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Hell hath no fury like a Nuke fan scorned!

Well, well, well! Yesterday's As the World Turns certainly got folks worked up! I was so swamped with my BEST.GAY.YEAR.EVER! column that I only just now read all the comments and I only got to watch the Nuke clips late last night. Given the fury in the comments section, I was half-expecting to see Noah hit on Grandma Emma and the two of them slip off to the barn for a little hetero hanky-panky. Fortunately, that's not quite how things went down and I've got some thoughts to offer up on what did happen.

But first, let me put on this handy fire retardant suit because methinks I might need it given some of what I have to say.

Let me open up the packaging. Pull out the suit. Boy, these things are stiff! Okay, first the legs, now the arms. Where is the damn zipper? Okay, there. And now the hood. Phew, it's stuffy in here!

Okay, now here goes: I think some folks might be overreacting a bit to the supposed homophobia indicated by cutting away from the kiss.

And cue the pitchfork wielding mob! Here is hoping this suit works!

Obviously, I'm not serious about folks who are upset being an out-of-control mob, but am just trying to inject a little levity into the situation.

So let's briefly recap yesterday's episode one more time.

As everyone knows, last week we had Noah invited to spend Christmas with Luke on the farm and in this episode we're treated to a scene of Luke's parents, Lily and Holden, reminiscing about how quickly their son has grown up and how he's now out on the porch with his boyfriend. And they're completely fine with it.

Later, when Luke has his Christmas "miracle" and fetches the butter, Noah looks at him with tears in his eyes. To celebrate, the family offers up a toast to Luke and to Noah. Later Noah, not much for mushy words and sentiments, gives Luke a card reading:

"Luke, I wish I had your way with words but I don't. Thank you for never giving up on me even when I pushed you away. Being with you has made me happier than I have ever been. Merry Christmas. LOVE, Noah."

That's right, one teenage boy just told another teenage boy that he loves him on daytime television. And several times during the episode, Noah squeezed Luke's arm or they touched and were always in close proximity like lovebirds tend to be. Finally, we had them under the mistletoe and the infamous kiss that wasn't.

And for this CBS and those involved with ATWT are being called homophobes and worse.

Before those lighters are applied to those torches, let me just say I am not cool with how the camera cut away from the kiss. Frankly, given that the two had just said they love each and made all sorts of goo-goo eyes at each other, I'm not sure what the person who made that call thought they were accomplishing. And I'm as frustrated as anyone that Nuke haven't been featured as prominently as they deserve to be. Clearly this storyline is being treated differently because Nuke is a same-sex couple.

But again, we just saw two young men say they love each other. And on daytime television. Allow me to recap a few things, if you will.

No other soap opera except the now-canceled Passions has a gay character. General Hospital had one they gay-bashed and then wrote off.

The Fox Network has no gay characters that aren't animated. CBS primetime has no gay characters. NBC has a handful of "barely there" gay characters some of which have appeared in one episode this season. And even ABC's very gay-friendly Ugly Betty hasn't had a kiss between Marc and Cliff yet. In fact, the only show regularly featuring same-sex kisses on network TV is Brothers & Sisters.

My point? Just that I don't think it's fair to call ATWT homophobic or to berate them relentlessly. There has been no other storyline on daytime television that comes close to what ATWT has done. We've no idea how hard the producers and writers of the show may have had to fight to even get Nuke on the air.

Look, I've no problem with folks being passionate about Nuke and even calling up CBS to complain about cutting away from the kiss or petitioning them to do more with the characters. I think those are great ideas. But how many folks also wrote and called CBS to say how much they love Nuke and appreciate the show is doing what no one else will?

And if our goal is to get better gay visibility on the air, I'm not sure that calling the folks doing the one show on daytime TV (and one of the few on air, period) where the gay characters have kissed and said they love each other, where the homophobic character is the insane killer, and where pretty much everyone else is gay supportive, homophobic is the way to do it.

Frankly, if I were a writer on another soap opera or television show and I saw ATWT getting so much grief, I might simply decide that the crap I might get from the advertisers, not to mention homophobic viewers, plus the gay folks angry I'm not doing enough for them, simply wasn't worth the grief and not do a gay character at all.

Again, I am not cool with how some aspects of this are being handled and if I get to interview the powers that be, I'll specifically ask those questions. But I do think a little perspective is order.

Okay, you may now light those torches!

Phil Heffley's picture

I'm appreciative

I agree with you, Michael.  I posted much the same sentiments yesterday and got jumped on for it.  If you look at the comments left on recent YouTube videos you can see the anger building about the non-kissing, and it's reached explosive exasperation.  I understand it, but it's making people lose perspective.  The story has drawn them in, obviously, and they really care about Luke and Noah and that's why they want more.  What we've been given is great, even with only two on-air kisses so far (three if you count the fact that the first kiss was re-taped - not just re-run, but re-acted by Van and Ben - as the opening scene at the start of the next episode).  It was a passionate kiss that lasted 4 or 5 seconds.  To have given us this story line at all was brave, and they've written it consistently positively and compassionately.
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BSGnut's picture

After seeing the clip, I

After seeing the clip, I was a little less incensed than at first, but there's no denying a DOUBLE STANDARD exists in the way NUKE is portrayed versus the heterosexual couples. 

What we have are two very romantic scenes (with the Christmas card and the mistletoe) and in any other context, these would have led to a kiss or at least some intense physical affection.  The words they were saying to each other are so beautiful, it seemed like a betrayal of the emotional content of the scene for them to cut away.

