ATWT video clip update: Back to the bottle
Today on As the World Turns, Holden & Lily a have a sit down with Luke and try to get him to accept some personal responsibility for his recent ill-behavior. Luke heads to see Noah to apologize and patch things up, but Noah isn't quite ready to play nice. Despondent, Luke grabs a draft beer from a passing frat boy. Uh oh, this looks like trouble! Check out all the melodrama in today's Nuke video clips after the break.
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Clip 2: If you missed it, be sure and check out Brian's liveblog for this episode. As always, you can find previous, liveblogs, video clips and other goodies over on the ATWT Resource Page. Submitted by on Thu, 2008-11-13 16:12. |
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It's time for the Character Noah to....
leave.
Hopefully the writers have some particularly grisly demise for Noah in store.
Noah's outrageous claim that what Luke did was worse than what Kevin did is ridiculous. Kevin nearly had Butters' girlfriend raped.
Secondly, Nuke should get over themselves. They have never had sex and it's been 18 + months since they've met. There is no "relationship" here.
Luke should just hook-up with Reg and get it over with.
And Afterelton should stop covering ATWT because the producers and owners of the Soap are just toying with this audience. I don't think we'll EVER see any consumation
If Anyone Should Get To Have Sad I Just Brokeup Sex With Reg
It's My Boy Noah!
Luke shouldn't get to have sex until he's willing to leave the frickN farm.
And I am unanimous in that!
"Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorthy Parker)
There's only so much
nuke
As the World Turns is in a no win situation with the Luke and Noah storyline. First people complain that they don't kiss...now they kiss too much. Then people complain that the relationship is unrealistic because there's no strife. Now there's plenty of strife between them and people are complaining. Then they complain Luke is too perfect, and now they complain about his fall from grace.
With the revelation of Brian's sexuality this show will have 5 gay characters (counting Reg and his boyfriend). That is amazing! Luke's descent into alcoholism (after a liver transplant no less), Brian's exploration of his sexuality, Lucinda's eventual heartache,
and Noah's disenchantment with Luke is an excellent storyline. I have started watching the show again and hope other people will too.
it
5 gays
I'd love to see Luke fall from grace and redeem himself, just like his mom. But I don't recall his mom being shot down for supporting the equal rights amendment or fighting for women's rights.
At the risk of digging my hole even deeper...
...I think you are losing perspective on this show. The show is FULL of negative stereotypes. The red-neck single mother that tosses off comments about putting the child "over her knee", the brainless European debutante that only cares about diamonds, the bratty child that goes to any length to break up her daddy and his girlfriend, slutty teen girls (couple of those), I could go on, but you get my point.
I think you are overstating the negative character of the gay guys. I think the other characters on the show are much worse. The gay guys are getting embroiled in fights and dramas, but so let them. Like Darcolover said a while back, when you are a young gay college student, being gay is all you think about. It makes sense that the drama surrounding them right now would be gay related. If any of these characters make it 10 or 20 years on this show (good grief- will the show make it?) then I would be pretty annoyed if their dramas were still about being gay. But, give the stories a chance to develop. These are very young characters and they have just started writing gay people into the show. Let them work on it a little.
I agree that the writing is shitty. I've been saying that all along. But, I still want to see what they do with it. And considering how many comments these liveblogs get, I'd guess that lots of other people still care, too.
I say we take the warning labels off everything and let nature take it's course.
I dig it
I get you're point, what the show is missing is a chicken stealing black man and a money hungry jew to go into business with the predatory gay and open a sex slave trade route with the arab, so they can balance out the sassy kid, (not stormcloud or the other) and the gold digging woman (not Emma) and the bad cop (not Dallas) It's one thing to play on human frailty, and completely different to play up minority stereotypes.
I think there are 6 gays on the show
I got the impression that Joe (aka, the Dungeonmaster) was also gay, and he kind of initiated the whole stuffing the ballot process.
But it's also true that the show really has no "positive" stereotypes; even the "good" characters--such as cops Margo and Jack--don't hesitate to bend the law when it suits their purposes.
Given the 50 year backstory of this show, and the several strong actors in the cast, the show has potential...it's just the godawful writing torpedos their efforts.
(I'm curious to know if anybody from the show reads this site; surely they must be aware how disappointed and frustrated so many of us fans are with the current behind-the-scenes regime.)
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They don't listen to critism
Honestly Joseph, I don't think anyone from the show reads this site. The producer has explained that they are interested in what the "fans" have to say. They don't listen to "critics."
I haven't been watching the show long enough to catch all the cop stereotypes, when has Dallas bent the law in order to help a brother out? When has Bonnie fudged the facts and played dirty because some one used the N wrod? The show would be crucified if they did that.
And if a somewhat suspicious black man became overcome with lust at the sight of a vulnerable white woman? I'm sure there is a way they could make that look innocent.
That's a valid point.
I hadn't considered that. Does put it in perspective.
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agreed!
This is a SOAP OPERA! It was
I'm Sorry But....
I'm Sorry, Tooo, But ....
..... I'm not down with this excuse that just because this is a soap opera that they can get away with writing in negative gay stereotypes!
I know that soaps indulge in excessive behavior. I have suggested in the past that they take the shine off Luke's halo, and welcome it. I think what's ill is how they are doing it.
Why does his screw up have to be a "Gay" screw up? Luke isn't trying to bully his way into control of a company out of greed like his grand mother, he isn't screwing with an old flame like his mother and he isn't screwing his lovers best friend like his father. Luke is investigating "the gay world" for the first time, and like the Movie, Go Ask Alice, he is finding out how predictably horrifying that world is. Gay politics drive you to go overboard and cheat and lie and act irrationally -just like we know every gay political action does (heck, look at the protesters in California.) And the gay world is filled with sexual predators.
There are a million ways that Luke can fall from grace, make that three million and plus some. Why does his fall have to center on the fact that he is gay, and on the way down why are gay characters waiting in the wings to take advantage of him? This particualar fall from grace confims the AFA's world view of the gay life style writ small.
To excuse this because it is poor writing, or mellow dramatic writing, or soap writing doesn't excuse the fact that this is a poor, mellow dramatic, soap story that focuses on gay stereotypes. The argument you and others suggest is a red herring. I think that the producers of Procter and Gamble are trying to punish gay for speaking out against thier program in the only way they know how. By showing gays as radical and untrustworthy. (of course their good eunuch gays aren't like that or are about to learn their lesson when they are.)
Anyway let's just lay back and take it. We all know that these sterotypes are based on a certain ammount of truth.
God, Nukely...
