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Ellen DeGeneres talks about anti-gay legislators, Danny Noriega's self-pride and more!

Yesterday, we gave you a heads-up that Ellen DeGeneres would have on American Idol cast-off Danny Noriega, as well as gay-friendly comedian Wanda Sykes, but we didn't realize what a gay hour of television the show would be.

It started early in the show, when Ellen brought up Oklahoma state Representative Sally Kern's anti-gay tirade where Kerns declared that "I honestly think (homosexuality is) the biggest threat, even more than terrorism." As Ellen played the audio of Kerns speaking, the cameras cut to images of the studio audience looking stunned and uncomfortable to hear such words. Definitely adding to the discomfort was a clear understanding that when Kern talked about the threat of homosexuality, she's talking about people like Ellen.

This is one of those moments that has me really appreciating the power Ellen has with her show. Bigotry is much easier to voice when you're railing against some anonymous mass, but Kern's words become ridiculous when you try to associate them with real people, like Ellen. By being open about who she is, she has the power to make clear how hurtful and hateful words like Kern's really are.

"I feel like there's some misinformation going on here," Ellen responded, "and I think I need to call her." As she listened to the phone ring, Ellen added, "I'm trying to figure out which societies have disappeared that we don't know about." Unfortunately, all Ellen got was a full voice mailbox, so Ellen tried to leave a message via the airwaves. "Give me call, I'm here usually and also later on I'll be at the Dinah Shore Golf Tournament, of course, that's if it doesn't conflict with the women's basketball games I go to."

Following that, Ellen brought on Wanda Sykes who immediately dropped a joke at Kerns' expense: "I would like for her to move up in government because if she thinks homosexuality is a bigger threat then terrorism maybe she'll get our troops out of Iraq and maybe invade West Hollywood ... anything to get our troops home." Wanda continued by calling Kerns outdated, saying, "She's like bell bottoms." Ouch, talk about things that don't look good even as retro kitch.

It's interesting to note that Sykes' sexuality has been discussed widely in the press as well, including in the "Glass Closet" article that Michael Musto wrote last year that essentially outed stars like David Hyde Pierce, Jodie Foster, and Anderson Cooper. And while she didn't address her own sexuality here, her mention that she spent her birthday skiing with her "girlfriend" does lead one to wonder if she means more than just "friend who is a girl".

Following that, Skyes gave her take on the Democratic Presidential campaign, where she hilariously mocked how the media has tried to simplify the race a simply matter of race vs. gender. There's really nothing I can say to add to her words, the outspoken comedian says it all so well.

After Skyes, Ellen followed with Danny Noriega, introducing him with his now-iconic "I guess some people weren't liking it." moment. Ellen really nicely got to the heart of why Noriega got so much attention in so little time:

Ellen: That's what I love about you, you are yourself. You're unapologetically yourself. You are who you are and ... you auditioned last year, right? What made you come back and how far did you make it then?

Danny: I made it to Hollywood last year and it was pretty bad, you could even tell on my face I was uncomfortable. I cut my hair off, I tried dressing in baggier clothes. I thought maybe I'll create an image for the judges to like and that was the biggest mistake I could ever make on the show. I just promised myself I'd just be myself this year no matter what, no matter whatever Simon says. I was like just do whatever you do and just wear your skin proud.

Ellen: Obviously he has a lot of influence, that what he says he affects people who call in but do you think he had constructive criticism for you or no?

Danny: I would like to say 'Yeah' but no. I mean, when you get called grotesque and useless, what do you take from that? It just lowers your self-esteem. After I'd hear 'useless' I'd just zone out like and airhead. don't know if you can see it on my face but I'm just like 'Okay, I don't care anymore.' I mean, the first time he called me grotesque I started crying. I was bawling.

Ellen: Well, he called your performance grotesque. Don't take that personally,. Don't ever think that, don't ever hold onto that.