When you add yesterday's episode to the last few weeks, in which the Nuke storyline has been completely marginalized, it just begs the question.  Why are they being so damned cautious?

Phil Heffley's picture

You're right but

You're right, of course, that in spite of assurances that Luke and Noah would be treated the same as the other characters on the show, they are obviously not.  Regarding your comment that the Nuke story line has been "completely marginalized," however, soap story lines ebb and flow.  In this sense they are treating Luke and Noah like the others.  If a story is intense for a while, it takes a bit of a breather before coming back.  Luke and Noah's story was intense when Col. Nutcase was pretending to be nice to Luke, then shot him, then Luke was in the hospital.   They had a lot of air time then, and now it's time to concentrate on other story lines for a while.     
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Andymmb's picture

Screen time

But the problem is, with Luke we get waaaaaay more than a breather.  After Luke's coming out story, he went into hiding for nine f***ing months!  ATWT made me fall in love with this character and then they shelved him for 9 months...the length of a full pregnany.  This, all the while the other teens continued to hog all the screen time, for some reason Luke was kept seperate from them.  Why is that?  If you go back and count up all the episodes Luke appeared in in 2007, you might be disturbed to know that he appeared less than the kiddies (Parker, Faith, JJ and Sage) and even a few beloved vets who are NEVER on themselves. 

And even with the arrival of Noah, the screen time remained a joke.  The boys were barely on at all during the Summer until the end of August.  Just 4 episodes in June and 7 episodes in July.  We had a nice 2 week period with the fishing trip of doom in September but that was it.  And this was all BEFORE Van Hansis got involved with Die, Mommy, Die! 

Every time an episode involving Luke and Noah ends, I have an immediate sense of dread because I know it will be another 8 episodes before I see them again.  ATWT can't keep showing them so little.  They're going to end up turning away all the new viewers they brought in with this story. 

  

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Jason B-S's picture

As much as I'd like to fire up the flame thrower...

I have to agree with you, Michael. They're actually going much further than any other show out there except Brothers and Sisters. Still... I'm pissed about what I will now refer to as Mistletoegate!

Let the scandalous DRAMA begin! :-D

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Jon's picture

We've danced to this song before

" Frankly, if I were a writer on another soap opera or television show and I saw ATWT getting so much grief, I might simply decide that the crap I might get from the advertisers, not to mention homophobic viewers, plus the gay folks angry I'm not doing enough for them, simply wasn't worth the grief and not do a gay character at all."

I can't count the number of times that gay men have to feel that they should accept any crumb, because if we want more, then we'll lose everything. Where has that gotten us? Exactly where we are now. 1 soap with gay characters, and IN SPITE of rising ratings, critical acclaim, and lots of fan attention, the show is backtracking.

Van Hansis himself told fans to write to P&G. So clearly he knows something is going on.

Frankly, I just don't feel like turning a blind eye to cowardice. If we do, then what are we going to get next?

I have watched As the World Turns since I was a little boy. I watched the show at my grandmother's house. I have kept up with the show off and on, even though it has been wretched for 10 years now.

Yesterday was the first time I ever felt like ATWT was ashamed of me. And to be honest, it hurt. I'm not going to be able to get over that for a while.

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RJ's picture

But Michael also wrote this...

"Frankly, I just don't feel like turning a blind eye to cowardice. If we do, then what are we going to get next?"

So don't turn a blind eye.

However, Michael also wrote this in his blog post:

"But how many folks also wrote and called CBS to say how much they love Nuke and appreciate the show is doing what no one else will?"

Yes, how many of those same people who are incensed at "mistletoe-gate" actually contacted CBS an/or P&G to express their appreciation and support for the Nuke storyline?

As the saying goes, "you can attract more flies with honey than with vinegar".

Andymmb's picture

Hard not to be angry

If ATWT is being forced by Procter and Gamble not to show kisses between the guys, why can't they just tell us that?  It would be so much less painful knowing this was a losing battle than for them to give us hope by telling us they were going to treat Luke and Noah like any other couple.  I'm sorry but have you ever seen a straight couple on a soap opera do nothing but hold hands for 3 months?  3 MONTHS?!?!?!?  I'm not asking for porn here.  Just give me a couple kisses a month!  That's not asking much at all. 

Why was it O.K. for the guys to kiss in August but 4 months later, every ploy you could ever imagine is used to prevent them from kissing or not show them kissing?  If you're scared, ATWT, then tell us! 

Just what the hell kind of message does panning away from the kiss yesterday send?  That being gay is awful and any affection you show is shameful?  I came to show because of Luke.  He's my favorite ever gay TV character and I was thrilled when TPTB  said they would be giving him a boyfriend.  But here it is 6 months later and the couple is NEVER ON!  And before Noah came to Oakdale, Luke was never on either!   If ATWT continues this pathetic screen time for the boys, than they are going to lose all the new viewers they brought in.  I'm tired of these bread crumbs! 

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Ron's picture

Thank you Andymmb

Andymmb wrote:

If ATWT is being forced by Procter and Gamble not to show kisses between the guys, why can't they just tell us that?  It would be so much less painful knowing this was a losing battle than for them to give us hope by telling us they were going to treat Luke and Noah like any other couple.  I'm sorry but have you ever seen a straight couple on a soap opera do nothing but hold hands for 3 months?  3 MONTHS?!?!?!?  I'm not asking for porn here.  Just give me a couple kisses a month!  That's not asking much at all. 