...I dont' think it shows gays as radical and untrustworthy. I don't think it's a "gay fall from grace". I think it shows how passionate and impulsive Luke was and it shows how badly he felt cornered by what Kevin and his creepy friends were doing to not only Luke's reputation but to Luke's friends ie: Alison.
I think it has begun to show that Luke is not a bad person and feels regret for his knee-jerk reaction and mistake. It also shows Luke is a human being with all the good and bad that goes with that. I was beginning to think they were going to canonize Luke or something. Thank heavens he finally snapped and acted naughty.
I think it will show that Luke will go through a certain amount of hell over taking a drink again and losing his boyfriend. But, I believe it will also show that Luke has the strength and common sense to over come this, make amends and get his boyfriend back. At least I hope they don't turf Jake over this. I would be sad to see that actor go just yet. I don't think this story is even half over yet.
I say we take the warning labels off everything and let nature take it's course.
agreed
We already know luke is passionate and impulsive, he's one of the character's who've been allowed to preserve a modicum of their essence. He could have been cornered by anyone! Kevin or anyone. He was cornered as a gay activist, not as a lover or businessman or as a student. The writers actively chose how to corner him. Corner him any way you want! Luke will still end up feeling the same regret and need to redeem himself. Corner him as a lover and the subtext is passion over commitment and he needs to redeem his loyalty, corner him as a business man and the subtext is greed over love and he needs to redeem his loyalty, corner him as a student and the subtext is achievement (vanity) over honer an he needs to redeem honer, corner him as a gay activist what do you place in the subtext?
He has strength to overcome everything. We should all be able to understand that by now. It isn't the overcoming; it's the journey. The subtext deals with a completely different part of the story.
The rummor I read is that the VL saff (?) flew over to advise ATWT and walked away from the first meeting? Don't know if any of it's true, but I gotta believe that that is what would happen. I mean what I read was VL left, who wouldn't. Cute story, true or not.
ps we're good. Actually you're great, but you and me are good.
I didn't see...
...Luke as being cornered as a gay activist. Luke only decided to run against Kevin because Kevin was being an idiot and only concerned with partying. I guess if Kevin had have been concerned with doing the right thing by all the students of the school, including the gay film fest students, Luke would have supported him. The gay thing didn't start until after the battle lines had been drawn, to the best of my recollection. I didn't remember the gay film fest as being the first issue, at least it certainly wasn't with Kevin. Luke wanted to retain funding for the film fest but first he wanted to prevent the idiot Kevin from winning based on "Party On" attitude, didn't he? Mark was the one that turned it into a "gay" fight by posting the video of Luke. Mark could have used anything against Luke but chose to use the most low-down and dirty tactic of a sexual slur.
It seems to me that Luke wasn't cornered as a gay activist but he was cornered "by" homophobes taunting him for being gay. The onus is on them for their dirty tactics, not on Luke for reacting from a "gay activist" point of view. Do you see the difference?
The subtext is being cornered as a minority and lashing out with dishonesty and cheatery. And he redeems his honesty with owning his mistake and apologizing to the people he hurt. I don't think it's a gay subtext thing. After reading the *volumes* that you and Darcolover have written, I am exhausted. But, I still don't believe that the AFA are gaining any ground over this story line. They are losing more and more everyday. I have yet to decide on the whole Brian as a predator thing.
It feels vaguely insulting to be told that I (we) are the only ones that can't possibly see anti-gay messages and anti-gay subtext and anti-gay writing. I'm not young (damn it), I'm not naive, I'm not uneducated, and as a reasonably intelligent person, I don't think I'm living in la-la land in how I percieve this show. All I can think is that if the AFA really had their way, there would be no gays seen or heard anywhere ever, and no child would ever learn what the word meant. The amount of discussion and debate that this show has generated in the last year and a half on forums, magazines and even news has been unprecedented. That can only be a good thing in the long run even if we have to suffer the horrid writing and foot stompingly frustrating pace that this story is told at.
Nukely, you and me are good. Good friends, good debators, good critics. I think of us as kind of like Siskel and Ebert. Remember how they used to fight and argue? (of course it killed one of them :(
I say we take the warning labels off everything and let nature take it's course.
Luke fell gay
Luke ran because he had a gay agenda: to preserve Noah's film festival. That was the reason he ran. His very first meeting with Kevin, Luke asks him outright if he will cancel the festival if he becomes elected.
By cornered, I meant that 'gay' is the subtext that the writers chose to create for Luke's fall. He had to fall sooner or later. The very first time he falls it is because he is gay. He could have fallen because of business, to save his family, out of selfishness for his foundation, out of envy or jealousy or lust...... But no -they chose "gay activist."
You're saying the subtext is Luke being cornered as a minority. Fine. Why is Luke being punished for being picked on as a minority? And why does this have to take place in the subtext of him as a gay activist? And why does his very first fall from grace have to occur in the subtext of being a gay activist?
The View draws tons of commentary on the web, in forums etc. I don't know that that means the show has been healthy, or portrayed issues correctly or any of that. One of the reasons The View has generated hype is because of it's poor treatment of these types of issues, same with ATWT. At best P&G seem to be trying to please or piss off everyone in equal measure. I don't appreciate being played because at the end of the day gays always come out looking worse. You can commend P&G for that. Many have and do.
I'ts great when characters screw up!
The current Nuke storyline is terrific because both Luke and Noah are acting like real people. In other words, they're basically good people, but with quirks and failings that can occasionally get them into deep trouble. The good and the bad coexist, just like with real people. They fight, and they're both wrong, and yet both right at the same time. It's not that there's one "hero", and one person who made a mistake and has to be redeemed. And both characters seem well-fleshed and multi-leveled, with not a trace of stereotype.
I also think that for a change the writing in this storyline has been quite good. Some of the exchanges have been riveting. And Van's acting has also risen to new heights in a couple of scenes. I've got my fingers crossed that they might have moved the story and characters to a new level, but I can't help but have the fear that they'll go back to the silliness of the past.
I'm really looking forward to the upcoming episodes. The fall off the wagon, the issue with Wheatables, the effort to save the relationship - if that's all handled as well as what they did this week I can't wait!
Honestly?
Rest assured if ATWT's ever portrays a gay male who is feminine or a butch lesbian the characters will be punished for it accordingly. So, nothing to worry about there. We're all happy.
I'm not sure what to say; I
I'm not sure what to say; I guess I just have a different perception than you do about what's going on here.
This will probably make you throw up in your mouth, but I would love it if ATWT would write in a feminine male character. And have him become good friends with Luke or Noah or both. One of the things that has bothered me about both Luke and Noah is the degree to which ATWT has gone out of its way to make both of them as "straight-acting" as possible. I'd like to see one of them have a thing for Judy Garland, or be into dance, or dress a bit flamboyantly, or even just mention they love the Scizzor Sisters or Rufus.
hell no
Thow up a little? Hell no. I haven't been shy about the fact that I have a thing for sissy boys (and sissy men.) When you wrote "with not a trace of stereotype." I thought that was what you werre referring to. BTW Noah did have a thing for old movies back when he was straight.
