IMHO "The Family Guy": "Family Gay"
Last night The Family Guy's Peter Griffin turned gay in an episode that I warned you about last week. While I usually enjoy irreverent comedy, including equal-opportunity offenders like Family Guy, this one was full of missed opportunities, too often going for the tired cliche and turning to stereotypes without subverting them. Watch out for SPOILERS below if you want the details of why I'm giving this one the down arrow, or skip right to the bottom to watch the full episode for yourself. After cringing at the stereotypes on display in the preview, I tried to think of scenarios where there could be more to Peter's turning gay than just limp wrists, "gay" clothes and speaking in a higher pitch. Perhaps it'd turn out that Peter was reacting to a placebo, making a fool of himself (again) by acting the way he thinks he should behave if he were gay. Unfortunately, the episode is just about Peter picking up plenty of stereotypical gay traits after being injected with the "gay gene". He starts eating continental breakfast with mimosas, develops a flair for baking, starts giving Lois fashion advice and reads trashy VC Andrews novels. Peter introduces his new soulmate, Scott I'm not opposed to using stereotypes in humor, but you've got to do something interesting with the stereotypes to make me laugh. Unfortunately, all "Family Gay" did was pack in as many as it could. In some cases, like when we see Peter and his new boyfriend cuddling over a Lifetime "woman in jeopardy" film, the stereotypes are pretty stale, too. I mean, it's pretty old to joke about Bravo owning the gay TV crown, so a joke about gays watching Lifetime is about as edgy as the rock stylings of Hansen. There were moments where I hoped the story would find its voice. At one point I thought maybe Peter's new aptitude for style would take Lois down the path of the "gay BFF" stereotype. When Brian and Stewie kidnap Peter and take him to "Straight Camp," I thought the episode might turn into a parody of ex-gay ministries. (Shouldn't Brian be smarter than to believe that you can "cure" gayness though therapy?) Instead, all they led to even more stereotypes, including a joke from the (NY Post cartoonist) Sean Delonas playbook that "all gays move the same". Family Guy's limp wrists and Delonas' prancing gay men I mean, the therapy at Straight Camp includes the councilor pushing the participants to commit a hate crime, shouldn't a joke like that have a little teeth to it like when South Park targeted ex-gay ministries, instead of leading to yet another joke about kinky sex? This is the kind of episode that leaves me thinking "Family Guy has been funny in the past, right?" Overall, there's a message of tolerance at the heart of the episode, but the chance to reinforce that message with some sharp humor is skipped in favor of more stale gay jokes. If you missed it you can check out the episode below. What do you think? Am I taking this one a little too seriously? Is Family Guy capable of delving into the topic with more than just the stereotypes paraded in "Family Gay"? Submitted by on Mon, 2009-03-09 13:30. |
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No, Seth MacFarlane is a homophobe
He just gives lip-service to gay rights so that he can continue to perpetuate negative gay stereotypes.
What about party monster!
Seth MacFarlane is not a homophobe. Just an idiot with a flare for comedy. I am actually a fan of his. Especialy in his role as James St. James in "Party Monster" where Seth plays a homosexual culb kid. He has also made appreances on "Will and Grace". If anything he would have thought that us queers would have gottin over these ridiculous steriotypes and learn to laugh at how conservative bible thumping republicans have the same info on there "To spot a Gay" books. Really people...its family guy, they have a talking dog for Elton's sake!
Wrong Guy
You're thinking of the wrong guy, Mistah. Seth MacFarlane = an older man, voice actor, creator of Family Guy, and LGBT rights supporter.
Seth Green = a young, awesome actor/comedy genius/guy who was in Party Monster/voice of Chris in Family Guy/creator of Robot Chicken/LGBT rights supporter.
In fact...
Seth MacFarlane and Jimmy Kimmel were cloned from the same tumor, I believe.
Crass
I hadnt see Family Guy in a while and I remember when it was crass and funny, but now its just crass. No speech could ever make up for the relentless tired stereotyping, it went nowhere.
It was awfull.
I'm still on the fence on this one
I watched the episode last night after the B&S liveblog, which was late for me (I go to bed at 11pm like clockwork), and when I finished it, I didn't delete it. I couldn't decide if it was funny in the Family Guy style, or if they'd missed the mark. I decided I needed to watch it again to decide, which probably means they missed the mark. I generally give FG a lot of latitude, because they're pretty equal opportunity offenders, but if I need a second look, it can't be good.
