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I Can't Believe It's Not Boy Butter

Thanks to the UK's Pinknews for bringing this to our attention. Cable tv stations in New York and Los Angeles will shortly be running the first television commercial ever for a gay sex lubricant. Call me a prude, but I sorta wish they wouldn't. Not that I have anything against personal lubricant advertising, but this particular commercial is so unoriginal, unfunny and crudely suggestive that I think it reinforces some of the worst gay male stereotypes out there.

The ad is a take-off of the "I Can't Believe It's Not Butter" commercials of the 1990's. Only this time the product is Boy Butter and the slogan is "I Can't Believe It's Not Boy Butter."

You never see the actors, just their hands and a closeup of the product which is displayed on a kitchen counter along with some citrus fruits.

Given that the packaging is designed to look like a tub of margarine, I really don't think that anyone should be leaving this product out on their kitchen counters. But really, that's just the start of this commercial's transgressions. The thing ends with a voice-over announcer saying "Try squeezing a little Boy Butter into your tight agenda today!"

Okay, eww. Come on guys, if you're going to produce the first televsion commercial ever for a gay personal lubricant you sort of have an obligation to do something tasteful -- or at least legitimately amusing. This one isn't.

Think I'm being too hard on this thing? Check out the 30 second spot below, and let me know what you think.

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  • poof's picture

    boy butter

    it's not so bad imho..  and I am uninamious in this..

    I'm confused. Is it bitch slap or slap a bitch?

    tjpeople's picture

    Its Great...

    as a JOKE!, it has to be it can't be real thats just stupid.....
    dennis's picture

    Not a joke

    Hey I stress, this is not a joke. Cable companies in New York and Los Angeles have cleared cleared the spot to run on Bravo, Oxygen, E!, and Logo. Here's another source for this story.

    Apparently Comcast has rejected the ad for airing in San Francisco. I say good for Comcast.

     

    brian's picture

    Not to nit-pick, but...

    The product is called "I Can't Belive it's Not Boy Butter" and yet the ad mimics the commercials for Country Crock. Let's not mix our margarine metaphors, gay sex lubricant industry!!! I'm turned off already.
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    Mattie's picture

    Ad aside, the stuff is great

    Boy Butter lube is actually a very good lube. It last a long time
    tjpeople's picture

    That may be ^

    Get.A.Better.PR.Team :/ @Dennis : I wasn't questioning it, just found it hard to believe :O
    Andros's picture

    I believe that sometimes you

    I believe that sometimes you have to spend money to make money. What was the budget of this? It looks very cheesy and doesn't make me trust the product or the company. Gay men have taste remember? Being creative or at least visually nice would have been a good thing on this case.
    Evan's picture

    Standards

    I don't know why you give straight people a pass (Chuck and Larry movie etc) for making fun of gay people and the real discrimination we face daily.  Yet you come down on gay people (Boy Butter etc) when they make lite of our situation.  It should be the other way around.  Straight people should not be defining us like they have for thousands of years unquestioned.  Gay people define gay people.

    I like this commercial.  It's funny and sweet.  The packaging is very clever too.

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    Mattie's picture

    Dennis, you could use a little Boy Butter

    You're kinda uptight on this one.

    It's not a commercial for the HRC, GLAAD or gay rights. IT'S FOR LUBE! Iy was probably shot on as small a budget as possible and I think it's memorable. Yes, they spoofed a different brand, but you knew what they were doing. Plus, how do you spoof commercials that featured Fabio? They were already so gay.

    If we can constantly hear about AfterElton's flying monkeys which is suppose to be clever, then I think "squeeze some in your tight agenda" can be given room on the humor scale as well.

    dennis's picture

    Hey Mattie

    Ouch!

    Okay, maybe I was being hard on the thing but honestly-- lube on a a kitchen counter along with bananas, and cucumbers?

    PS: I'm a Gun Oil man myself.

    Mattie's picture

    Label queen, even with your lube

    dennis wrote:

    Ouch!

    Okay, maybe I was being hard on the thing but honestly-- lube on a a kitchen counter along with bananas, and cucumbers?

    Ouch is what you'll be saying if you use the banana or cucumber without some boy butter lube. Is the placement of the phallic fruits and veggies as well as the ball-shaped objects not obvious?

    dennis wrote:

    PS: I'm a Gun Oil man myself.

    Butch! Gun Oil Lube, developed by Marines for long lasting action. Puh-leeze!


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