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Mores for Gays video blog (118): One Night Stands

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Dennis Ayers

This week Daniel sits down with comedian Edison Apple to delve into the magical world of the one night stand. How does one enter and exit such a delicate and elusive encounter? What is there to worry about in between? These answers and more, after the break!


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    • Submitted by
    Dennis Ayers
    on Mon, 2009-08-31 10:32.
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    boyd's picture

    Are DJs in the same catergory as bartenders and go-go boys?

    Submitted by
    boyd (681 points) (163 posts)
    on Mon, 2009-08-31 11:38.
    I'm thinking yes. Plus, you're likely to get stuck carrying some suitcases of music and other gear....
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    AnotherGayRyan's picture

    i'm still wondering...

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    AnotherGayRyan (60 points) (15 posts)
    on Wed, 2009-09-02 11:06.
    why no on DJ's, bartenders, and go-go boys?  it can't be a "they get around too much" because that's just assumption and book-cover-judgeyness. 
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    David Ehrenstein's picture

    You're talking about 3/4 of my sexual history guys!

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    David Ehrenstein (7805 points) (1725 posts)
    on Mon, 2009-08-31 12:08.

    Phone numbers were ALWAYS exchanged. Staying over sometimes and sometimes not -- depending. No preliminary discussion that "Hey this was just a one-night stand" because it was assumed from the start.

     

    And Safety First of course.

     

    Still one of my greatest sexual experiences was a one-night stand 40 years ago and I have NEVER gotten over it.

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    boyd's picture

    And if you're hosting,

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    boyd (681 points) (163 posts)
    on Mon, 2009-08-31 12:56.
    Definitely have a few non-latex condoms around. Yes, some people are sensitive to latex, but I'm tired of hearing it as a (lame) excuse to skip protection altogether. Wrap it up, fella!
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    Will's picture

    Good Advice for the most part

    Submitted by
    Will (5 points) (1 post)
    on Mon, 2009-08-31 13:10.

    1) I have done the not-showering thing to not hookup thing.

    2) I'm not a fan of the follow-up text, nor the follow-up facebook invite, nor the follow-up message on a4a a month later like "hey i found your profile!"  this all happened to me after my very first 1ns.  

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    Kitty's picture

    I have never had a one night stand...

    Submitted by
    Kitty (1667 points) (382 posts)
    on Mon, 2009-08-31 14:12.

    and plan on never having one, but this vlog would be informative for my male and female friends who are dying to "hook up" by going out on the town, and then a month later they are all beside themselves when they finally have to accept that he's NEVER going to call you back. I hate false promises too, so it's good to know that to avoid future major-meltdown-heartbreak, they should probably be a little more honest about whether or not they want their "encounter" to be a one night stand or not.

    Another fun and funny one Daniel! You never dissapoint!! :)~ 

    Kitty

    http://www.saveiantojones.com/

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