I found it totally out of character for Brian to take Peter to the Straight Camp - he once held Mayor West hostage to make gay marriage happen for his cousin. Stewie played against type, even with Brian, being anti-gay and religious, when Seth's come out and said Stewie is gay, and normally outs himself twice an episode.
I guess, after all this rambling, what has me wanting to watch again, is that they seemed to be trying to have the character play completely against their normal personalities - Peter, Stewie, Brian - and when a show does that, they're generally trying to make a point about the new personalities they grafted on the characters for the episode. I missed the point they were trying to make. Which probably means they were aiming for something and missed, which does happen in comedy. Problem is in this case, since they missed making their point, the whole thing became offensive.
I'm hoping I figure out the point for the personality grafts via repeated viewing.
Didn't laugh once
The "Oh they make fun of everyone" excuse is crap. Why?
BECAUSE THEY DON'T!!!!!!
Very telling that the one established gay character on the show is barely used in this episode.
Of course they do
"Family Guy has been funny before, right?"
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Take this same episode
Haha. That's a very wise
I agree too. I loved the
I couldn't disagree more...
Take the blinders off.
Lyle, I hope you take your one issue blinders off. Yes, they made fun of gay stereotypes, but had a message in the end. Fans of the show know that the show plays and feeds off stereotypes. Ever seen the bashing religion takes on the show? Knee jerk patriotism? Unchecked Machismo?
Are you SERIOUSLY gonna tell me the only stereotypes played up in his episode were the gay ones? What about the stereotypes of homophobes? What about the stereotypes of religious people?
The show spreads it around. And they spread it around a lot more than Rick and Steve.
I like Rick and Steve. I cannot point to ONE stereotype in this episode of FG that hasn't been played up (and glorified) in Rick and Steve.
GayTV wrote: I like Rick
I like Rick and Steve. I cannot point to ONE stereotype in this episode of FG that hasn't been played up (and glorified) in Rick and Steve.
My point is -- and it doesn't sound like you didn't catch this at all so I'll put it differently -- is there a single stereotype in Rick & Steve that you didn't see on "Family Gay"? How many different kinds of gays were to be found in "Family Gay"? Try to re-write "Family Gay" with some Rick & Steve characters and you'd have to ignore established characterization or ignore most of the main cast.
Thanks to the comments, I am reminded of how Family Guy has done well with gay issues in the past (which reminded me of why I went into this expecting more from the show) but the difference between "Family Gay" and Rick & Steve is like the comedy gap between how Chapelle's Show and Mind of Mencia handled race... or the difference in how Rick & Steve and the first season The Big Gay Sketch Show handled gay issues.
And, yes, "Family Gay" poked fun at different groups but those groups each one got painted by a single, broad brush. I got a small chuckle out of the joke about Stewie naming Bible verses and 'Til Death but even those just took the most cliched punchline available and those chuckles were more out of a sense of shared dislike than an insight or wit.
Like I said, American Dad
Like I said, American Dad is better. You're on the money, Lyle, this episode fails, abysmally. There's a good heart at the center of it, saying Seth MacFarlane is a homophobe is more than a bit off the mark. He just also has a chief demographic of 12-24 white males to appeal to, and the show has completely lost any thread of reality, grounded characterizations and somewhat cohesive plots. Homophobia, racism and other touchy subjects have to handled right to be funny, to create satire, irony or even just effective slap-stick. Family Guy just can't do it well anymore.
I too thought they'd pick the episode up when it came to the straight camp and Stewie's completely about-face about his own sexuality, and was disappointed when they didn't, but whatever, I wasn't expecting it to be on South Park's level. The American Dad episode was pretty funny, and Greg and Terry is more of how it should be done.
No you're not taking this one a little too seriously...
As I posted at www.towleroad.com, I really was looking forward to this episode since the preview clip was shown. I've loved Family Guy since the very beginning. That's not to say they haven't crossed the line of bad taste on more than one occasion. The barbershop quartet singing to a dying patient, "You've got AIDS" comes to mind. That's been a big problem with the show. They seem incapable of censoring themselves. They'll put anything on for shock value, without rhyme or reason.