The fact that you don't see a "trace" of stereotyping and I think ATWT has played on just about every one means we are lookig at this show from two completely different angles. I don't think people want to admit it, or the gay baiting is so well hidden, they chose to ignore it. I just feel that that is how the AFA wins. We get "ground breaking first time gays on daytime", they get Auntie Toms.
Dirty Politics Are Dirty Politics Regardless of Whom You're Doin
It seems to me that Kevin and Mark played dirty politics first and Luke and Cassie responded in kind.
I think if this has been some kind of campaign between two opposing Gay candidate, I might see the "gay" in it
Let me just say also that what is or isn't a negative stereotype with regard to race and sexual orientation and gender is incredibly subjective.
Soap operas are all one long meditation on male and female stereotypes (in terms of straight folks) and no one seems to have much of a problem with the hysterical damsels constantly in distress. It's campy and funny and over the top because that's what soaps are about. Melodrama. Outrageous behavior that can't really be justified in the real world
As per Luke's being punished for his "gay politics", I don't think he's anymore uppity about his politics than he is in general. Which is to say, Luke is a be uppity to begin with (having more to do with who is mother and maternal grandma are than anything else). He is insanely impatient and Can Not Stand not to get exactly what he wants when he wants it how he wants it. Most of the time it's charming but sometimes it does come out as a bit "Diva" and that would be true even if he were straight (Holden can also be a "Diva" which he showed during the whole "Luke in a wheel chair, Lily hangs with Dusty" period)
People's first forays into politics tend to come from some personal experience or desire to make the world better based on personal experience that there is injustice in the world.
Kevin's political platfrom was totally about WHO he is (frat boy, partier, big white male on campus. ) but we tend to treat that as "generic" college boy.
Luke's stuffing the ballot box is not some particularly "gay" way of trying to win the election. It was one of those dirty tricks that Noah was worried Luke would be driven to if he didn't get his priorities in check.
If you compare political tactics, what Luke did is certainly not any where near as EVIL as kidnapping, threat of rape and the public humiliation and homophobia displayed by the video Mark uploaded to the web.
The problem is, Luke's actions had the power to rob the entire student body of a fair election and it "stole" the votes of those students who wanted Kevin as their president. As F'd up as Kevin and Mark are, rigging the election doesn't just punish them. If I were a student, I would be a lot more pissed with Luke and Cassie. Kevin and Mark are scum (no question) but if the student body chose to fairly elect scum, then Luke needed to find another way to be heard regarding the Film Festiva and work through his personal (though very valid) issues with Kevin's present and past behavior some other way.
But it seems pretty clear to me that Luke didn't do what he did Because he's Gay, he did it Because he's Luke. The same Luke that chased Noah to NYC, chased Noah to Chicago, etc It's part of his personality to go after something full on and not really think about the consequences. Part of what I love about his character
All the comments I've read on the youtube clips (both Anthony's and Lukvanfans) seem to very clearly see the difference between these actions.
Luke should be punished for his actions, ABSOLUTELY, but so should Kevin and Mark (seems to be the general feeling in the comments)
What has disturbed me here and on other blogs is this idea that Luke shouldn't be involved in politics that are "about" being gay because that is somehow limiting which I think is backwards and part and parcel of the "we are so post gay" kind of mentality that has kept young gay folks from being politically active in gay causes and kept most of them out of the anti-Prop8 political activities previous to the vote.
There is nothing wrong with a gay man or lesbian or any age standing up for their rights as a gay person and calling out oppression wherever they see it. It should not just be something folks do when they are young but it should certainly be a part of any young out gay person's world.
Because the gay students are apparently such a minority on the OU campus, Luke was kind of alone in his fight (with the exception of Cassie et al) and that's just pitiful.
In terms of Luke and Noah as representations of gay, I really love the fact that neither of them felt the need to radically change their appearance or behavior upon coming out but I also really love that Reg is not super masculine (and neither is Luke even though he's a sports lover). Reg is very fierce about gay rights and gay student activities and Tony is a little bit promiscuous and kind of a party boy. I love it all because I think together as a group, they represent different ways of being young gay men but not in opposition to each other.
I never perceived Reg and Tony as pervy or "the bad gay" and I've not heard any other commentors (other than on AE) refer to them in that way. If anything, most folks think they are "normal" and Luke and Noah are the oddballs for being so chaste. (But let's not get into that again...)
"Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorthy Parker)
"Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorthy Parker)
sad
I think if this has been some kind of campaign between two opposing Gay candidate, I might see the "gay" in it...
Both of Luke's only real experiences with the "gay lifestyle" have resulted in stereotypes that the AFA project. 1) sex hungry hot tub action, 2) over zealous activists who are willing to lie and cheat to get their way. I was willing to overlook the one, but this is starting to be a trend. His third experience looks to be a predatory closet case.
You know, Harriet Beecher Stowe never meant for Uncle Tom to be a pejorative worthy character. The stroy was considered ground breaking at the time.
"It's Subjective?" That's your excuse for bigotry? Many, many, many women and men have spoken out about the blatant sexism in the show. Yet, you seem to believe that because, "no one seems to have much of a problem," with it, therefore soaps should get a free ride when it comes to any other from of discrimination? Good excuse, when you can get away with it.
I understand Luke's impatience and diva qualities, but those same qualities could have been used to have him compromise his future with Noah in a millions ways, as I said. One moral of Luke's experience is that gay politics = cheating and lying = loss of face. Why did he have to cheat and lie as a gay protest, why not as a businessman or student or foundation diva?
I'm feeling like several people keep picking up the exact same rock and hurling it at me and I keep holding up the same shield.
The rock: Because this is a mellow drama.
The shield: I enjoy the drama, why does it have to be a mellow drama that stereotypes gays?
The rock: Because this is a mellow drama.
The shield: I'm not questioning the drama part. There are a million dramas to pick from -why does Luke's story have to draw on gay stereotypes?
The rock: Because this is a mellow drama.
The shield: I know, I accept the fact fully that this is a drama, and a soap opera and a mellow drama, but why does it have to be a drama about cheating, lying gay activists?
The rock: Because this is a mellow drama.
The shield: good grief, how long is this suppose to go on?
The rock: Because this is a mellow drama.
