The Top Story: How did the media cover the alleged assault of an asshat?
This week, gossip blogger and "queen of all media" Perez Hilton was allegedly assaulted. The situation may have started as a he said/he said story in the media, but it changed when TMZ released video of the incident, which included the gossip blogger calling will.i.am a "faggot". Hilton's use of the gay slur was criticized by GLAAD and yesterday it looked like a war of the words was brewing between the blogger and the media watchdog group, but Hilton has offered an apology for his use of the slur. Due to the voice he takes on his gossip site, the incident inspired many to react with a bit of schadenfreude, along with comments that someone should have acted on the urge to hit him sooner. His polarizing personality led to some media coverage that truly belongs in a hall of shame, as well as some that didn't quite work for me. Here are the highlights: The website formerly known as 23/6 Back when Huffington Post's comedy tag was a full website, they offered some funny videos of things "condensed into one minute" and the feature returns to make fun of the video Hilton made after the incident. (Watch out for NSFW language at the link.) Basically, they make fun of him for being repetitive, sometimes having multiple Perezes saying the same phrases at once. The presentation did make me laugh but I can't decide if this one crosses the line or not. It doesn't try to suggest that Hilton deserved being assaulted, instead highlighting the excesses of the video. But aren't they essentially making fun of someone for being upset after suffering an assault? The Situation Room On CNN's The Situation Room, Jeanne Moos tried to inject some snark into the report while maintaining the network's pose of neutrality ... and failed. Looking to laugh at the assault but not wanting to actually express their sense of glee, Moos instead read Twitter users' comments along the lines of, "Glad this happened to you." The segment's most ridiculous moment came when Moos compared the tearful video Hilton made after the incident to Chris Crocker's infamous "Leave Britney Alone!" video. Um, what's the similarity to someone reacting to being the victim of an alleged crime and an obsessed fan showing his misplaced priorities? Oh yeah, they both feature effeminate gay men crying. It's exactly the same! Funny or Die Speaking of Chris Crocker, Seth Green's Robot Chicken collaborator Breckin Meyer revisited the way Green mocked Crocker's "Leave Britney Alone" video by filming a remake. I'm not sure if this works for me, either, but its several steps ahead of suggesting that Crocker and Hilton's videos are comparable. Jezebel Meanwhile, amid all this, Jezebel asked an important and overlooked question. Namely, while it's good to finally see Hilton's hypocrisy put on display, why has he gotten away with his misogyny for so long and why isn't anyone calling him out on it? Jezebel cites recent instances of Hilton calling women "ho" as well as the way he called Carrie Prejean names (which, I should note, we criticized from the beginning). Personally, I think Hilton's dealt in all sorts of demeaning stereotypes — he certainly gave ammo to Isaiah Washingon's defenders during the Grey's Anatomy hubbub — and this seems like an apt moment to discuss all of it. Red Eye If you haven't seen Red Eye on Fox News, imagine Fox and Friends having a late night cousin with just as much vapidity but with the perkiness replaced with smarm. In discussing GLAAD's criticism of Perez, host Greg Gutfeld and Adam Corolla talked about how they believed gay men were free to throw the word around, much like how other minority groups have their own exclusive words. Sigh. Color me unsurprised that a Fox News host would see the concept of reappropriating a wordd as merely a matter of the PC police creating rules to make life harder for the poor, repressed majority of straight, white men. And Gutfeld is surprised that GLAAD didn't respond to his invitation. Going into this, I had hopes I would find someone who might be able to inspire a guilt-free laugh in me, something to quiet that nagging voice that keeps telling me how liberals have no sense of humor — but maybe because this involves a violent crime there isn't a joke to make. Or maybe I'll find that joke if I wait for comedians like infoMania's Connor Knighton or The Soup's Joel McHale get to weigh in. What do you think? Has there been any good coverage I missed? Any other nominees for the hall of shame on this story? Submitted by on Thu, 2009-06-25 16:46. |
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Yeah...
A "violent crime"? The guy got punched in the face. This wasn't a stabbing or shooting or gang beating or anything, it was a guy who made a life out of being a complete douche to everyone being a douche to the wrong guy and getting punched in the face for it. The end.
Personally, I have never been to his website or seen any video of the guy (as everything he is and represents is, to be nice about it, not for me) but even from my limited knowledge of him it's kind of plainly clear the guy's a jerk. I think it's a little ridiculous this is even "news" in the first place.
lol.
Lol.
And after the supposed 'violent' attack, PH took the time to use his cellphone, get on twitter and tweet that he had been assaulted and could someone call the police. Haha.
No, that is not pathetic attention seeking at all. lol.