I'd rate last nights Family Guy as 'catastrophic epic fail'. Having Peter become the stereotypical feminine gay guy came across as lazy writing and horrifically dated. As Ed mentioned, Brian would never take Peter to a Straight Camp. He's too smart to think that would work. Again, lazy writing. The solution to being gay: beat the crap out of a gay guy with baseball bats. Hilarious commentary on society? Hardly. Peter's dream come true: having an 11-way with a bunch of mincing gay guys. Nice message. Of course the second the gay gene wears off Peter is horrified at what he is doing and runs screaming out of the apartment. Another nice message.
Lois making the comment about a person's sexual identity not being a choice was nice. But as far as I was concerned the message was small consolation for the 20 minute gay assault that preceded it. The story could have worked had Peter been given a placebo, or if Peter hadn't turned into a gay cliché. But, again, the writers took the easy way out. You'd think there would be one gay writer on the series that would have had the guts to say, "This story line stinks. Let's work up another angle." Although in this case, you don't need to be gay to see the lazy effort that was put into this episode.
Seth MacFarlane...
...has been a very strong and VOCAL supporter of gay rights. Just read this article.
Seth isn't completely to blame for this - he didn't write it (it was written by Richard Appel), and he didn't direct it (it was directed by Brian Iles).
I've always found this website to be over-critical. No matter what the object in question is, someone always finds something to complain about. Seth MacFarlane has been a very passionate and positive person for the LGBT community - if you guys are criticizing and attacking people who do support us, how will that help our community? I think it makes us look obnoxious, and no one will want to help people who are so cynical and analytical.
This episode was in bad taste, but Seth MacFarlane is NOT a homophobe, and one bad episode doesn't mean the entire series is bad. I've been a fan since the very beginning, and I'm not going to stop because the guys at Family Guy made a mistake.
thank you!
I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who thinks that sometimes this website gets too over-critical of things that would not be as big of a deal if you broadened your viewpoint.
I'd also like to mention i am neither condoning or condemming this episode, mostly because the first 10 or so minutes about the horse was hilarious, the stereotypes weren't, so they weren't awesome, at least they tried with lois, and stewie was clearly closeted and showing signs of being a self-hating gay, considering he had that pamplet from like a year ago.... notice the glances stewie's giving brian when he asked about it.
ok... that's my two cents... thanks for reading
Agree 100%. Sometimes I
Agree 100%. Sometimes I bust out laughing at how some of these articles over-react in the sensitivity department... and I'm pretty sensitive myself!
I give Lyle credit for voicing his opinion, and he did so in a very fair and honest way. It's the reactions of the people that amuse me. This sense of "I MUST NEVER WATCH THIS SHOW AGAIN BECAUSE AFTERELTON TOLD ME NOT TO!" and "I JUST KNEW MCFARLANE WAS EVIL, NOW I HAVE PROOF!!!!!!!!!1111!!!!!"
It's all just kind of silly. To be honest, I *love* Family Guy, I think it's one of the sharpest and funniest shows on TV. And, GASP, it's predominantly written by straight men! So of course they're gonna miss the mark sometimes. It happens. But by and large, their hearts are in the right place.
I know this is hard to believe, but sometimes jokes miss the mark. Let's not gather up the torches over a cartoon, okay?
ZaneFan Hits the Mark
I took the time to watch the "Family Gay" episode by myself and then again, with my partner. We both agree that the episode had a lot to laugh at, but clearly, the negative responses on AfterElton are too over-the-top.
First, it's an adult cartoon and second, it tends to skewer every stereotype possible with every episode, but doesn't do so in a constantly mean-spirited way. If the expectation is to have every episode of Family Guy be completely PC from start to finish, then you're expecting WAY too much and probably shouldn't be watching in the first place!
ZaneFan makes a good statement - this is so NOT worth getting worked up over. There are more valid instances of blatant and dangerous homophobia in the real world that deserve our concern and attention.
While I'm at it - about Brothers and Sisters - again, one of the better written and acted shows on TV that doesn't need the negativity ad naseaum. Seriously...time to dial it down a notch!
Thanks for listening!