Again, again and 5 times again, I am not questioning what Luke did is wrong, or that he is flawed and dramatic. What I am questioning is that being gay and acting out on it is the cause of his down fall, his diva qualities are merely the symptoms or better yet his own personal style. The writers had many choices on how to bring this angel down and punish him; they chose to make him into a zealot of gay rights and punish him for that. That's where the moralizing comes in.
This turn of events is very unlike Luke, even his father and mother agree. I don't know what show you've been watching? This is a dramatic character turn. I welcome it, but again, again, again, why did his down fall and turn have to revolve around being a gay activist? Even Noah chided him for it, in case we didn't get the subtext.
Here's the thing Nukely
1) It feels like you frequently assume that I (specifically) would see things differently if the characters in question were black which if you knew me, you're realize how crazy that is. I don't have a different standard for how I want black or female characters to be treated in media than I do for how I want gay and lesbian characters to be treated. It all affects me.
Dallas and Bonnie are black, yes, but honestly I think the fact that no one every talks about them being black or they never have any issues related to being black in a CLEARLY mostly white midwestern town is kind of surreal and crazy but I don't watch the show for them so honestly, I don't really care what happens to them unless it's related to Nuke.
But since you brought it up, let's go there for a minute. If Dallas broke the law in order to bring down someone for using the N word, I would support him losing his badge. I wouldn't necessarily think it was the writers trying to bring down the Uppity Negro. "Words" are not illegal. It wouldn't be the first time he'd heard the word and it wouldn't be the last time either. Dallas would have no right, regardless of how he felt personally, to arrest someone for being a racist twat because being a racist twat isn't illegal. He would also have not right to break the very laws he's sworn to uphold just to punish someome for hurting his feelings.
If Bonnie had to represent a member of the White Supremacy of Oakdale and didn't do so to her best abilities because her client kept calling her mammy, she should be disbarred.
And yes, it would suck if folks decided to just assume that all black lawyers and police officers were partial to black causes at the expense of other things or if viewers took the storyline to mean something about whether or not they could trust black officers of the law or courts to have their best interests (as white citizens and potential clients) to heart.
I don't know why you seem to assume that I'm always going to think differently about racial issues than I would about gay issues just because I happen to be black.
I would hope that's not the case.
I'm Black and I'm a Lesbian. How could I possible prioritize one over the other?
You Stated:
Nukely Quote
"Let me see if I understand, by the same token, if Kevin had been running against a black man and put up a youtube video depicting his opponent as lazy, violent and wanting to recruit gangs in the school quad, you would have found it entertaining and intriguing to see the black candidate stoop to dirty politics in order to get his way, and then take the fall for reacting to the bigotry? That's the kind of stories you write? (and the only way you would see the racism in it is if it was between two opposing black candidates?)"
1) I never said I thought how Luke behaved was entertaining. Other people have said that. I did not. What I said was that "I" as a viewer who is gay, recognize that Luke is behaving the way that he does because he is "Luke", not because he is "Gay" and I've observed that many viewers are able to get that. (based upon what I've read from comments sections)
2) I think what Kevin did was dispicable and I think Luke was completely justified in losing his SHIZNIT over it!. If Kevin had done a similar kind of thing with regards to a black opponent and the black opponent (who was his former best friend) had gotten totally crazed about it, I still wouldn't think stuffing the ballot boxes was a reasonable solution.
The issues would be the same : 1) A Straight/White Candidate who is in the majority using ugly stereotypes and homophobia/racism to try to influence potential voters to win the election 2) Two former best friends going up against each other in a race that SHOULD just be about student government issues but is really as much about racisim and homophobia and betrayal as it is anything else.
I wish that the writers had NOT written this story the way that they did only because it seems to have taken away from what I thought would be a great storyline about what it means to be an out student in a non-urban environment.
I don't disagree with you that they COULD HAVE written a cajillion other senarios to give Van something to sink his teeth into and give Luke and Noah some non-crazy daddy drama.
It sucks that Luke's first foray into gay politics came down to this.
But again, I could see the same scenario happening if Allie had been ex lovers with kevin and they were both students running for office and Kevin/Mark had decided to use her having done porn or her sister-mother situation as fodder to bring her down. I could see her going just as crazy and doing ridiculous things and Emily and Allie's friends trying to talk her down to no avail and her getting expelled for stuffing the ballot box.
We're dealing with a young gay man. But I don't see everything he does as "Hey folks, this is how a gay would do it". I don't think most viewers are so ignorant that the don't know this as well.
I just think you are underestimating the audience's ability to see things for what they are. If this was the first time that Luke had flipped out and done something extreme to get what he wanted, then yes, I would say how could the audience not think it's some kind of "gay way" of doing things.
But I guess I'm just giving the audience the benefit of the doubt to see Luke as an individual young man who happens to approach life a certain way (whether it's the student government election or his parents divorce, he's all "I WANT IT LIKE THIS AND I'M GONNA HAVE IT LIKE THIS AND CONSEQUENCES BE DAMNED"
3) I didn't write the script so I can't possibly know what the writers intended. I can only know how I interpreted what's happening in front of me.
4) Finally, You Quote Me
Darcolover Wrote: I really love the fact that neither of them felt the need to radically change their appearance or behavior upon coming out
Nukely Wrote: You know what? I could go on a diatribe over that one comment, but I won't. I want to pause and reflect on it. Because it makes me feel very, very sad. That's what happens when I repress my anger.
I'm very confused by your "anger". That just seem like a strong reaction to my saying I'm glad Luke and Noah are basically treated like individuals.
Why in the world does this make you angry? All I meant was I loved the fact that both characters Noah and Luke (at least as far as I can tell) maintained their sense of self while also being out and proud and gay and a couple. They don't just agree about everything simply because they are both gay.
They are very different from each other and they differ on how to deal with issues even though they are both very pro gay. This was true before Noah came out and it's true now.
Two gay mean who love each other and are equally angry about the film festival being de-funded and the homophobia it represents can argue so much about the right thing to do.
Whomever we think is right or wrong, they have differing points of view because Noah and Luke approach the world differently. It's not like one is the "bad" gay and one is the "good gay.
As for their style,
I would love there to be MORE diversity in how gay and lesbians characters are depicted. More feminine boys and more butch grrls who are queer on television would more closely reflect my reality for sure. I'd love to see gay men who are sloppy and not totally fit and lesbians with a bit of belly who hate lipstick and have duct tape holding their boots together and aren't slaves to the idea of what "gay" or "lesbian" "Should" look like.
It would have been weird if Noah had suddenly stopped wearing t-shirts and jeans and plaids and started wearing Armani because he "thought" he had to dress differently in order to show his pride as a gay man.
It would have sucked if Luke had stopped liking sports or hanging out with his family because he "thought" he couldn't do so as a young gay man because it wasn't cool.