Aw, Danny's so cute in his excitement to be talking with Ellen.

Ellen's words about not taking Simon's insults personally really strike a chord considering how Ellen's been called "degenerate" in public and probably had worse things said to her in private. Regardless of whether he's gay or just "gay-adjacent", Ellen highlighted why he struck a chord with gay Idol fans.

After that, Ellen brought on 8-year old Anthony Gargiula, evidently one of those YouTube celebrities I keep missing out on. Ellen sent him out to talk with the American Idol finalists on the red carpet and, well, the name Justin Suarez comes to mind. He's quite adorable as he fawns over the Idol contestants, gesticulates wildly and just has so many big, excited reactions. (While talking to Ellen there's a moment where he rolls his head in a way that totally deserves to be turned into an animated gif.) His thrill at something like an American Idol party is infectious, even my inner pop culture curmudgeon is melting away. This Gargiula kid seems like one to watch.

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  • BumbaFromWakumba's picture

    American Idol doesn't allow Danny to answer the "gay" question

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-hWaNIvHlzw

    Homophobes.

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    rschlem's picture

    Jubal's not liken' it

    Yeah, I saw his rant this morning. I didn't expect to see a link here.


    Jubal Flagg is a two bit comic hack who introduces Danny Noriega as "Everybody's favorite homosexual"

    On a live phone interview on his radio show, Jubal's first question is "Obviously we know that you are a homosexual, right?"

    When Danny starts to say that the information is 'confidential' the phone call is wisely cut off.

    Jubal then goes into a rant saying that we have all seen Danny "Sashay" on stage and that this poor teenager has "seen more cock than a hen house" "He has had more junk in him than a garbage truck." Not funny.

    Jubal is nothing more than Andrew-Dice-Clay-lite. I'm suppose to admire him for trying to out an 18 year old boy? It's disgusting. Hey, Jubal if you want to out someone try hanging around airport restrooms during the Republican convention not slinging homophobic slurs because what you're doning now, I'm not liking it.

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    you_will's picture

    email...

    my dad emailed me about Sally Kerns and he asked me "did we ever find out if the terrorist attacks on 9-11 were done by homosexuals? is that what we're in iraq for? fighting homosexuals? get back to me, because i think i am in the dumbass zone"

    ah, love my dad. :-D

     

     

     

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    snicks's picture

    Is it just me?

    or has Ellen really loosened up this season about bringing up gay issues? btw, i don't think we should be so hard on SALLY KERN...it must be tough going through life with BETTY CROCKER's hairdo.
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    dgd417's picture

    Nah...It's not just you

    We are now into Ellen's fifth season on the air and for the most part up until now, I simply cannot ever recall her addressing gay issues on her show until this season. I'm very happy that she has wisely decided to incorporate this issue into her show and that she's doing it with such class, dignity and style. Silence ISN'T always golden is it?

    Her show is a wonderful platform for this and I sincerely hope that this will be an ongoing thing. Perhaps it will make people who are homophobic or not supportive of same-sex issues to not be so close-minded and hopefully it will create an "open your eyes" like situation. Like Ellen said a couple of weeks ago: "I AM NOT A SECOND CLASS CITIZEN!!" She speaks for all of us, and that statement alone will remain etched in my mind forever. Gosh...how I would LOVE to meet her in person just to shake her hand or give her a great big hug. She's a wonderful human being, and she proves that on her show everyday. I can go on and on but I'll leave it at that. Peace everybody. :)

    Regards,

    dgd417

     

     

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    brian's picture

    absolutely

    She's been much more vocal in the past year, and has gone out of her way to book gay guests and actually ask them about their relationships (like Nathan Lane, Neil Patrick Harris, etc.). Also, given her touching response to the Lawrence King murder a few weeks back, it seems to me that Ellen is making every effort to raise visibility for gay folks, especially young people, and demonstrate support and understanding.