Why was it O.K. for the guys to kiss in August but 4 months later, every ploy you could ever imagine is used to prevent them from kissing or not show them kissing?  If you're scared, ATWT, then tell us! 

Just what the hell kind of message does panning away from the kiss yesterday send?  That being gay is awful and any affection you show is shameful?  I came to show because of Luke.  He's my favorite ever gay TV character and I was thrilled when TPTB  said they would be giving him a boyfriend.  But here it is 6 months later and the couple is NEVER ON!  And before Noah came to Oakdale, Luke was never on either!   If ATWT continues this pathetic screen time for the boys, than they are going to lose all the new viewers they brought in.  I'm tired of these bread crumbs! 

Thank you I feel the same way

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Anthony D. Langford's picture

Thank You!

Thanks Micheal for some refreshing perspective amid all the hysteria.
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homoguy563's picture

Flame on!

 "Mistletoegate" "Yesterday was the first time I ever felt like ATWT was ashamed of me. And to be honest, it hurt. I'm not going to be able to get over that for a while." *LOL*Those bastards!*LOL*How dare they?CBS should be ashamed.The betrayel.Jon, where and when did Van tell fans to write P&G?
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Jon's picture

To a fan

"Jon, where and when did Van tell fans to write P&G?"

A fan talked to him after a performance of Die Mommie Die and asked him about the lack of affection. Van repeatedly said to write to P&G and basically said the naysayers have a loud voice.

No offense, but if you spent less time laughing at people here and more time reading about this story, you might know what was going on in that even Van himself may have concerns.

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Andymmb's picture

One more point

Something I forgot to mention earlier...

They couldn't show us a kiss when Luke was in a hospital bed after being attacked. 

They couldn't show us a kiss when Luke & Noah decided to become boyfriends.

They couldn't show us a kiss when Luke got out of that wheel chair and literally took the most important steps of his young life accross the kitchen to his boyfriend.

They couldn't show us a kiss when the boys told each other "I love you." 

So, ATWT, what exactly is the right "moment" for them to kiss?  At this point, if Luke were on his death bed, I'm sure all we would get is a handshake. 

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Metabaron's picture

Yes, We Want Honesty

I agree that CBS and the Producers of ATWT should tell us EXACTLY WHY they are not treating Nuke "like any other Heterosexual Couple". They should be the ones who expose the bad actors here (Religious Right Groups, CEOs, etc).
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Guillermo Serritiello's picture

Very good point

I ask myself the same questions that you raise and I have not been able to come up with the answers.

On one hand, it's amazing for me to finally see gay representation on a show that I've been watching for so many years. No one had a clue when the ATWT show-runners decided to make one of the core family's children gay, that the response would be so favorable.

Any long-term fan (straight or gay) will probably attest that Luke and even Noah are really are on oddity in a show that has become a grim place where previously independent women have all been turned into doormats and the men who used to court them spend their days judging them. Carly Tenney used to be a goddess a la Samantha Stephens from Bewitched, and now she’s still on life support as the death sentence misdiagnosis was lonely taken literally. I huge almost stopped watching the show not because of the lack of action between Luke and Noah, but due how horrible the rest of the show is and makes me feel.

In the end for me it comes down to mismanagement and that the show runners are not listening to the feedback that they are receiving from every source that they have. Fans want a happier show that respects the history of the characters and those calls have gone mostly unanswered for over two years. I am not one to settle for crumbs, but starting to come to the realization that this may be as good as it gets and (when seen as part of the whole) it's astounding that Luke and Noah came to life and have, paralysis aside, not yet been destroyed.

With regard to Luke and Noah, I think that all the scenes leading to yesterday's off screen kiss were so romantic and simply hearing Luke say "I am so in love with you" or "I am in love with you" gave me shivers as Van Hansis is a breath of fresh air and who makes me fall in love with him falling in love with Noah. I feel like I am 12 again. On a typical ATWT day, if Jack and Carly had been CAUGHT under the mistletoe, he would criticized her yet again and would have made making threats to take her children away and that she's never there for the family and never follows his INSTRUCTIONS. Or they would have made out and then would be fighting for no reason in the next scene.

While, I did not like seeing the camera pull away from them as they kissed, it can't take away from the fact that Luke and Noah are the show's most functional, least bipolar, most supportive "couple." It’s funny to call them that as they have not been shown acting like a couple, but like buds. The show is in such dire straits that I'll take their kind of love over ANY other alleged couple of the show.

Having said that, I think that (possibly) our collective reaction may have had to do more with the fact that this leading couple is never on, than on the actual camera pull away. Had Luke and Noah been shown kissing in the many opportunities that have manifested themselves, maybe the pullaway could have been seen as old-fashioned “cute” and not as as "State of the Union" of sorts as one never knows when our guys will be shown again.

I think that a fair question would be to ask why they are rarely on, as all their screen time need not be centered on physical intimacy. Their popularity is a given, so why not show them studying with baby-crazed Will and Gwen or something.

Another question that I think is worth asking would be that if, assuming that there is any pressure whatsoever about bringing down the heat on this couple's lust, would it not make more sense to show them kissing more often in ways to desensitize any viewers who may not be ready for what’s already been shown. The kisses don't all have to be whoppers.