That said, who decided the hot tub party was a bad thing?
Who says Reg is a "bad" gay because he's outspoken about homophobia
Who says Tony is a "stereotype". He's a college aged man who drinks, smokes pot and wants to have random sex. Is that unusual for a college aged guy? gay or straight?
I'm not a television writer. I'm a librarian. I'm not going to attempt to rewrite the script of a soap opera.
But I do think there is more than One way of interpreting things and I don't even pretend to know what the writers WANT me to think (nor do I care). I also don't pressume to know what the viewers are thinking (beyond what I read in the comments sections).
I'm not ignorant with regard the stereotypes on ATWT (racial, gendered, gay, lesbian), but I'm not blinded by them either.
Every character/actor that is marginalized or a minority in some way has multiple subject positions. They have to try to represent both the individual character while also being aware that they MAY represent some larger group (intentionally or not) who's image/treatment will be affected by their characterization or the way in which the storyline/character is written.
Maybe you are right and the viewers won't be able to distinquish any of Luke's actions from his being gay and dealing with homophobia.
Maybe the viewers do think that Reg and Tony are evil sex having gays who pray on "innocent" "virginal" couples like Nuke. But wouldn't they have to be more than a little bit twisted to think that?
I just hope that you are not right.
"Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorthy Parker)
I'm sorry
Seriously why are you so mean? Have I offended you in some way?
Seriously, are we 10? This is not a competition Nukely. I don't recall implying that I was competeing with you nor was I trying to out talk you or silence you.
If there is a word limit, someone please tell me and I'll adhere to it.
Aren't we each just saying what we think and responding to each other?
What does the number of words have to do with anything?
I comment and bring up points with you because we think so differently about things that it actually makes me think about things I might not have when I try to see things from your viewpoint.
I wasn't interested in what you had to say, I wouldn't bother to respond to you specifically. What would be the point?
We don't have to agree but we don't have to be rude either.
And really? "You go girl" ? Seriously? Is that where we are now in terms of discourse?
I don't know exactly know how you meant that phrase or why you felt it was applicable to me. For me it is very racially coded.
Perhaps you didn't mean for it to be a a snark at my being a "woman" or a "black woman" or just a "big mouthed woman" but once could see how I might take it that way.
I don't live in your head so I have no idea how you meant it but I'll tell you how I took it, not well.
How bout we just call a truce. I won't respond to you and you won't respond to me and then neither has to worry about the other's "perimeters".
Whatever you need to say after this, I will bite my tongue because I just don't think we're on the same wave length.
So um, Peace Out Brother.
"Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorthy Parker)
My reply part 2
Because of the way the comments are stacked, I clicked the wrong reply button and the first part of my diatribe starts below this part. Click here to read My reply part 1
Part two , again using Darcolover55's numbering system.
1) As far as the reason why you dig the Luke story line, I don't know what benefit you see from the show and the 'drama' that is constantly being touted.
2) I don't think anyone thinks that stuffing the ballot boxes was justified. What I find unjustifiable is that Luke's fall from grace had to involve stuffing a gay ballot box, rather than cheat on Noah, say, like every other good Soap Drama. The writers wrote and the producers approved a story that shows gay activism as inciting the worst in people and this is what happens to people who get "too uppity" about gay politics. My experience with the Nuke fan sites confirms that the majority of the fans at those sites wish to see gay political voices squelched, and certain among them are nodding their heads in agreement with the AFA when they see Luke go down because of his involvement with gay politics. That is what happens to gay activists, they always go too far. Look at the nasty protesters in California stepping way out of line and protesting a private institution like the Mormon Church!
1) this race was about a Straight/White Candidate using ugly homophobia.
2) this race was about two former best friends who go against each other one using homophobia to defeat the other.
The whole point of my analogy is that if it were about black issues and Luke was the first or only person of color on the show, people would be outraged.
The only critique you have against the story is because it takes away from "what it means to be an out student in a non-urban environment." And that is exactly why I think this story sucks. Because it shows the perils of what can happen to an out student in a non-urban environment. They get mixed up with gay politics, loose their mind and are driven to do nasty things. If Luke had never gotten mixed up in the gay agenda of promoting Noah's gay movie festival, he would never be in this mess, now would he? Tsk. (is that how you write a tongue click?)
Allie is a straight white woman. Nobody is going to attach any meaning to her actions. If she steals a chicken so what? Besides there are plenty, plenty, plenty of straight white characters on the show to balance out any despicable thing a straight white woman could do. Your comparison is weak at best and reaching way too far.
And let's see what happens when ATWT finally decide to treat Nuke like everybody else: Luke is brought to his knees (not in a good way) because of a gay political scandal of his own damn gay making. How the hell is the AFA audiance and the anti-gay crowd (who can't stand to even watch them kiss) suppose to read that? And how baout the Van Fans and Nuke fans who are poised to hate gay activists and politics because we have dared to critisize the program? What are they suppose to think, (because I know they're grinning from ear to ear?)
I see this story as a nasty turn of events created by ATWT in order to get their fans to hate gay politics even more than they all ready do. ATWT are playing the gay community in the worst possible way, and dividing our allies not bringing us together. Like usual they are laughing all the way to the bank and sure to get an award for it.
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Darcolover Wrote: I really love the fact that neither of them felt the need to radically change their appearance or behavior upon coming out
Nukely Wrote: You know what? I could go on a diatribe over that one comment, but I won't. I want to pause and reflect on it. Because it makes me feel very, very sad. That's what happens when I repress my anger.
I'm very confused by your "anger". That just seem like a strong reaction to my saying I'm glad Luke and Noah are basically treated like individuals.
Maintained their sense of self? (where gays typically have not?) And in the above quote you were trying to say that Luke and Noah "don't just agree about everything" that's what you actually were trying to imply when you wrote about a radical change to their "appearance or behavior upon coming out"? Really?
Your original quote looks like a very poorly veiled put down on the appearance or behavior of certain members of our community. You underline that by suggesting what? "Luke and Noah are individuals" meaning that you are disappointed in non-individuals who feel "the need to radically change their appearance or behavior upon coming out" And who pray tell would those disingenuous individuals be. I would love to hear you describe them without any insinuation.
Because now you seem to suggest that those individuals don't "Maintain their sense of self" and that looks like you are trying to back peddle. I'm not buying it.
I don't expect you to understand why your comment depresses and angers me, but perhaps there is a frustrated soul out there who is comforted by my reaction. What you wrote there made me feel alone in the worst possible way. Your back peddling even more so.
I guess that in your next section of writing you were trying to show why you're proud that Luke and Noah preserved their 'individual' appearance and behavior?
