at the fact that it was entirely obvious someone at B&S just googled 'zip code peoria az' because I live in Peoria, AZ 85345. It's the main zip for the city. If, however, they had looked into it and used Peoria, AZ 85383, then the scene where their house was would've been completely believeable for me. (Wow, talk about nit-picking).

In either case, I thought it was hilarious that they have Scotty's parents living in the same town I live in.

I was on the verge of tears at so many points throughout the episode. I wish they had just made one scene long enough and heart-felt enough to send me into full bawling mode, but it just didn't quite reach it.

Ron Rifkin/Saul was amazing in this episode and I'm in complete agreement that he certainly deserves an Emmy. There's no question in my mind.

The Ceremony was great, but I do wish they had written vows. And, I hope we're along for the ring-buying trip at the beginning of the new season.

I would also like to see Scotty not working quite so much. Luke McFarlane seems to have such great on-screen presence and charisma with the other actors.

As a last comment, Thank you, Steven for your wonderful recap.  I loved your work on Torchwood and you were marvelous with this episode.

Steven Frank's picture

Props to Peoria

Thanks so much Samuel for the kind words. I think the Peoria zip code thing is hysterical. And I agree with you about being just shy of true bawling. I think they had to cram in so much story we did lose out a bit on the emotion. I liked the wedding ceremony, but I didn't get nearly as emotional as I did with the proposal, which was a nice long scene.
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Samuel Gillespie's picture

Timing was definitely an issue

Having so many things to resolve in one episode did inhibit what could've been one of the most emotional episodes produced. 

As you mentioned, the commitment ceremony was certainly short, which I was disappointed about.  I understand that it was Kevin and Scotty's wishes to keep things simple, but considering how much time was spent on Kitty's wedding to Robert, it seems as though the show could've lingered on the Commitment a little longer. 

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MD's picture

sdl;gfkjds;lkfjg;alksjdfg;lakejrtpogfisudjlks.nx;rsiolk!!!!!!!

cutehotromanticsweetamazingmovingtouchingincredibledelectabelkevin and scotty goodness!!!! sigh... which I figure they all know is a joke because it’s not like Kevin’s suddenly become a lesbian. lol. and as a sapphic sister i appreciate this. so effin true. has anyone watched work out lately? u'hauled after one friggin day??!!!???!!!! anyways...so excited for more Walker drama!!
Lee's picture

Great recap, Steven!

I loved your snark and it brought me to tears (something the episode failed to do). There were times that you were joking and I was really feeling the snark about this episode.

"I’m sure that, like Scotty and Kevin’s accelerated path to the altar, the Rebecca-Justin hook-up happened more quickly than Berlanti and crew intended because of the writer’s strike, and so it does feel like it came on too fast, too furious, and way too forced."

I have said all along if they didn't give the Kevin/Scotty romance sufficient time to develop in the final four episodes it would feel false and forced. That is precisely what happened (for me). If they didn't have time to do the story right, end the season with the proposal rather than a crap ass 3 minute (very contrived) borrowed ring exchange (I refuse to refer to it as a ceremony of any kind). 

Monica and Alison - Hands in the air, step away from the computers! You should never again be allowed to butcher an episode this badly. 

Jon's picture

This wasn't their entire romance

It's not as if they met 4 episodes ago. They met early in season 1, got together, broke up, slept together again, and met again this season, got back together. Yes, the proposal and engagement were too rushed, but that doesn't take away from the earlier moments. "Butcher" would be the awful relationships Kevin had with Chad and Robert.
Psionycx's picture

Underwhelmed by the B&S Finale

Okay, those of you intent on flaming me, don't bother reading this, just go ahead and hit "Reply".

Actually, I didn't hate this episode. I think that as a PSA it had some merit perhaps. They certainly managed to cram some nice messages about gay issues in there.