Why do we get 4 or 5 straight days of Katie/Jack/Carly/and babies, babies, and more babies, and not more Luke and Noah hugging after Luke walks or even giving him a sweet kiss on the forehead. I am starting to believe that this may be a healthy way to go. We'll be happy to see them more often, thus lessening our expectations as we’ll finally realize that they are here to stay. Any perceived “pressure” from the business end would also be lessened.

Maybe we need to beg for a spinoff that will air on Showtime, Logo, or any of MTV’s sister stations. I am not being flip or caving in here as I think that the show can do even better by these guys via their continued integration to the social fiber of the show.

I am not sure how many of you are familiar with the success that ABC had when it decided to show what happened to a chosen group of characters on the daytime show General Hospital during the “Night Shift.” This extension of the show was a 13 week once-a-week experiment with self-contained that aired on Soapnet. Things got racier and Soapnet has its best ratings ever I don't watch GH nor watched what I suggest as something that could be done with Luke and Noah.

The series could take advantage of all sorts of corporate synergies of the Viacom/CBS family and could focus on Luke and Noah's life in say the dorms of Oakdale University. Talk about a goldmine waiting to happen with all sorts of intimacy for this beloved couple of a series of college age students who could be tested for longer-term appeal on the mother ship. Luke and Noah: College Nights could air once a week for one hour and we'd have more development which could then be matched with their daytime duties.

Think about this folks..... I may be giving Barbara Bloom, Head of CBS daytime programming a freebie that will reap them a bunch of dough. Big Brother apparently brought Showtime a material number of new paying subscribers via that show’s companion Big Brother After Dark, which aired for 3 hours per night. ABC considered Night Shift such a success that it is planning on doing 13 weeks for its 3 daytime dramas, thus having original programming for 39 weeks to complement their daytime roster (which stinks and they don’t have Luke and Noah).

There is so much that can be done and I’d love to see the owners of Luke and Noah realize what I believe to be an untapped way to do more and make more money. The spinoff suggestion, coupled with more frequent/less “pressure” appearances may bring us something that may be a the model for future programming for extremely popular characters or topics that are a byproduct of the show, but can’t quite be fully explored as it can if it has two ways of doing so. Let me at them folks. Of course I could be delusional.

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mai-ku's picture

Luke/Noah spinoff

Well, if you're delusional then so am I.  I've never seen the GH spinoff (nor GH, for that matter).  But I love the idea of a spinoff for Luke and Noah - and the use of the college setting is a logical choice.  It seems that a spinoff that could air in the evening on Soapnet would broaden the overall audience for As the World Turns as well, simply because of the potential to let a couple of characters (i.e. Luke's family members) put in occasional appearances and become familiar to non-ATWT viewers, who theoretically could follow them back to the "source" show.

Given the changing landscape for soap operas as a genre, coupled with the availability of cable stations that cater to niche markets that are less demanding ratings-wise, an experimental spinoff of this type could benefit the PTB more than they'd even anticipate.   

Anyway, I'd definitely watch!

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homoguy563's picture

That's right!!

 You tell 'em!Oh oh oh, what?!You want summa 'dis, CBS?!It's fuckin' on!
Daniel's picture

Celebrate What's Just Happened

I agree that many people have blown it out of proportion, but even I find it somewhat infuriating that obvious kisses have not been televised, and then I laugh it off, and consider the overall drama. It's beautiful, and it's funny (sometimes in one of those awww, how cute ways), and it's good. I personally am greatly appreciative for the small taste of heaven that we are allowed access to, but am a little spiritually aggravated when I'm turned away at the gate just when I arrive.

This doesn't mean that I am disrespectful or ungrateful of the opportunity to visit heaven at all. I am deeply appreciative. I just would like to see more. And this dancing around the outskirts is intriguing, engaging, fun, and blissful.... but there's always a part of me that is attempting to peer down golden roads and through crystal arches.  And every time I look, I keep getting caught by the guardians who just shake their heads at me and urge me to move on.

So I can understand both sides. I understand the painful distancing of self from the blissful center. And indeed, the first truth of the Eight is that Life is Suffering. Impatience must yield to compassion and understanding before the next circle is reached.... and in the end, the winding labyrinth takes us through a beautiful voyage of self discovery. The longest distance between two points is a double spiral, but when the straight line is so apparent, and visible, it is so tempting to demand it.
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Gabriella's picture

It really does look like

It really does look like ATWT producers aren't portraying this relationship the way any other heterosexual relationship is portrayed on the show.

I wish they would learn something from the show Brothers & Sisters. Look how casually and frequently they showed kisses of Kevin and his boyfriends throughout the first season.

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Mrgdl's picture

Disagree with you 100%

Soap Opera Digest and other publications have come out in praise of the storyline. Luke and Noah are considered one the most romantic couples to come along for quite awhile. Both actors are always highlighted for best acting. Is this good feed back to CBS? CBS gave us the first two kisses and there was no uproar reported anywhere that I am aware of. The message boards for the show "which I am glad to say I belong to" are pretty much 99% behind the couple and the story. The writing for the show has become ludicrous. We actually watch the show and can tell you all the things wrong with it. You should take the time to read some of the posts. The only thing right with the show is Luke and Noah. The actors have a chemistry together that is amazing. When Luke told Noah "I am so in love with you" it was so beautifully acted by Van Hansis that it made me feel his love for him. What a beautiful moment for a tender kiss. Instead we were treated to Holden "catching them" and then treat them like young high school freshmen caught on the porch sneaking kisses. Give me a break, Noah is in college and Luke would be as well if not for the paralysis. Maddie jumped in bed with Noah and we were shown that without a moments hesitation. Yes I want the story line to continue and yes I appreciate the fact that they are the first gay couple to be allowed a chance at a full-fledged storyline. But no I am not satified with that. I am not asking to see them in bed like all the other couples, usually not with their own spouses. I am only asking that they be allowed to develop and actually be allowed to express themselves as any normal couple. They don't have to be switching paternity tests, sleeping with two men at the same time, trying to cause one's wife to have a miscarriage or try to have a baby as a project. All they need to do is let them occasionally share a kiss. CBS am I happy with you ? My answer is NO! If there are reasons for what you are doing please share them with your viewers.
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Ron's picture