Or are you saying that typically a buff, cute jocky boy will learn from his first experience in a gay bar that no one will want to talk to him and associate with him and so by the end of the night he will have transformed himself and start to change his "appearance and behavior" from what to what? From the old jocky persona that the kids in school never encouraged now changed into a gay screamer? That's what you seem to be implying.
Or are you saying that a typical character on a TV show will change his "appearance and behavior" soon after he comes out of the closet and you're glad that ATWT didn't do that?
Or are you saying that you personally are disgusted with some of the changes in "appearance and behavior" that you have witnessed in the gay community, and you're glad ATWT didn't pick up on that?
There have been many, many, many college aged guys on ATWT in it's run. Some are fantastic some are villains. Most are typical. There have been very, very, very few college aged gay guys on ATWT. Of the three with any significant part in the plots, one was sex crazed the other a ballot stuffer. Let's see, 2 out of 3 are nasty. Great odds. I'm guessing that the next gay college student that Luke and Noah run across will be preparing to shoot up the campus.
You're saying that you don't understand the principles of writing and you would rather ignore the impact that the written word has on people, I get that.
I was trying to come up with a good example, you know an example of where ignoring how most people interpret a stereotype has hurt us, but my head starts to explode. So, maybe you can help me out. Think for a long second back to the 1970s, 1960s and before. Think of a negative stereotype portrayed on film. Now, try NOT to imagine "what the viewers are thinking" when they watched that terrible stereotype. Why the hell would you want to do that?
The stereotypes, like "sex fiend", that surround gay people were created long before I was born. They are ingrained in our society. The work of gay rights advocates is to erase those stereotypes. ATWT seeks to profit from them. I consider that particularly wicked. And it would be less frightening but so many of our supporters and gay people them selves seem to be embracing it.
Hope isn't the word I would use to describe the works of ATWT and P&G, terrified is more like it.
Darcolover55, you conveniently skipped one of my analogies. I know it hasn't happened yet but I asked "if a somewhat suspicious black man became overcome with lust at the sight of a vulnerable white woman?" My point here has been that there is a trifecta of gay stereotypes going on at ATWT. Brian will continue the trend we have all ready seen forming.
I am wondering if anyone actually read this whole thing, because I spent half my day trying to address what I thought was about 2,000 words of blather after being shamed into writing a response.
The number of words has nothing to do with anything. A barrage of spurious and tangental arguments has absolutely nothing to do with anything. It's just that a 1,750+ word comment at a blog is daunting and, dare I say, a bit egotistical.
Shame on me for not saying that directly the first time. But please, don't let me or anyone stifle your opinion. I would actually like to see a sharper opinion from you, (even if it is against me) and a sharp opinion usually comes from self-editing.
The only reason I wrote this lengthy response to you is because I felt guilted into it after throwing in the towel and then you calling me mean for that.
A racial slur was the furthest thing from my mind when I wrote the 'you go girl' phrase. For me, the phrase is very much the kind of blather that I hear coming from dimwits at the bar who think they are being witty. I don't know which insult is going to be worse, but believe me, I never intended to insult you because you have disclosed your race, I meant to insult you because I thought what you were writing in that instance was blather.
Rest assured, I have now erased that phrase from my vocabulary.
So um, Peace Out Sister.
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My reply part 1
darcolover55, I will try to use your numbering system for your points while responding, no there is no word limit. I have taken the time to read yours I hope you take the time to read mine. And I won't limit myself to an issue or a single tangent and I won't limit my self from rehashing over topics we have all ready rehashed to death.
1) I draw the comparisons between black and gay because I believe there is a double standard going on with many viewers, not just you. If you want to own up to or deny that -go a head. Don't take it personal. But if you notice, you and I are keeping this thread alive.
Did you even read my comparison. I wrote what if Dallas fudged the Law in order to "help a brother out." and what if Bonnie obstructed justice because someone used the 'n' word?
If the first time the lone black cop fell from grace was because he chose to "help a brother out" (a stereotype of black police officers) viewers would scream. If the first and only time the black lawyer fell from grace was when she obstructed justice in order to put someone in jail just for calling her 'n', (self righteousness, another stereotype) people would scream. Maybe you wouldn't, for the sake of this argument. I highly doubt that.
But since I brought it up, you didn't go there for a minute. Instead you drew completely different comparisons which not only don't relate to the double standard I was pointed to, but fall far from the mark so that you could make a completely different and spurious comment.
But since you brought that up, allow me to go there for a minute. I agree, if Dallas broke the law, he should be kicked off the force. In case you remember, this is an analogy of the treatment of Luke. So, again I agree with you, Luke should be kicked out of school for ballot stuffing. That isn't my point. My point is that Luke was made into a fiendish gay activist who is willing to do what ever it takes for his own selfish reasons.
And again, I never drew the analogy of a white supremacist and Bonnie defending one, though that would be an interesting story. Again we agree if she wasn't able to defend them, she should step down from the case and not compromise her authority (she's a defense lawyer btw.) But since you brought that up, allow me to go somewhere else for a minute. If the only case that a black lawyer, Bonnie, had ever tied in Oakdale revolved around the fact that she obstructed justice because the prosecution, using disgusting racist images and text, depicted herself in a video, And then the writers had her react by obstructing justice, And then the writers punished her by having her disbarred -you're saying Nobody would raise an eyebrow over that? You're saying nobody would be crying unfair? Makes me go hmmmm.
It isn't a question of do some poeple think that way -What sucks is when TV shows reinforce that prejudice.
I would hope that's not the case.
I'm Black and I'm a Lesbian. How could I possible prioritize one over the other?
If I didn't know any better I would say you are playing the Black Lesbian card, which trumps my White Gay Card and that means you have won every argument so far and why the heck did I ever think that I could possibly partake in a debate with you and I should just shut up, sit down and listen. But mostly shut up?
The reason for the analogy is that I do see a double standard. That is what I am debating. I am not debating the color of your skin, darcolover55, nor your sexual orientation. But since you brought it up. Everyone thinks differently about race and gay issues. (That is one of the sore points of the passing of prop 8.) You can say that you don't. But I am not that arrogant. I know that I am still learning and have a long way to go.
I am going to meet with my black lesbian friends in a couple of hours. I will ask them if they have ever prioritized being gay over being black. If they have ever been called to make a choice between the two. What were the occasions and their reactions. As a matter of fact I have only had a chance so far to address the very first section of your post. And all ready I am running late. I have a protest to go to. But I will come back and pick up were I left off. I haven't even thoght about your reaction to me declaring you the winner.
Because of the way that the comments are stacked, I clicked the wrong comment and my continuation actually is above this comment. Click to go to My Reply part 2.
PASSION???