    I had actually read that there were contractual stipulations that kept her from discussing THE GAY for the first several seasons and that those have expired, but not idea whether there's a lick of truth to that. I don't really care either way, as long as she keeps on keepin' on and using her powers for good. No wonder she was voted Favorite Lesbian

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    mikemgmve's picture

    I figured...

    pretty much the same thing. Let's face it, Ellen's demographic, in terms of TV, is probably much along the same lines as Rosie's old show (i said this in a reply to the last ellen post too), and she probably reaches much of the middle-american white housewives who would regularly be offended by homosexual content. A few seasons of just being non-sexual as often as possible, then you remind them (or like with Rosie, come out), and some people realize gay doesn't equal bad, tho I'm sure they don't still completely get it. Can we call this the Rosie effect or something? Is there a copywriter anywhere?

    And as for Wanda, I love her. I just saw her at the Irvine Improv a month or two ago. It was a very 'straight bar' crowd, older too (which made us, a group of four 20-something gays and our lady of the evening) feel a bit uncomfortable at times. The opening comic was talking trash about everybody, brough up gays, asked if anyone was gay, and two large gay men in the front raised their hands. He said he wouldn't say anything then, out of fear from them (kinda funny... kinda not). Wanda came out tho, and was the best. I only wish she mentioned on Ellen, or Ellen brought up, her summer engagement - the resident comic on Logo's True Colors Tour this year for the west coast! Cannot wait!

    David Ehrenstein's picture

    Ellen was at her absolute best yesterday

    Without getting anywhere near "preachy" or mounting a soapbox she smacked Sally Kern down in style. Nothing defeats these monsters like ridicule. They want to be taken seriously. Refusing to do so makes them melt like the Wicked Witch of the West in the last reel. Cleverest of all was Ellen making a phone call. This is nothign new on her show. Practically every day she calls up some person or other she's read about somewhere or seen on the 'net. Usually it's some nice light-hearted "human interest story." This time Ellen was kicking back. And the line about "Dinah Shore" clinched it.

    Wanda was good too. Come out dear -- and bring Anderson Cooper along with you!

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    Evan's picture

    Kernals of Truth

    I support Ellen 10000%.  She has withstood so much and to continue to voice her support for equality is amazing.

    After the 2004 election I got the sense that Americans were more concerned about oppressing gay people than fighting terrorism.  This politican validated my thoughts.  In 2004, George Bush was very unpopular and Americans wanted the troops out of Iraq.  With those obstacles you would think he would lose to a guy that also wanted the troops out of Iraq.  Not the case because of marriage.  The republicans threw marriage for same-sex couples in to the mix and George Bush skated to a comfortable 3% victory (more than in 2000).  When Sally Kern returned to Congress the day after this story broke she received a standing ovation.

    Anti-gay prejudice is pervasive in America; people just don't make their opinions known as explicitly as Sally Kern. 

    JCnotThatOne's picture

    She Has Gay son:

    It's ALL right there in the Records under the Oklahoma Open Records Act:
    Count as Filed: , ATT ORAL SODOMY , in violation of 21 O.S. 896 
    Date Of Offense: 03/27/1989
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    KERN, JESSE JACOB

    ---------------------------

    Just go to:

    the web: oscn (period) net

    Just put in First and Last name and it comes right up!


    So she's a bigot with a gay son (no surprise there).
    calacarando's picture

    Well, maybe.

    To be fair, that Jesse Kern isn't her son. As some further analysis has found, her son would have likely been too young in 1989 to be doing something like that, given that his senior music recital at Oklahoma Baptist University was in 1998. More to the point, her son has a different middle initial (Jesse A. Kern vs. Jesse Jacob Kern), according to this article. His middle name appears to be Aaron.

    Now, there are other anonymous comments to various posts about whether or not that son is indeed gay nonetheless, but those go into the Perez Hilton category.

     

    Gar vethed e-chunen; go hon bedithon na meth.


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