What if?

Luke & Noah finally tell each other how they feel about each other and they lean in for a kiss the camera panning up to mistletoe.

I'm asking on other boards what if it was Holden and Bonnie that was going to kiss. And they did not show it.What would you think?
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Guillermo Serritiello's picture

Not to make light of the subject....

.....as I am with you 100%, but as a long-term fan, I don't even want to contemplate said kiss and not due to any possible racism that the show show may be acused of, but because there is no chemistry between the characters and because newBonnie is badly cast and Holden only seems to have a soft place in his heart for Luke. Potential love interests need not apply with the Snyder men unless they want to be turned into Stepford Women.

Bonnie and Holden actually did get caught under the misletoe in the same episode, but thank God that Holden did not notice. Your comment reminded me of something that I had not thought in years and that newer viewers may not know about. Bonnnie is a product of a great love intercial love story between Duncan (white and quite Scottish) and Jessica (black and quite American).

The Jessica character also had the challenge of "replacing" 1/2 of one of the show's supercouples as it was ALL about Duncan and Shannon, before Duncan & Jessica. The show dealt with the race issue head on with family members and even some friends dissaproving. Duncan and Jessica married and the race "issue" on the show eventually was eventually not even an issue. It was still owned by P&G and the subject matter was possibly even more explosive as it took not only took on the racial component, but had thethe black character replacing one of the show's favorite leaing ladies. Duncan and Jessica became a super couple in their own right and was shown all degrees of intimacy.

Bonnie's parets could be compared to Luke and Noah in terms of being "out there" with a subject matter that still brings up all sorts of feelings in the viewers/advertisers. Unlike Luke and Noah,  Duncan and Jessica were on all the time and the issue of what people may think did not prevent them from seeing that the audience liked them.

While not as pertinent to this site, I will be interesting to see how the proposed pairing of Bonnie and Holden goes as the actress is not well-liked butn on top of that racism is alive and kicking as refleted on the show's boards. Even without having established any credible relation or chemsitry between Holden and Bonnie, P&G seems to be willing to do the sequel.

I do know that there must be more than meets the eye wth regard to why Luke and Noah are not on as much as other characters and why they've also had very heated/pasionate/tender moments that stand out as the show's best. What I don't think that some people have discussed is that P&G may actually be courting generating a response to call attention to its shows. Could it be wanting our eyes and the media attention without fully delivering? Maybe, but they did right by Jessica and Duncan (different show runners at the time) so maybe next Christmas Luke and Noah will be kissing under the mistow in bed.....

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netogeno's picture

Interesting point you make about P&G

Everyone has been dumping on P&G for being responsable for the change but as I understand, it has a very good record for being a very gay friendly company. Among other things, it offers full benefits to same sex domestic partners and advertises to the gay comunity in mainstream and gay media; for which they have been boycoted before, they stood their ground and did not cave in. I mean GLADD and the HRC, for what thats worth, have given prices and accolades to this company. This is puzzling to me. Its obvious ATWT wanted this story told (with P&G approval), otherwise they would not have put it on in the first place and they did very well until about a couple of months ago. Since there is no public outcry, this very strange.
Mrgdl's picture

Beautiful Episode

Even though I vehemently disagree with the message in the blog I need to point something else out. This is one of the first shows to feature Luke and Noah and it was the best show I have ever seen on ATWT. It was sweet and touching and I believe it can stand on it's own. It was so beautifully acted, by both Van and Jake, and (gulp) well written that Luke and Noah's story shone through the dreary morass of angst the rest of the show has become. I have watched the episode more then once and I still love it. It has to be one of their most romantic episodes ever. The other supposed "super couples" can only hope for something close to it.
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Luke & Noah pulling apart after

Come and read this Post at Vanhansis.net

Luke & Noah pulling apart after..., thought I should point this out

http://z13.invisionfree.com/vanhansis/index.php?showtopic=4646

netogeno's picture

OMG!!! How CSI!!! That is

OMG!!! How CSI!!! That is what I call loving your characters. LOL. But I guess that means even more editing.
Ron's picture

Update Luke & Noah pulling apart after

Ron223 wrote:

Come and read this Post at Vanhansis.net

Luke & Noah pulling apart after..., thought I should point this out

http://z13.invisionfree.com/vanhansis/index.php?showtopic=4646

http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff244/MadAboutJack/122307_20151.jpg

nf63's picture

Rally 'round the post office, boys!

The reason that P&G, CBS, and the ATWT administrative offices get so much mail against the Luke and Noah storyline is that the people who write them, the red state religious zealots and the others with the anti-gay agenda, have nothing else to do with their time. They literally have nothing better to do than jam the phone lines and mailboxes.

