Top Chef 6.2 "Bachelor/Ette Party"
There are three out GLBT contestants on this season's Top Chef and last night's episode put them in the awkward position of competing in an elimination challenge that celebrated traditional marriage. Probably the most political of Team Gay, Ashley Merriman said: "I find it beyond comprehension that they're making us go do a wedding challenge when effectively at least three of us aren't even allowed in that insitution!"
Ashley Merriman The only gay male contestant, Ash Fulk, had little to say about the irony of the elimination challenge, but the other lesbian contestant, Preeti Mistry basically told her fired up teammate Ashley to chill. Preeti, happily partnered to another woman for 12 years, understood why Ashley was upset, "but this is the world we live in today."
Ash Fulk (left) and Preeti Mistry To be honest, I thought that, given the amount of time this episode gave to airing Ashley's concerns, the show was going to throw us a curveball and that the bachelor and bachelorette introduced briefly early in the episode would turn out to be gay themselves, and their unrelated parties would be thrown by their respective gay and lesbian friends! As most of the male chefs (except for Ash) commented on how attractive the female guests were at the bachelorette party I kept waiting for the big, ironic reveal, but it never came. Turns out the chefs were cooking for run-of-the-mill hetero bachelor/ette celebrations. The bachelor/ette party guests Fortunately, Ashley rallies and the show generously gives her a chance to be magnanimous. "You know, in this challenge being gay is really hard," she says in a voiceover. "But I'm gonna take a step back and just do my best, because I'm excited for the couple that we're cooking for, that they found each other, and that they're able to legally get married. Honestly, I was pretty impressed with the editing of this episode. The producers used it as a vehicle to discuss the issue of gay marriage, and did it without making any of the gay contestants seem overly thin skinned. To me it seems a bit like a lost opportunity that they weren't cooking for a gay wedding celebration, but I recall they did that challenge in the first season of Top Chef, so doing so now wouldn't have tread new ground. Who else is watching Top Chef this season? What did you think of last night's episode, and more generally, what do you think of Team Gay: Ashley, Pretti, and Ash? Fortunately, all three survived last night's elimination challenge - though none with particular distinction. Submitted by on Thu, 2009-08-27 10:09. |
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I adore Ash and Preeti, but
Haven't watched last night's episode yet...
But my partner and I are definitely watching TC this season! This early on, there are too many people to learn all of their names, so we give them all nicknames. Some of which are mean, so I won't share them, but the annoying Jersey guy that Latherr refers to has been dubbed "THAT guy."
I wasn't too crazy about Ashley in the first episode, but she does have a point with her statement regarding the marriage challenge. However, Preeti has a point as well, in this is the world we live in. I would assume that as a chef, this is something she has to deal with in real life...
"Open up your mind and then open up your heart. And you will see that you and me aren't very far apart." - Blessid Union of Souls
Ashley is too annoying
I think the worse thing Ashley said during her confessional was, "You know in this challenge, being gay it's really hard." You know what hun... being gay in Texas is hard. Being gay in small town Mississippi is hard. Being gay serving in the Navy before the days of "don't ask, don't tell" was hard. Cooking what will hopefully be some tasty treats for a straight couple about to get married, that's a walk in the park.
Preeti definitely had the right attitude with "this is the world we live in." Yes it sucks that only five states allow LGBT couples to marry, but that's up to us to change. Complaining about how unfair it is to have to cook for a straight couple isn't going to help us achieve equality.
very well said
the goal in a restaurant is to create wonderful meals...even though i check out this show for cute bear types...it's all about the food...so work those pots and pans!
However...
I don't think Ashley was making an equivalence between cooking for a het couple and living in Small Town, USA. Her noticing and talking about the awkward position she felt put in as a gay chef helps bring further visibility to the issue, and prevents the smaller, more insidious slights against us from going unnoticed.
I'm impressed that the show's editors allowed Ashley and Preeti to offer their equally valid viewpoints. Nonetheless, it would also have helped to have a het contestant weigh in.
All considered, I don't think Team Gay has the steam to make it through the first half of the season.
I really disagree. Ashley
I really disagree. Ashley was professional and pleasant to the party guests, and in the kitchen she did her job. Why shouldn't she express her frustration back at the house and in her interview? And she never said she didn't want to cook for straight couples; she said that being made to take part in someone's wedding celebration was unfair, when she was legally unable to marry.
You're very right that there are many, many worse situations she could have been in. That doesn't make her anger invalid.
Huh?
So, let me see if I have this gaily organized. Is it that Jessee, the EXTREMELY butch crybaby with all the metal in her face is NOT gay? Huh? I guess I better go have my gaydar adjusted. I suspect the operative word here is OUT gay. But, baby, this child can be detected as gay from a black and white satellite still photo.
As far as which of those four should be sent home, only Ashley should be given a second chance. She does turn out some good stuff. The others? Not so much. And, I love Preeti. Any girl with sideburns that makes me think, for a half hour of the first episode, that she is a cute boy has my vote. I am not sure she can cook worth a damn, is all.
Not a fan of Top Chef
Ashley's comments
I really found the discussion this evoked fascinating. Clearly, among both gays and straights, some found Ashley's concerns really whiney. I did not.
But what I really loved was the chance to see Ashley and Preeti voice their feelings to each other. I can't recall ever seeing a show on a mainstream national program show gay people discussing this with each other, rather than with straight people.
Feel free to check out my blog on this episode.
http://cliffdvr.blogspot.com/2009/08/top-chef-las-vegas-proposition-ate.html
Late to the comment party
I have mixed feelings on this. Were it only comments to the camera in the post-interviews, I wouldn't have found her reaction irritating, as I think mentioning and trying to fight the inquality as often as possible good for visibility.
However, then it cut to the discussion at the house with more than just her and Preeti. You know what? It's a cooking competition and you're being asked to make food for one of 15 or so challenges. Seriously, the theme could be anything and you'd still have to cook something. You weren't asked to go against your own beliefs, etc.
Altho, as I wrote that, I switched roles, and I wouldn't be surprised to find a conservative chef refusing to cook for a gay wedding... but I guess, as gay people, we're supposed to be far more open-minded and understanding, I suppose?
I don't know, her attitude eventually redeemed herself and all went well at the party (well, all food challenge-issues aside...).
I like Ash, tho I haven't had a chance to see his personality much, yet