However, I use the word "cram" on purpose here. Moving beyond the not-so-subliminal messaging, this episode was pretty blatantly thrown together on the last scraps of filming time and budget money.

Indeed, this actually felt like maybe about four episodes worth of material that had most of the content left on the cutting room floor. They were blazing through at such dizzying speed that before I had time to emotionally react to something they'd already surged ahead to the next scene. For pity's sake this recap is longer than the buildup to this "wedding"!

Also, like a stage play, they were clearly applying the reuse principle. This "wedding" was nowhere near as well put together as Nora's “Now It’s Okay to Swim in the Pool Where Grandpa Died.” (BTW: great line) and while the writers of course have Kevin and Scotty protest that they don't really want a glitzy affair (leading me to question whether they're really gay) the cynic in me knows it's because the producers wanted to save a few bucks on sets and extras.

I mean why the desperate rush to do it in a few days? Is Kevin afraid Scotty's going to carve off a finger boning salmon or Arnold is going to revoke the California DP law before the next work week?

The ceremony itself was lame. Of course they needed to insert a statement that it isn't really "marriage" into the script because God knows Kevin and Scotty weren't treating it like one! Scotty cooked his own wedding feast and rings got forgotten in the mad dash to squeeze this in between Kevin's legal appointments and Scotty's kitchen shifts.

Kitty officiating is just plain weird! Has everyone forgotten that she has stated to Kevin's face that she doesn't support same-sex marriage? Sure, this isn't a real "marriage", but somehow having someone who officially supports the second-class status of my union (and is married to a Senator that votes that way) would leave a bad taste in my mouth.

Meanwhile, this little "wedding", no more real than when Kevin and Kitty were married by a teddy bear, and less buff than one of Nora's barbecues, is capped off by, what, a romantic honeymoon? No, Kevin running off with this Ryan revelation!


This
is the "shocking finale" the B&S people were hinting at? Sounds like a recycled plot line to me. Maybe next Sarah should fall in love with the fat guy who beat Robert for the GOP nomination?

And of course Kevin, who has nothing more tangible than a stray memory and some speculation, has to run off that exact second, leaving his new spouse on their "honeymoon night" alone so that he can go and tell Sarah. Now, at this point, Kevin (who is supposedly a lawyer) should realize that all he has is an ambiguous photo and and a vague assumption. It's not as if this Ryan is anyone they know. In a court of law they'd call this "hearsay". But not only must he leave Scotty behind to immediately inform Sarah (because apparently cell phones are down for some reason), but they in turn must immediately go and inform Nora that yes, her late husband was an even bigger man-whore than they thought.

So while they two stars for the nice (if hurried) PSA, they get nothing for the episode as a whole. I think the wedding was every bit as fake as Scotty's mother thought it was. Not because I don't believe in same-sex marriage but because I believe that this one looked role-playing night at the Walker manse.

Great recap Steven, and you got some great lines in. Which is more than I can say for this Reader's Digest storyline. I sincerely believe that a lot of this should have been pushed into next season.

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Lee's picture

Very Good PSA and Reader's Digest storyline

Thanks for typing out all of the things I was thinking.   To be honest, the episode was so disappointing, I couldn't be bothered.

I've been to dozens of weddings and same-sex commitment ceremonies.  Without fail, the couple has always managed a few heartfelt phrases for each other in the form of vows.  Without the benefit of professional writers.  This was Kitty making a little speech with Kevin and Scotty exchanging (yes, completely nonsense) borrowed rings (Steven is right, a pair of "Funyons" would be more appropriate and probably better luck).

I appreciate the PSAs.  I really do.  Some significant statements about gay marriage/lack thereof.  But do I think the story was done justice by the writers and producers?  Not by a long shot. 

I wonder how many funeral homes the set decorators solicited to gather that "trippy Mary Poppins moment" assembled in the living room?  Definitely looked like an "on the cheap" set up.

I am sorry to be so cynical, but I feel that the gay wedding - the whole storyline - got shorted.