We have jobs that we have to spend time commuting to and from. We have social engagements. We spend time at the gym (I'm generalizing here, don't snap at me). We have lives. We don't have hours of time to spend on letter-writing campaigns. The thing is, the haters do. They have nothing but time. So we have to make a special effort to make time to send letters and voice messages to the same places they do, so we can balance out the messages they're sending.

No matter how eloquently we may discuss our feelings on community blogs like AfterElton, our words aren't going to be read by the powers that be, because they don't look here. We need to send those words directly to their inboxes and voicemail, and we need to do it in bulk.

If the letter-writing haters are the same people as the ones on the message boards, they're a small group that sends a disproportionate

The other thing is, as much as I want to personally smack the faces of everyone responsible for MistletoeGate, that isn't going to do anything but make my wrist hurt. It will be much more helpful to write letters in support of the storyline, and lots of them. After Christmas I'm going to snap up a ton of cards on clearance, and use them all for writing pro-Nuke letters. If only we could each send a mailbag full, we'd start to make a dent in the deluges of mail the haters send.

Here's a webpage with mailing addresses for support/complaint letters, along with other information and suggestions (including a pro-Nuke petition) from the vanhansis.net board's posters:

http://z13.invisionfree.com/vanhansis/index.php?showtopic=4448
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Russell1947's picture

The Luke & Noah "No Kiss Zone"

No torch bearing villager here.  I basically agree with everything you said, after calming down.  This show is doing gay people, especially gay youth quite a favor.  Showing that being gay is ok. I came out in 1973, & I only wish there had been kids like Luke & Noah on TV back then.  Coming out has become commonplace these days in our society.  That still doesn't make it any easier.  But with shows like AS THE WORLD TURNS, UGLY BETTY, BROTHERS & SISTERS & TORCHWOOD, it doesn't have to be as lonely as it once was
syrus's picture

Are we supposed to be

Are we supposed to be heaping praise on ATWT for the storyline?

What that sounds like to me is that the show is doing us a favor by having a gay character and that sucks.

Let's face it, if not for Van Hansis, Luke would've been written off AFTER coming out.

TPTB are foolish. Nuke has given them a buzz they haven't had for years. The head writer has destroyed all of the characters and their histories. They've butchered Carly, Rosanna, Adam, Henry and Vienna.

And the show is sending a mixed message. They feature two gay characters one day out of the week and then de-sexualize them. No one is asking to see them in bed but it's unreleastic to not expect to see affection between them.

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Phil Heffley's picture

Yes we are supposed to be

Yes we are supposed to be heaping praise on ATWT for the storyline.  In case you have forgotten WHY - take a look at this 7-minute YouTube clip.  The show is giving us a terrific story that deserves our praise.  This clip clearly shows why.  http://youtube.com/watch?v=j7HnJcQbuhA

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Guillermo Serritiello's picture

They could be doing better...but

As I've written to death, I do believe that the current scribes have assassinated almost all of the characters on the canvas, with the exception of the underused Luke and Noah. I certainly don't think that the Luke character "sucks," even in the hands of these scribes. I am not sure that I agree that he would have been written out if not for Van Hansis AMAZING performance, but all that I will say is that they better be putting his name on the 2008 Daytime Emmy for Best Leading Younger Actor.

New fans may not understand how this show is a such a mean-spirited shadow of itself at the macro-level, but even long-term fans have welcomed Luke and Noah with open arms when they finally started to get some play. I too wish they were on 2 or 3 times a week with meaty material and that they had more physicality; however in a way they are a miracle even with their lack of exposure as they are not hurting one another, making nasty threats, or engaging in plot driven junk as is almost every single of my favorites.

I do agree with you in that I think TPTB are being foolish and I would go further and say negligent towards the ATWT audience, as it refuses to listen to the fans. I am not one to settle for crumbs, but I'd sooner see Luke and Noah as they are, than being destroyed with the daily contradictions that now define characters like Meg, Rosanna, Jack, Katie, and the list never ends. If there are any mixed messages to me is how the same head writer that comes up with Luke's journey also writes all the other junk in the show. I want my show back with the wonderful additions of Luke and Noah, who should be on more often as repeastedly proven by the fans.

Their affection is growing and it's sexier than anything in the air. I want to see then kiss, hug, caress, lust after one another, and (very soon) give in to it just like Luke's parents did in the mid-1980s under the great writing of Douglas Marland.

My position on the show is that, if not for Luke and Noah, they would have lost me a long time ago as I can't stand not seeing Lucinda Walsh be the greatest diva ever or have iconic Carly being a doormat to her loser husband and bratty oldest kid. If they don't step up the time that Luke and Noah are on, I'll be gone and only watch their scenes, which should be the last thing that any showrunner would want from a 20+ year fan who is gay. But like I said, I won't take crumbs and support their whole show as that is what FF was made for in my DVR.

I go back and forth on how to best let the monetary stakeholders on the show know how upset I am with the show as a whole, how glad I am for them to have had the courage when they first introduced a gay character who was not a footnote to the show, and how I wish that Luke and Noah, (but especially Luke) were on more often. I want to see him with new friends at Oakdale U., he needs another Maddie or Jade back in his life, and much more good stuff to have all his supporters happy to see him. Sometimes he feels like a guest in the show, but even at the worst of times (with the exception of being paralyzed) he's treated without the anger that Oakdale's men have acquired nor turned into the doormats that the women have become. Unlike poor Ro has also not changing paternity tests after being brought on the show for nothing.