Guys & any ladies out there,
For me, if Luke and Noah were truly a "couple" (which of course they are NOT), this sl would take on much more significance. Luke finally screwing up because he's human and obviously still has issues with kevin which is what Noah is rightly hitting on, would be a great sl...if they were a couple. Again, if they were a couple, this would really spice up the story.
Unfortunately, I cannot get by the ATWT writers words supposedly, but NOT, giving flesh to their characters: in this case, Nuke. What do I mean?
Does anyone remember that first moment?
Noah: "do you just not like me, Luke?"
Luke: "No, Noah, I like you - pregnant pause, - yes, like that!"
the problem of course is even after 16 or 18 months, "like that" has NEVER come to pass. And then there was the time the two of them were at the farm, alone, together, remember? And Luke finally points out the "friendship only reality of their quote/unquote relationship." What does Noah say?
Noah: "it's not right here, Luke. the time & place need to be special for us."
Problem? Well, yes. In 16 or 18 months, Noah has NEVER been able to find Luke in the "right" or "special" place or at the "right" or "special" time to make it their special moment. Poor Noah, (and Luke too), neither one of them is terribly bright or even sadder passionate about their relationship...which of course really does not exist.
And finally, that's why I never watch Nuke except on You tube. The Nuke sl on ATWT is ANTI-GAY; I cannot forgive them for that. Some who blog on this site, think that by saying Luke & Noah are gay, it's a positive gay soap - but in reality, what ATWT, their sponsors and the critics of the Nuke story are saying it that, "well, ok, it's ok if they kiss and hug, but they will NEVER be intimate with each other." In other words, heterosexuals can be real people, fall in love and actually be passionate and truly consumate their love for each by going to bed together, but gay people will NOT be allowed to be real or normal people, to fall in love and go to bed. By dehumanizing us (those of us who are gay), they are saying to the str8 world, ok, they exist, but we won't allow them the passion and sex that heteros enjoy. ATWT emasculated Nuke as a couple and I do not forgive that.
SInce I Seem to be Running Off At The Fingertips Today
I don't think there is anyone on this site who thinks it reasonable, preferrable or logical that Nuke hasn't had sex yet.
But since we're talking about fiction and the parameters for this particular fictional story involve a senario where a gay couple (who are in love and lust after each other) have "chosen" not to have sex, we can't just DECIDE that those aren't the parameters we're dealing with.
We have to suspend disbelieve like a MOFO for all kinds of reasons when it comes to soap operas (people come back from the dead, time travel, etc)
Nuke not having sex is ridiculous but it is no more ridiculous than a lot of things we have to allow ourselves to believe in order to watch a soap opera.
As for the explanations given for why they arent't having sex,
Why is Noah responsible for whether, when, where and how he and Luke have sex?
Because he's not a virgin? Because he last slept with a girl? BOLLOCKS!.
He's made the first move every time and the only time Luke seems to come on to Noah is when he wants something (but not necessarily sex) or he wants to TALK about them having or not having sex. Has he ever made a pass a Noah since the cottage?
Luke's all "We've been in this house all day and nothing" Well dude, do something about it. It's Luke's grandma's house and HIS grandma's rules. Luke is the one who REFUSES to leave the farm.
Noah may be F'ked up over all the daddy and mama dying insanity and coming out and post Ameera madness but I'm sure he'd snap out of it if Luke hadn't just complained and had actually stepped up and made the first move.
Noah was explaining why HE hasn't approached Luke. But I don't recall Luke ever explainging why HE hasn't approached Noah (and kvetching about why Noah isn't touching him is not sexy)
Luke should have grabbed the keys to one of his mama's shwanky hotel rooms the second Noah decided not to join the Army and decorated it all nice and sexy and comfy and surprised Noah stole him away for the weekend. Done and Done.
Every time Noah suggests they leave the farm to be along together (gay away weekend, getting an apartment, using those adorable llittle-sister-at-camp-made lanyard keyrings in their own place) Luke's all, "I can't leave my family" "I can't break Grandma's Rules."
And the lanyard keyring thing was all AFTER Luke threw a fit about them not having sex.
Noah is totally living in Luke's world. I'll grant, maybe right after my father died (psycho as he may have been) wouldn't be the "right" time for me to have sex with my very first same sex lover.
But I don't think it's Noah's fault that they haven't had sex (even if you accept all of the reasoning put forth by the script thus far).
Noah's all "I think about it all the time", "I can't stand being near you and not touching you", "Let's do it on the grownup bed who cares if Ameera is sulking outside the bedroom door"
Luke's bizarre "Why aren't we have sex TODAY" fit this summer was completely random just like his jumping up and running out of the cottage 10 minutes after he'd decided to move in even though Noah was closing the door in Ameera's face and trying to get it on.
I continue to watch because it's fun, I'm fascinated that the storyline even exists (still the only of its kind on American Television) and I'm interested to see how it plays out.
I personally am under no delusion that NUKE represent any "authentic" idea of a young gay male couple but then I don't have that expectation from a soap (maybe I should but I'm not a general soap fan so....)
I know for us a gay people, SEX is the basis upon which we are descrimated against and so of course is unrealistic, hetereosexist, anti-gay sexuality to show a couple that is in love and committed and DECIDES not to have sex for no "reason" that makes sense to use as viewers.
I can't imagine that any of the viewers here on A.E. or the youtube watchers wouldn't agree.
"Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorthy Parker)
I love your writing
You're a very interesting writer. And since you usually say almost exactly what I would say myself, and usually beat me to it, you save me a lot of typing! I especially like your attitude toward ATWT. You recognize how soap operas work, and specifically the need for suspension of disbelief in so many ways. When I first started watching, the totally goofy things (people never dying for real - and be assured that Noah's father will be back; getting from Illinois to New York in about 10 minutes; everyone being married about five times; children aging 10 years in a couple of weeks; different actors playing the same role; Nuke not having sex; etc., etc.) really bothered me. But at some point I just started to shrug and even grin when those things happened. I'm able to just agree with the logical side of my brain to "go with it". If I couldn't do that I couldn't watch.
I used to not understand how people could get so angry and serious about a soap opera, but I've since realized that many of them are new to soaps, and watching just because of the gay angle. From that perspective ATWT must look insanely awful. Normally people would just not watch in that circumstance, but there's that curious need by a lot of gay people to watch gay characters, no matter how badly they think the show is done.
Don't feel self-conscious about writing a lot. People can just skim or ignore if they're not interested. But for me, I find it entertaining and insightful.
(BTW, I don't think Nukely was being racial at all with his "you go girl" comment. Where I come from that doesn't have racial connotations, but is sort of a positive affirmation type thing. For example, when Melissa Etheridge says she's not going to pay her California taxes because of Prop 8, I might say "you go girl". Of course, I assume Nukely was being ironic or snarky or something, but not racial. He's posted a lot since I joined AE, and I'd be shocked if it were racial.)