 

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Psionycx's picture

Shorted Out

Total Agreement.

I have a friend who lives in San Francisco.  Back when uber-liberal mayor Gavin Newsom was defying Ahnold and performing same-sex marriages I asked my buddy if he and his partner were going to go and get hitched.

He waspishly informed me that he would do no such thing because getting married at City Hall was too "common"!

Clearly sensibilities are different between NoCal and SoCal!  I guess Pasadena gays don't get into fabulous events.  For a nightime TV wedding this was just embarrassing.  As I recall, the producers of Will & Grace put up a better set for Jack's sham marriage to Rosario!

While I appreciate the PSA I really just can't get excited over it because it really looks like they were reinforcing the notion that this wasn't a "real" marriage.  And it's not just the lame and low-budget setting.  Kevin's casual attitude towards the whole thing just screamed: "This is no big deal.  It's not like it's a real wedding or anything."

That Kevin then went and immediately ditched Scotty on his wedding night to go chase down this utterly lame "shocking revelation" further suggests that this wasn't really a significant event in his life.  It was thrust aside and back to other matters as soon as the party was over.  Would it have killed them to at least let them have a little Kitty/Robert style romance?

The sentiment was there for a few scenes, but for me the whole thing really flopped.  I would have preferred a better wedding that wasn't in a season finale to this half-hearted one that was.

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Jon's picture

Kevin was only casual as a front

He put up a fuss about how this wasn't a real wedding, but when he hugged Nora and thanked her, he was genuinely moved. Kevin doesn't like to be honest with his feelings. I preferred that to him weeping over his wedding day. Besides, it wasn't a real wedding, and I'm glad they pointed that out, although it was still more romantic than that AWFUL Kitty/Robert wedding where half the family had been taken away by secret service and Kitty didn't even want to go through with the ceremony.

I agree this could have been better, but I didn't think it flopped. There were too many good small scenes and the acting was too good. I don't watch this show for fancy sets or for a PSA on gay marriage, and if the show had tried that they probably would have just failed.

 

Karen's picture

hahahaha

Okay, those of you intent on flaming me, don't bother reading this, just go ahead and hit "Reply".

LMAO

Knickie's picture

Mama Nora sure didn't seem

Mama Nora sure didn't seem the least bit surprised at Uncle Saul's "revelation." I wonder if she's had an on-going bet about when Saul would finally tumble?
Cadence's picture

Saul came out to Nora

Saul came out to Nora earlier this season, during the Justin intervention episode. 
Joey's picture

Although I greatly

Although I greatly appreciate what B&S, & by extension ABC, have done for the cause, I was also underwhelmed by the finale. Maybe it was b/c there was so much hype that no episode could live up to it.

But I think the real reason for the let down was b/c, like others have stated, they tried to do WAAAAAAYYYYY too much in a 1-hour episode. I didn't mind Kevin & Scotty getting hitched so early into their relationship, but the entire episode was rushed.

I know since it was the finale there's got to be cliffhangers & all, but did we really need to know that Kitty can't conceive so she & Robert will be adopting??? And although the Ryan Mystery ties up the Rebecca Isn't a Walker storyline quickly w/o having to trash the backstory, was it really necessary???

I know that B&S has done a lot for the cause, but I felt that all the myriad storylines were an excuse to gyp Kevin & Scotty of more deserved screen time. I know it can't all be about Kevin/Scotty, but the main arc of the episode WAS about them. If so many precious minutes weren't wasted on the crap, they could've devoted more time to...

...show Scotty's utter disappointment that his parents chose not to attend despite Kevin's personal plea. Without this consequence, I don't think the average viewer understood the degree of pain his parents' decision caused.

...vows. Oh wait, there weren't any. Kevin's proposal in the previous ep was way more romantic.