Is anyone else here an ATWT fan prior to Nuke? Maybe someone here can give me a hand as how to do something that may make a difference. I've praised them about having introduced Nuke, have reminded them to be smart by showing them more often as they have a strong fan base that is mostly straight (although they should know about how many fans are new to the show only because of Luke and Noah) and have made my views regarding the overall destruction of the show known via letters/emails/postings.

I also don't want to waste my time writing positive notes as they continue to ignore the feedback that is all over the different fan fora for the show and is well documented in the different magazines that follow the show in "main-stream" daytime media.

You ask if you are supposed to be heaping praise at this stage? I think a little, but with qualifications. Today, they are not doing us any favors as they themselves have cast and written gay characters who may have more universal appeal than they ever thought possible. Do they send mixed messages? Daily, but with all the characters on the show. It's not easy being a fan of this show as it has so many contradictions. I still think that they should be spunoff into their own weekly series (on top of their ATWT duties) exploring their lives more fully to maximize the brand appeal and take on every cliched "new media" outlet. As Luke said "I am so in love with you" (when referring to Noah), but as a fan in love do I have to put up with my partner's friends and family too if they behave like savages? Maybe I can if I can see my boys more often (being dreamy and lusty as Van Hansis has both of those down pat) and have the other characters on the show chill out.

A nice roll in the hay, literally, like Luke's mom and dad did in the 1980's would be a nice February sweeps win-win... Writers strike notwithstanding...

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Maxine's picture

Don't settle for less...

I'm more in agreement with syrus on the Luke and Noah storyline. I think the writers are doing a terrible job with Luke and Noah. They started off well enough, but have been free-falling the last several months.

There should certainly be more affection and kissing between these two so called boyfriends. They have only kissed twice, the last time over three months ago and have hardly touched each other since. Yes, they look at each other with puppy dog eyes and have held hands a few times, but thats about it in over three months!! Affection is important, kissing is important, it lends credibility to this story, especially when it's supposed to be two teenage boys in love. I don't know any teenage boys gay or straight that would be as mudane as these two.  And lets not even get into how disgraceful and disrepectful it was to avoid the kissing throughout the christmas episode last week. What kind of a message was sent at that moment about gay people when the camera panned up to the mistletoe as Luke and Noah were about to kiss. That was horrible.  I'm sure young gay teens follow this storyline and watched that episode last week.  It sent a very negative message that gay boys can be seen but to show affection, even in a fictional SOAP is a big NO! I'm sorry, but this is bullcrap!! TPTB over at ATWT should be taken to task for what they are doing, not heaped with praise, or it's like saying you agree, you condone their behavior of this storyline.  I know people are glad to see this gay storyline in daytime, but my goodness! this is the year 2007, they can do a little better than panning to mistletoe and fading to black.

TPTB over at ATWT should do the storyline with diginity or don't do it at all.  This story is at that tipping point where instead of it going down in history as being groundbreaking for the 'first gay kiss' and love story on daytime SOAP, it will go down  in history as a storyline that should of, could of, but didn't.   


 

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Guillermo Serritiello's picture

Are you a long-term fan? New to the show? Watch ALL scenes?

I used to share your desire for all or nothing as Luke and Noah are never on and when on the passion had been lowered to almost nothing. If ATWT were doing a bang up job on all of its storylines and messing up Luke and Noah, I'd really be beyond upset as there would be no doubt that the scribes could be seen as moving backwards while  trying to get the advertising dollars of pro-gay fans without delivering the goods.

If you are a long-term fan, or one who watches the whole show, you could not miss that only Luke and Noah got to kiss under the mistletoe. No one else. Why? Because the show has no other couples who are in love as most of them not only don't like/respect one another, they hate one another. They should have shown the kiss, esp. when the characters are on so seldomly that every action seems to send a message, but were either of them being kicked in the teeth as Carly was by her husband and bratty Parker? If someone is not watching the whole show, it's impossible for them to see how dignified Luke and Noah are writen versus their straight peers.  

Compare the two most popular reigning super couples on the show to Luke and Noah, and what do you get? Doormat Carly and Judge Judy Jack and Luke's parents Lily "Guilty for everything including global warming" and Holden "God" Snyder.

In no way can defend the actions of a writing team that I think needs to be replaced in its entirety. They've had over two years (actually more as the head scribe has been with the how much longer) to address fan complaints about bigger fish to fry. Bigger in the sense that the core of the show is perceived as being rotten to the core versus previews regimes. Our guys have been spared from that.

I've been one of their most ardent critics and was upset when Luke seemed like a footnote in his own storyline as for a (too long for me) while it was all about Maddie and Noah. That finally ended and the two had their steamy almost kiss (Yowsah!) and the kiss that rocked. I was happily surprised. Paralysis and rarely being on seems like such a hard to understand course of action given the almost universal support that they received; however......

The show sucks and has not listened to its audience across the board, not just its pro-Luke and Noah fans. If we want equality on ATWT  we'd have a choice of the following material:

If Luke were Carly (arguably the show's most popular performer and current Emmy-Winner for Leading Actress) this last few months would been written as follows.

