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Mores for Gays video blog (Ep. 6): Hitting the (bridal) showers

It's wedding season, that time when we drop everything and pay anything for our girlfriends who are blushing brides. For some, this might include attending her bridal shower. Now, sure, some bridal showers are co-ed and casual, but being gay might grant you entrance to some of the most traditional all girl bridal showers around.

In this episode of Mores for Gays, Daniel takes us though the paces of being the man at a bridal shower: from dress code to presents to party games, its all covered.

Watch it after the break!

dback's picture

Now can we see one about being in weddings?

Future epitaph: "It seemed like a good idea at the time."

I've done the Best Man thing twice, the Person of Honor thing once, and been a supporting groomsman/usher twice.  Mores and customs have shifted around a great deal, so it'd be nice for a modern recap.  (Fortunately, I didn't have to plan any mondo showers or bachelor/bachelorette parties.)

Metabaron's picture

Adorable

 

Damn, Dan, you are one CUTE mofo.

Bill S's picture

I heartily agree..

I second Metabaron's comment.
Randy's picture

I Concurr

I thirdly Metabaron's comment.

Dan, I tend to get sidetracked by you beauty, beautiful chest. I may have to close my eyes to concentrate on what you're saying.

 

Live Long and Prosper

Ron's picture

Fun stuff, Daniel. I've

Fun stuff, Daniel. I've only been in one wedding, and I was a groomsman. I was also one of the primary participants at the bachelor party. At the bachelorette party, it turned out that all of the guys got bored and wanted to drink, so we just had a big get-together with all of the girls. In summary, I haven't been involved in the ladyside of wedding things. Interesting nonetheless!

Brian Juergens's picture

Man of Honor

I was the Man of Honor (before Patrick Dempsey, thank you very much!) for a very good friend last year and stayed with the ladies for the prep stuff. Thankfully they had a couple's shower, so it was mixed company and not as traditional (although someone did make the bouquet out of ribbons to be thrown at the rehearsal dinner). It was a little odd helping the rest of the bridal party get ready the day of the wedding, but nothing major, and in the end I was just honored to be there for her. Since then I've run into a guy from the hair salon where the gals got their 'dos and he said that I was the best Maid of Honor they've ever seen, probably because I was so freaked out about forgetting something that I was really really organized. I knew what fate awaited me if I were to mess up the bride's big day!
junkscience's picture

I'm a bit confused as to why

I'm a bit confused as to why this column is called Gay Mores, when it just seems to be a video guide on how to behave politely. The word etiquette comes to mind.
Brent Hartinger's picture

That's what "mores" means.

That's what "mores" means. Doesn't he explain that in the beginning?

 

 

 

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junkscience's picture

You're wrong and he

In my most humble opinion, a guide to how gay men should behave at a bridal shower is more a question of etiquette. "Mores For Gays" is a catchy title. Mores and etiquette aren't the same, but whatever. If you'd like to have that discussion, go ahead.

For the record, I very much look forward to this particular v-log, so keep it going. :)

 

edit: why is this comment in bold italics?

 

octobercountry's picture

Well...

Well, I do think that one of the definitions of "mores" is not all that far off from meaning "ettiquette." At any rate, I do enjoy these videos!

mo-res pl.n. (môr'āz', -ēz, mōr'-)

1. The accepted traditional customs and usages of a particular social group.

2. Moral attitudes.

3. Manners; ways.

I'm like a superhero, with no powers or motivation...

junkscience's picture

Forgot to mention that

Forgot to mention that despite the slightly off name (which isn't that big a deal), I really enjoy your videos. :)

Though, you forget to mention to bring flowers for the brides mom. That's usually the person who cares if there are blokes at these events (in my experience).

 

;)

Bill S's picture

And here I was thinking...

"mores" was the plural of "more".  :)

Shows what I know.

 

 

Scandinavian Guy's picture

good advice

thanks, good advice, and I agree with all your fans, very cute
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