...consummation of Kevin & Scotty's "marriage." Yeah, they've done "it" before, but this was different. This was supposed to be special. I'm sure Scotty was tired from cooking all day, & Kevin had a 10-hour road trip, but it didn't look as if the celebration had carried on into the wee hours of the night & the wedding itself took all of 2 minutes, so they couldn't have been that tired. I'm not asking for soft core porn, but if we had to sit through watching Kitty & Senator Suntan in the sack about 2 dozen times, would it kill them to at least show Kevin & Scotty slipping off into bed?

And Kevin bolting for Sarah's house - in the middle of the night, no less - w/ that weak "evidence"? Totally lame.

3 more things that really irked me:

1. I didn't mind Kitty relaying the story of hers & Kevin's pretend wedding as children - I thought it was cute. But then she totally made it about herself & that do nothing senator. What a missed opportunity when she said something about how their view of "what a family looks like" had changed. She could've went on to say how a family can be a same-sex couple, a single parent, a blended family, etc. But nope.

2. Sarah having to make the big revelation about a 6th sibling with the flimsy evidence she had...at the celebration no less. Couldn't she have waited a freakin' day?!

3.  The relative lack of emphasis of the inequality gay couples have in terms of what is legally available & what is socially available (e.g., church service).  Kevin very briefly mentions that it isn't a marriage per se, but I didn't get a sense that ANYONE cared that marriage wasn't an option for Kevin & Scotty.  You would've thought that liberal big sister Sarah would say something.  Or maybe Kitty could've said how her views on marriage being only a union b/t a man & a woman had changed.  But nope.

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Joey's picture

Ok, I should balance out my

Ok, I should balance out my previous comments w/ what was done well:

I hadn't seen Matthew Rhys before B&S (or since - I don't want Kevin to be ruined), so I don't know if his performances as Kevin are par for the course, but he is really convincing as Kevin. The way he sublimely slid his hand down Scotty's shoulder when he was helping Scotty get dressed. The way he tenderly slid the ring onto Scotty's finger. The way he was rubbing Scotty's hands before the kiss. He does so many small but important things well. If B&S continues on for many seasons, I'm afraid we'll lose him to the big screen before the end.

Sally Field was awesome. Sometimes I feel she's a bit constrained by the parameters they put on Nora, but she bust through them last night. The way she thanked Scotty for making Kevin happy & gaining another son put a lump in my throat. She put another lump there when she told Kevin that she wanted his wedding to be just as special as everyone else's. And her face at the wedding - I really felt that Kevin was her son, that she knew how tougher it was for him than her other children, & that she was so overjoyed that he had found someone.

Scotty got to be "the man" when he carried Kevin over the threshold. With the difference in income & how they make Scotty super nelly at times, I was glad to see Scotty become more of an equal.

The close up of Scotty's ring when Kevin was taking off the cuff links. I know that the ring is just a thing, but it is also a symbol. To see the universal symbol of marital commitment on a gay man's hand on a major network in prime time was powerful to me.

Which reminds me, Scotty never returned the ring to Senator Suntan.  I wonder if Kevin still has Tommy's ring as well.

Finally, although the B&S folks had nothing to do w/ this (other than providing plenty of fodder), Steven did a bang up job recapping the episode.  I LOL so many times while reading the recap.

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Marea67's picture

Matthew Rhys

As someone who's seen a lot of other material with Matthew, I can tell you that he is always convincing in whatever character plays. And he usually does it with all those small  details that makes characters believable.

I guess it's also the reason why Matthew and Luke have such 'chemisty' on the screen. They both display those little details with eachother. They are not afraid to touch eachother, to be around eachother and to show that affection that K/S are supposed to have.  

I've watched the episode 3 times now, and still feel that I missed out on details. I agree that it is all TOO much crammed in one episode. I tried to rate and give my opionion about this episode on another board, but I just can't make up my mind. I guess it's true that the individual scenes we saw were great, but at the same time, the feeling that 3/4 of the episode has been cut out, makes the whole episode uneven. 