I agree with Fuego.
I did not find this episode to be offensive.
Family Guy has used it's fame to send out many GOOD messages about gay rights and the gay community. But it's getting nit-picked to death, and having every episode invalidated for an episode that is debatably "tasteless".
That show is damn funny, and you're a freaking prude and a liar if you're going to say you never laughed at it once.
Here's the thing...
It doesn't have to be offensive to just be lazy comedy and plain not funny.
Do you remember the Seinfeld when a rival comedian converts to Judaism just so he could make Jewish jokes? Somebody asks Jerry if he's offended about the jokes as a Jewish man, and he says no I'm offended as a comedian.
Well... the mincing gay stereotype, as well as its cousin the gay panic joke, have been around since silent movies and likely since Vaudeville. Gay panic "humor" was used continuously in Bob Hope's 1940s comedies.
"Take my wife please" and "Take a long walk off a short pier" have faded in popularity, why can't the gay joke go with it? It's lazy; it's stale. Great jokes can be made about gay people, but comedy should come from a comedians experiences and observations not from recycled old routines.
Yep...
Not Funny
I watched. I laughed at the stuff at the race track. The gay stuff. Not funny. Generally, I enjoy the show quite a bit, but there have been a handful of bad eps. This joins them.
'nuff said.
Not that bad
I dont think that there is anything wrong with it. It is not amazing comidy but it does have its funny parts, I also like when the hourse went off the track. . I did see some quips that were made to defend homesexuality. Also people are complaning about how the show only puts things on it to shock people. Thats kind of the point of these shows isn't it Family guy, American Dad, South Park and even the Simpsons (eventhough they are some what toned down compared to the others)?
Failed!
Blah
http://www.youtube.com/user/gaycomicgeekI Agree...
It wasn't bad just terribly boring with some amusing moments,just not enough to sustain a 30 minute time slot.
Not one of thier worst but it's not up to classic "Family Guy"
OH, COME ON!
Oh, come on. You can't tell me you didn't get a laugh out of this exchange:
MEG: So Dad's going to be gay forever?
LOIS: Possibly, Meg. So we're all just going to have to get used to this, and learn to accept your father for who he is, now.
STEWIE: Oh, great plan, Lois. Hey, here's a nutty idea: Ever read the Bible? Leviticus 18:22!
BRIAN: Stewie, you're judgmentally quoting Bible verses, and you don't even know how to read.
STEWIE: Welcome to America, Brian!
Funny because it's true, as they say.
Overall, I enjoyed the episode. Of course, I'm a big fan of the show and enjoy every episode, even the really crap ones. And "Family Gay" was far from the worst.
I laughed numerous times, even at some of the "offensive" stereotype gags. As for the argument that Brian should have known better than to send Peter to "Straight Camp," I disagree. It's a case where a born straight man was turned gay through gene therapy. Underneath, though, he was still straight. He's the one "gay" on the planet that straight camp might actually have worked on.
Was it perfect? Hell no. But who expects perfect on American televison these days. I do think they missed something by not having the doctor at the experimental clinic try (and perhaps succeed) to turn Peter back by injecting him with the "straight" gene. Oh, well.
And to answer the question of whether you're taking the episode a little too seriously, ask yourself this: Can you honestly expect a serious message about gay issues -- or any issue, for that matter -- from a show like Family Guy?
Agreed 100%
You make plenty of valid points, and to say that some of the characters were out of character makes me question how many episodes you've watched?
Stewie casting out against gays? He's frequently in denial and overplays his heterosexuality, and Brian's reponse to Stewie's comment about how he doesn't flaunt HIS heterosexuality was hilarious. Brian also indicated that he knew better in regards to the straight camp, did everyone miss the hesitation, and then the reason he decided to go with it? And then there's Peter who uses and abuses every stereotype in the book, and always has. And if he already has all these stereotypes in the characters mindset, wouldn't he act on them given the supposed gene?
Then there was Lois' mini-monologue at the end, which was very well put, even considering where it's coming from. The reality is A) we're discussinga cartoon like it's Stonewall, and B) the show reaches PLENTY of people who are anti-LGBT, and it delivered enough moments where it could really show them how ignorant they are, and yet not cause them to completely tune out.