Asshat Perez
Sometimes a jerk gets what he deserves. Some say violence serves no end. I disagree it provides us endless entertainment when someone actually get what a asshat deserves. A punch in the face. Boo Hoo. I can't feel sorry when someone goes out of his way to actually be a full on jerk.
Who pays this jerk anyway!
It doesn't matter
I am not surprized by the
I am not surprized by the inappropriate response of the media. But in this case would you expect anything more? (Ok, in most cases would you expect anything more?) The asshat (I cannot bring myself to type
hisits "name" any more) is a total asshat, a scumbag and a joke.I can't condone violence against an asshat any more than I can condone violence against a true victim, but when you are an asshat and you act like an asshat and you refuse to stop yourself from instigating, then you're increasing exponentially the chance that violence may be perpetrated against you!
HeIt should not be surprised thatheit got punched.Maybe, just maybe enough people will come forward to call the asshat on the carpet for
hisits repulsive behavior andheit will go away. Would we even know who this asshat was if the "media" didn't reference and/or pay attention tohimit?BTW, I loved the Funny or Die bit!
Thanks for letting me vent.
Perez Hilton
I'm not surprised by the media reaction. In some ways I feel he deserves to finally realize how little people care about him. He's a jerk.
BUT, he is right, no one deserves to be a victim of violence, or mocked for that, and I think anyone who says he deserved to be punched is pretty cruel.
He shouldn't have said that word, he deserved crap for that, but I take his apology as sincere.
Now can we move on?
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I am having an extremely hard time feeling sorry for him
Interesting that the article
re act of violence
If someone is continuously verbally baiting someone with hateful slurs intending to get a reaction [they were coming out of a bar, how drunk were all these people?] and ends up getting hit, how far are some people going to defend this behavior?
PH isn't a physical bully, he is a verbal one with absolutely no consideration for anyone else and no filter in venting whatever anger and hatred he has onto various celebrities and celebrities' children regardless of age. I don't see why that is ignored for those who defend him as a 'victim'.
Also, his apology, such as it is, had mentioned he plans on giving all the proceeds he wins from the lawsuit he is filing to The Matthew Shepard Foundation. They don't want it.
MatthewShepard.org
"... While we applaud Mr. Hilton's apology... we also feel compelled to point out that use of epithets can often lead to physical violence, as it appears it may have in this case..."
I feel like I'm the only
I feel like I'm the only person who is kind of disturbed by the fact that Asshat got slugged for calling a straight guy a "faggot." I just think there's a different dynamic involved when a straight person is called a faggot than there is when an actual gay person is called a faggot. When a gay person is called a fag, it's a slight against them and all other gay people. When a straight person is called a fag, it's...still a slight against gay people. I'm wary of a straight person who has such a violent reaction to being called a fag. After all, what the hell's wrong with being a fag? If you don't have a problem with gay people, why should you care so much about being called one?
Do you really think that when Will's manager punched Asshat, he was thinking, "HOW DARE YOU USE A HOMOPHOBIC SLUR, YOU CAD!"? Stranger things have happened, but all things considered, I can only assume that he was thinking what most straight guys think when they or someone they know is called a fag, which is "How dare you call my friend a homosexual, which I perceive as being gross/emasculating!"
To make a long story short (too late!), my point is that I'm bothered by all of the people who seem to think Will's manager was justified in getting so angry over the "faggot" comment. Am I missing something? Because in my opinion, both people involved come out looking like major asshats who are no friends to the gay community. I'm open to the idea that I am just too sensitive and/or overthinking this, though.
Sticks and Stones
I thought the same thing when I heard this story. If it were anyone besides Asshat, I think this would be more of an issue. PH has used up all his "got out of jail free" cards with just about everyone though. I can't say I feel overly sorry for him. I wish this whole sad story would just go away.
what I don't get
is that everyone is assuming that the only reason he got hit was because he said ****** and not because he was arguing with and baiting [when he happened to use the word to "defend" himself?!] will.i.am?
If he wasn't filmed at the time he called will.i.am that particular slur, would we really be hearing about that part of the event? That word might have been the proverbial straw, but I don't think it was the sole provocation.
I want to know what reaction PH was expecting in using the verbal assault of calling someone a f***ing ******. How is that used exactly in defending one's self?
It isn't a matter of 'he deserved it', but if someone is getting into another's face for a verbal assault/altercation, they should both be well aware it could turn physical.
Could he and this story
I agree. So...AE, why
I agree.
So...AE, why don't you make an editorial decision to not cover and/or refer to the asshat for any reason any more? Maybe others may then take the hint and the media won't pay it any attention any more and then it will go away with it's tail tucked between its legs never to be seen or heard again!
And we would all join hands and go skipping through the fields while Satchmo's "What a Wonderful World" plays in the background!