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Joey's picture

The shocking revelation

The shocking revelation should've been that R stood not for Ryan, but for Robert...McCallister. Now there's your incest storyline!
RJ's picture

The little moments were the key

Seems to me that those who appreciated this episode the most tend to focus on the little moments, while the cynics are disappointed with the 'big picture', whether it be the social significance or comparing this occasion to other Walker celebrations.

The nay crowd isn't wrong to be disappointed that this episode wasn't as well put together as some other episodes in the series. However, for me it comes down to individual scenes, the little quieter moments: Nora & Scotty in the kitchen, Scotty telling Kevin why his parents wouldn't be attending the ceremony, Kevin giving Scotty his father's cufflinks, Kevin & Scotty exchanging vows, and Scotty carrying Kevin over the threshold. These are the moments that matter the most...and they are wonderful.

Karen's picture

thoughts

I, too, expected more from the episode. The storylines overlapped so much. In one scene Sarah is trying to convince her siblings that the picture is another illegitimate child of their father she is reminded that they are still at Kevin's reception. Oh and here comes Saul to announce he's gay. How much can happend in two minutes. Plus, I wish Saul could have had a more courageous and heartwarming coming out rather than just blurting out in frustration that Kevin talks too much. Then we have the rings. I know why they did it, but it was a little too much and I don't think a lot of people figured it out. It was symbolizing acceptance of family regardless of disagreements. Did you notice that out of all the family members the Republican who are against gay marriage had the most important role during the ceremony? The almost GOP presidential candidate offers his ring while his wife officiates the ceremony. Then the Top republican on the Walker side Tommy loans his ring as well. WTH. Could they try to put anymore symbolism in that two seconds. Needless to say, Kevin and Scotty should have just had their own rings. And why would Kevin even ask Kitty to officiate the ceremony if he knows her beliefs. And he put her husband's ring on Scotty. Ugh. It should have been Sarah. Okay, those were my only beefs with the episode. I loved everything else. . . . . Okay not the last kiss. That freaked me out. I had to cover my eyes. Still feels like incest to me.
Jon's picture

Saul Kitty

Saul already had anguished coming out moments with Nora and Kevin. I was relieved this one was more comedic. Now if we can just see him more often next season.

Kevin and Kitty have always been close, even though she opposes gay marriage. I'm not surprised he asked her to do the ceremony.

Joey's picture

Kevin & Kitty

Kevin & Kitty were close early on in the first season. 

But once Senator Suntan came aboard, I felt that it ruined Kitty's dynamic with Kevin AND her other siblings as well. 

Which gives more reason to get rid of Senator Suntan.

 

k8.pendragon's picture

Thanks!

Nice recap. Miss Dennis of course, but what can you do? You're a great, um, replacement-replacement. :) I think Rebecca and Justin's suck of face was very funny, actually. It was kind of abrupt. I started laughing from shock. Then I started crying from laughter! :) Good recap, BTW.
Alfred's picture

SO much to say, so little time & space

I wanna say another thing - that Nora must have been a SATC fan! She said that she was carried away, twice! Also back to the general comments on how the show not being great enough, I guess with the time constraint, the producers/writers have done the best they can. Given another 6 episodes had the strike not taken place, I'm sure we would have seen more kissing sessions with Kevin & Scotty.
new_dawn's picture

Actually,

I really loved the episode when I first watched it, but then I had only seen the parts that involved Kevin and Scotty and the storyline concerning the wedding directly. Now that I have read the brilliant recap I can understand why some feel that a great opportunity was missed here. However, I still think that they have done a good job when you keep the time restraints in mind.

I guess I enjoyed the little scenes and signs that showed the love and affection between the characters way too much to get upset about what was maybe missing for a perfect "poster child" of a gay commitment ceremony/wedding or whatever you might want to call it or what it legally is.

