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Best. Gay. Week. Ever. (September 26, 2008)

A GAY COMIC STRIP? STOP THE PRESSES!
A few months ago, I wrote an article about the pathetic, 1950s-like moratorium on gay characters on the comics pages of the nation’s newspapers and the ridiculous run-around I got from industry insiders trying to justify it.

A few weeks ago, an AfterElton.com reader (whose name I have lost, alas) sent me a tip about a comic strip I wasn’t aware of, The Meaning of Lila, that includes an actual leading gay character and is authored by a gay man, John Forgetta (it’s illustrated by a trio of artists, Justin Raines, Jackie Gentile, and Tony Calabro).

The strip tells the story of Lila and her two friends: “perfect” Drew and best-gay-friend-forever Boyd, who has an ongoing crush on Matthew McConaughey and shares Lila’s fervent desire to finally land a decent boyfriend.

I recently got a chance to talk to John about the strip and the world’s reaction to it.

John Forgetta

AE: How did this come about? What was the inspiration?
JF: Boyd is basically some elements of me, as is Lila. I think both of them combined are all of me. Isn’t that a movie?

AE: What was the reaction of the syndicate?
JF: Creators Syndicate was the only syndicate to accept a strip with a main gay character and has been extremely supportive of the strip for the past four years – even to the point where I wanted to stop it and they convinced me to continue. They’re also very tolerant of my less conservative storylines and copy. I think they realize that comic strips have to change or they’re going to die with the older readership of newspapers.

AE: What is the biggest newspaper for the strip and what kind of markets does it run in?
JF:
Believe it or not, I think the biggest is Stars and Stripes, our newspaper for the Armed Forces, which has had Lila from the very beginning and has stood by it through a firestorm of hate mail. That alone makes me proud to be American and proud of our troops.

The Meaning of Lila is in quite a few major newspapers in the U.S. and Canada, but Stars and Stripes has been very important to me. I do think about our troops probably more than many people because I know they’re reading my comic strip. I want them to be delighted and entertained while they’re out in the world helping us be free. I get quite a bit of fan mail from female and male soldiers and their wives. Well, mostly their wives.

AE: What has the reaction from readers and editors been to the gay elements? Any
controversy?

JF: The Meaning of Lila is the only mainstream comic strip written by a gay man that has a main gay character and has definitely suffered for it. From the emails I’ve received, Boyd has taught me that the most vocal of this country hate gay people and think we’re going to hell. Which is ironic because these are the same people who are supposed to love and not condemn people. A minister wrote to a newspaper last year stating that Boyd is a pedophile. Isn't that sad?

Boyd has also taught me, however, that most people do not hate gays and feel that everyone should be free to live and love, but they’re too busy with their lives to write e-mails.

It’s been a tough road for the strip because editors no longer select comic strips for their variety of content or to appeal to different readers. You have to be voted in by the readership, or rather readers who actually have time to vote. These are mostly older, retired men who can’t seem to get enough of Blondie and Hagar the Horrible. I’ll never get into a newspaper through a vote. To me, features editors have to recognize that younger people do read their newspapers and may read it more if they published content that appealed to them. I absolutely love reading the newspaper and think younger people are nuts if they don’t. Although one of my favorite strips is when Lila and Boyd see a newspaper on a table at Starbucks and think it’s a new kind of placemat.

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