I'm still a fan of the show. Seth McFarlane can come across a little douchey at times in his public appearances, but he's been supportive, as has most of the cast and crew that I'm aware of.
I have to agree as well.
I have to agree as well. The show had some great moments, like the one mentioned above, and I also got a chuckle out of the whole "Seth Rogen" gene bit, probably because I'm a fan of Seth Rogen.
Anyway, I was never really offended by anything in the episode. I think my feelings leaned more towards dissapointment. It was overall just a little hit and miss for me. Not the worst Family Guy, but not the greatest either.
clearly gays are good at
clearly gays are good at overreacting. sheesh. my boyfriend and i laughed out loud during the entire episode. espeically the squeal peter made about the 11-way... we had to rewind to watch again and again!
it feels like the gay community is spewing just as much hate as can be spown (?) to anyone who they find offensive... maybe it's time to look in the mirror and decide who we are going to be, those who promote tolerance or people who seek out those who don't agree with us and attack them (hmmm remind you of anyone?).
for the love of god
ok then...
let's change gay community to after elton.
but still much of the gays have turned into a bunch of hateful hypocrites.
Parents Television Council
Well, one good thing came of the episode, regardless of how you feel about it - it totally pissed off the conservatives. The Parents Television Council has filed an indecency complaint with the FCC about the episode. Gotta love how they distill the episode down in their complaint, though:
Even better is Seth's response to the media about the complaint:
The article is here: http://www.thrfeed.com/2009/03/parent-group-discovers-family-guy-files-fcc-complaint.html
I've since reviewed the episode again, and I may back off my initial impression of it - maybe it was shock from going from Brother's & Sisters watching to this, but it wasn't as bad as the first viewing. I think what slapped me around was that I felt they were really trying to make a point around the whole thing, and it never showed up. I felt more cheated that they didn't cleverly tie up the plot than any individual gag.
That's...
I think what slapped me around was that I felt they were really trying to make a point around the whole thing, and it never showed up. I felt more cheated that they didn't cleverly tie up the plot than any individual gag.
???
I have watched Family Guy in the past, and have found it occasionally funny. To me the most offensive thing about the episode was how unfunny it was. Even before the introduction of the gay s/l there's not one funny moment. After watching the only positive message that seems to come from the episode is yes gay people are weird, and have really freakish sex, but they can't help it.
I think the episode sums itself up with the injection of the Seth Rogen gene:
"the appearence of being funny, although you haven't done anything funny."
I can't really say that
I can't really say that I've found Family Guy to be all that funny overall (my main exception is the scene with the ipecac contest from one of the earlier seasons - that still cracks me up). I learned, oddly enough, from the Cartoon Wars episodes of South Park that you can't really expect any depth/thought/provoking social commentary from it and should just figure on vapid, shallow attempts at cheap laughs.
This is just another instance where the manatees bobbed some balls around, but this time one of the balls had the word "gay" on it. I wouldn't suggest that I didn't find the jokes funny because they were "offensive" (I didn't find them offensive really) but rather because I haven't found the show all that laugh-provoking at all in such an amazingly long time to the point where I attribute my previous enjoyment of the show to "naïve youth". I certainly have a hard time watching an episode of Family Guy and NOT thinking of South Park, negating any enjoyment.
I watched it
and afterwards I thought, their getting exactly what they want in reactions. so I went back and re-watched it and TOOK my laughs worth out of it. we're right they're wrong, we know it, thats all that matters.
Family Guy is supposed to be that way...
I'm a fan of the show, and I saw that episode when it premiered; I laughed. You know, I'd be a hypocrate if I wass offended by what they say of gays, and then laugh at what they say of women, Jewish people, black people, Asians, children with diseases, Canada (as I'm from there)and the list goes on. It's just like South Park.
The show is ridiculous, and hops onto a plethora of different peoples and subjects to make fun of. One of their main characters- Stewie- is [at least!] bi, and so it was an interesting choice of characters to have say the Leviticus quote.
Show like these aren't ment to offend people, but make them laugh. SOMETIMES there's an underlying moral making a parody of America's society. What about the episode were Brian's gay cousin gets married- I thought that it was a very liberal stance. And so, its probably a good thing that they had a gay-mocking episode to bring balance to their material.
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