I also thought that the struggle of Scotty's parents with their son's sexual orientation was depicted rather realistically. As the flashbacks about Kevin and his father showed us not every parent or family member is as openminded and accepting as Nora. But they also don't turn out to be serial killers like Noah's dad on ATWT. So thanks for keeping it real.

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daverd's picture

Scotty's parents' names

Perhaps as a dig at Scotty's bigoted parents the writers named them Wally Wandell and Bertha Wandell,according to IMDB. But really what did Bertha think she was accomplishing by not going to her son's ceremony? Did she think he would see the error of his lifestyle and sudenly become straight? Did she think she was somehow defending the sanctity of breeder marriage?(That holy union that can be accomplished by two drunk ass spoiled kids in Vegas in front of an Elvis impersonator at 2 am and annulled 55 hours later). The hypocracy and blindness of these brainwashed Jesus freaks is getting harder and harder to take. I know this is just a character in a TV show, but you know the performance is true when it gets your emotions up.
Cosmic Lad's picture

You've really covered it all I think...

You've really covered it all I think... but I just want to add my two cents and say I thought it was a great episode. A little rushed maybe, but I blame that on the writer's strike. But I still loved it all.

It was funny and sweet, and although the big 'there's another Walker' didn't surprise me too much, I am very intruiged to find out about Ryan. He should be about Rebecca's age I'd figure...I just hope he's really cute! 8) The only part I found a bit hard to beleive was they forgot rings! C'mon!

Great recap Steven! I really enjoyed it! Thanks! 8)

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B&S: Damn, Damn, DAMN!!!

You see? I knew they should have waited for next season on this storyline!

So, what do you all think? Should Kevin and Scotty have a do-over and this time have a real wedding ceremony now that it would in fact be a real marriage?

The excuses are all now invalidated, and on the upside it's not like they can make the argument that they already blew a lot of money on their commitment ceremony. Given that the flowers and wine were donated by Nora's backyard and Tommy's winery respectively, and that the venue doubles as Nora's TV room I think they've only been set back a few hundred bucks in groceries.

They're already recycling plotlines anyway. This whole: "We'd like Rebecca and Justin to get it on but we don't want an incest storyline so we're going to make it so she's not a Walker and then make it so that William had yet another mistress with whom he conveniently had a child whose name started with "R"" plot clearly shows that they're not worried about repetition.  While we're at it maybe we should see if Sarah is interested in Republican politicians?

Will breezy dismissals about this not really being a "marriage" hold up now that actual marriage will be an option? How will Kitty and Senator McCoppertone handle a real same-sex marriage rather than just a domestic partnership? Will Nora rise up like Leviathan and use pure power and terror to demand that Kevin submit to her desire for an actual wedding ceremony that she can fuss over like she would for her straight kids? Would the Wandell's reconsider now that we'd know what to call the ceremony rather than alternating between different designations depending on what level of political candor we're feeling like expressing?

These and other questions await answers...

Jake's picture

Final Thoughts

I'm afraid I'd have to agree with everyone who thought the episode was rushed; I'd also say I'm kind tired of some of the story lines - if Rebecca isn't a Walker, there's no point in her and Holly being on the show other than PW is Ken Olin's wife and apparently needs a job. The whole $20M loan thing was too similar to the $15M pension thing and how does Walker Landing all of a sudden have $20M plus in value in less than one year? The only value to this story line is if Sarah was able to get rid of Holly. Given how easy the Walker's on the show dumped Joe, it should be easy for them to dump Rebecca. I also agree there were too many story lines in this episode. The whole adoption thing could be trimmed, and the Rebecca thing could have waited till next season, as well as the Ryan thing waiting till the day after the wedding, plus Sarah having absolutely no basis for thinking Ryan is another Walker. I liked much of what happened this season but this show is too much of a soap opera and I'll be happy to just rent the dvd of season 2 and be able to fast forward through it like I did for the first season.