NUTS
Sorry, seanb, I think you're nuts.
Actually, darcolover, you and I agree on a good many things regarding ATWT & Nuke, to whit:
1) No one on this site thinks it reasonable or preferable or logical that Nuke have not had sex yet.
2) Nuke not having sex is ridiculous...
3) You also may be correct in Luke being the party that most frequently puts off having sex - I haven't kept score, I only know that if one suggests it, the other finds some reason (the AFA, P&G, and CBS) to put off going to bed together. Quite frankly, since the debacle of the Christmas/Mistletoe episodes from last year, I have only watched the Luke/Noah episodes on You Tube and only, I admit, because I am hugely and physically attracted to both Van and Jake.
What I absolutely cannot agree with includes:
1) ...can't we just suspend disbelief? or,
2) "...not having sex is no more ridiculous than a lot of what goes on in soap operas."
Sorry, darcolover, but I strongly disagree. If str8 couples on ATWT were never shown in bed together w/sex as the sl, then agreed, it would be ridiculous and so would a sex scene with Nuke. But the depiction of "gay" love as strictly AND I DO MEAN "STRICTLY" platonic as shown on ATWT is demeaning, dehumanizing, and harmful to the gay community. It is insulting and condescending on so many levels that I can neither understand nor appreciate that point of view nor the acquiescence of bloggers like seanb. ATWT is being influenced and directed by bigoted groups like the AFA and if we do not fight against them, they win. I prefer to speak out against their anti-gay agenda...soap or no soap opera - and yes, I do know this is only a soap opera, but it is expressing a very strong anti-gay theme with which I object.
I dont' know how old you are...
...but I've been watching soaps since I was old enough to walk. Many years ago, I sat with my mother and watched The Edge Of Night. Later it was Ryan's Hope. Later, All My Children, then Another World, General Hospital, only just recently ATWT. My only response to your last paragraph is that the lack of sex is about on par with where soaps were for straight folks 30 years ago. Since that is usually where minorities are in the grand scheme of things such as equality, I would say this is probably right on schedule. Do I wish everyone were perfectly equal across the board? Of course. But, not in this society we live in. Of course it's condescending, demeaning and dehumanizing. Just like how women and visible minorities have been treated. ATWT is not only being influenced by bigoted special interest groups, but by society as a whole. It's changing, slow as mud running down hill, but it is changing. Don't discount those of us that are your allies.
I say we take the warning labels off everything and let nature take it's course.
cheep shot
That was NOT a cheap shot...
I was simply giving my opinion on why straight people didn't used to have sex on soaps and do now and why gays haven't had sex so far. And apparently that is evolving fast on All My Children according to the other forum topic. I don't take shots at the posters here. I just state my opinion.
I know how much this upsets you, Nukely, but you are crossing the line here. You are swinging a cat in a china shop. Everyone is getting bashed. You said this in your "reply 2" post:
When his actions take place within a very gay context, like an election that is created because of gay issues (the film fest) and revolves around gay issues (Kevin's unwitting homophobic video), yes I know there are viewers out there who are quick to connect being gay to that context. And I will go so far as to say I believe that was the explicit intent of the writers and producers of ATWT.
That is a VERY valid point of view and is, in a nut shell, what you have been saying all along. Some people here agree with you and some don't. I mostly do agree with you except for the degree with which you take your argument. You stress it more heavily with each repetition until you are describing Luke as a "crazed gay activist". That is way over the top. And you say that the writers are doing all this on purpose to make all gays look bad. I disagree with that as well. I think they are inadvertantly making gays look bad through bad stories and an inability to think up a good way of dealing with what they have wrote.
That doesn't mean that I am completely missing the point or that I am completely missing all the sub text. It just means that I see this in a much less radical light than you do.
I say we take the warning labels off everything and let nature take it's course.
Janet - I like your way
Janet - I like your way with a phrase - "swinging a cat in a china shop"! That's a great line.
BTW, you and Nukely seem to have a unique relationship here on AE. I sense some sort of private understanding even though you disagree a lot. I hope this isn't prying, but do you two know each other in the "real world"?
Hey, no offense taken.
Hey, no offense taken. But in the spirit of being honest, I have to say that it's obvious that you're either very young or have a lack of historical context and understanding of how social evolution occurs.
If you're really young, then you've grown up in a world where being gay is not really a big deal, where in many places it's no problem to be totally out, where there are many gay characters on TV, and where we gays just expect to be treated equally. Author and AE regular David Ehrenstein (and many others) could tell you what things were like before Stonewall and in the decades since. Until VERY recently things were MUCH different for gay people. The thought of gay teenagers kissing on afternoon American TV would have literally been unthinkable even five years ago.
If you're not really young, then you don't have much historical understanding, and can't really see how the gay movement has developed and progressed, and where it stands today. I'm too young for Stonewall, but I'm a bit of a historical buff, and so I understand the development of the movement (and history in general) better than many. ALL movements of equality, whether it be for women or blacks or gays, have required a lengthy PROCESS, and required an evolution that was much slower than it should have been. That's obviously not how it should be. That's just how it is. Almost all observers, gay and straight alike, are aware of how incredibly fast the gay equality movement has accelerated over the past five years. Gay marriage is inevitable, and is getting closer all the time.
On a MUCH less important level, gay characters like Luke and Noah will eventually have sex and be treated like any other characters. As I said, this is all a process that takes time. It shouldn't, but it does. This is a country that is more conservative than liberal, and still has way too much non-thinking Bible Belt religious attitudes. Considering the historical context and a full understanding of where we are and where we're going, it strikes me as beyond silly to be outraged by this, or to feel dehumanized. It also strikes me that to feel dehumanized would require a lack of self esteem. If I look at your posting history here at AE, I see that ALL of your posts, as far back as I checked, are about frustration at the lack of sex for Luke and Noah. Is that really all you care about?
I normally don't like to get this serious or this detailed when I post, but I realize that in being my normally light-hearted self (!) I might have given the impression I didn't understand or didn't care about what was going on. And normally I have Darcolover to express my points for me!
What's great about the current storyline is
we're getting TONS of Luke and Noah. For past few months --even with the Ameera nonsense -- they've been on in little dribs and drabs. Now we've got a REAL soap storyline, with good people screwing up and doing bad things.
Luke falling off the wagon after stelaing the election and being expelled opens the door to blissful redemption via Noah. Obviously it won't happen overnight. And being a soap it shouldn't. But with Luke's life a 10-car pile-up on the I-Five, who can possibly look away?