Luke leaves his kids to play with another man (the poor actress actually went on maternity leave but this was her gift). He comes back and is shunned by all of Oakdale. He stalks his ex-husband, who insults you (in public, private, in between) and he takes it over and over like a champ because love is about accepting abuse until people see that you will not leave. Luke would have received a literal death sentence, but only to find out that it was a misdiagnosis (dying? just kidding) and he would have kept it to himself and working the death card. He'd even be shown drinking a beer and slam dancing of happiness in his living room. He'd finally come clean a second before being remarried and of course would have been left by the altar in his knees, humiliated in front of all of Oakdale. His ex would tell him at every corner that he's a lousy human being, would threaten to take his kids, does, talks smack about him in front of the kids. He would have spent Thanksgiving alone, would continue to be threatened by his ex, and that would include his future livelihood to show him a lesson. Lastly, he would have gotten more of the same on Christmas Eve and the only people on his side would have been an ex-con with a freaking (and scary) hand-puppet and another ex-con who had a role in kidnapping his 2nd eldest.

I know that Luke can't even get married, does not have kids to leave and has not even been shown going to second base, but as Luke and/or Noah fans, this is what the show's favorite couple is getting from the scribes. Carly did fool Jack into doing her in what was mostly a disgusting scene that made fans repulsed as this has been the show's IT couple since 2000. She also stole some pitty kisses. Now that is what I call lack of dignity. A pull away kiss shot after hearing "I am so in love with you" is lame, but how could anyone prefer the straight leading lady's trajectory versus Luke and Noah's. As her character continues to be assassinated, she's also on 3,4 or even 5 times a week. Ugh!

Or maybe they can be treated like Meg, allegedly in love with one man, yet marries his nemesis the second she thinks he is dead. None of her actions make any sense, but she does get to have unprotected sex at least 6 times with two guys, lies to all involved. Do we want that for Luke? The sex with her husband has the sensuality of nails on a chalkboard and their is no real reason for her to be having sex with her not really dead love as she's actually clueless as to why he'd be miffed that she married and continues to stay married to a man everyone hates. I'll take Luke and Noah as they are than having them receive the "Meg" treatment.

Or maybe Luke can be treated like his mom. Yelled at by Luke's father for everything from how she spends her own money, who she befriends, how she dresses, and even had the audacity to blame her for Luke's accident. Get this. Lily was guilted by Luke's father to take over for an ailing mom who had been scheduled to oversee some overnight trip for some little girls, including previously mute Natalie. He almost wraps up Luke with a bow by allowing Luke to go on an overnight trip with Colonel Death and does not even bother to find out where they are doing to stay. Does anyone want this type of equality? Lily gets blasted for not sharing a bit of information with Holden, but he, who spends time with the nasty murder, and allows Luke to go is guilt-free. Even Maddie warned Holden about this trip. Her reward. You are off the show!!! As far as the affection barometer, Lily and Holden were shown having sex once in the past 8 months right after he criticized her for looking too unmotherly with a sexy dress and their hotel sex was disgusting. Holden was in the shower before the "sex" even got started and she is shown calling one of the few men in the show who does not think that women are disobeying whores.

Is the pattern clear? The current scribes of this show do not show any of the other characters making puppy dog eyes at one another, holding one another, or showing any non plot-forced "affection." Like Brad and Katie's baby daddy s/l. The name is acutally being used on the show. Has there been kissing? Yes, but none of it earned just plot points to move ill-conceived stories around.

Luke and Noah have are a miracle in Oakdale. The scribes seemed to have the best of intentions (and they still do), cast these two characters so well, that to me it's frustrating not to see them continuing to move ahead as the hard work has been done; however it cannot be underscored enough that they live and breathe under a writing team that is highly criticized and seems to take that criticism with grains of rock salt.

In my ideal world, Luke and Noah would be spun off to have their one lives outside of the mess that is Oakdale. They are money-making machines, not charity nor nobility. They could be one of the tender couples in a greater urban or university canvas which could also show other gay temparaments. Even Luke and Noah can get to be more soap-like but not before they cement this love as the scribes are holding on to gold and they seem to not be able to work so well with that.

The only hope that I hold out is that Luke and Noah did get all wet and got to kiss after some major hard to stomach decisions made by Maddie, who would have never moved in with Noah nor changed her plans to go to Wesleyan. It seemed like more like major time-buying by the show-runners to check the panorama. Maybe Luke and Noah's recent words, touches, looks, and assumed kiss represents their prelude to more. They can easily start by showing them more often. Am I holding my breath? No. If the scribes are finally replaced or get on track, Van Hansis may very well take any heat that he has right now and leave the show in 2008, when his contract expires. Since he tackled Die Mommie Die, maybe there are independent films in which he can appear. Hopefully some will be gay-themed and I'll be able to see this actor grow as ATWT has been the first step in many careers, including Julianne Morris and Dana Delaney of China Beach fame and currently bring it home on Desperate Housewives. Indie-gay loved Parker Posey was also on the show. Or maybe Van will stay and due to the overwhelming support continue to receive favorite actor and he and Noah favorite couple honors from magazines like Soap Opera Digest well into 2008. I just can't fathom that I'll continue around to see the whole show as is, and will at most watch selected scenes. Those who are currently doing this, please watch the whole show for a while to see Luke and Noah is a broader context and the question your be reframed as how are they getting any blood from this stone? It may not be enough to make anyone wanting to see a more natural progression stay, but at least any opinions will have the full story and not the easy excuse that they are scared of what mid-America will do and they weaseled out. To me the show already shows that it's not listening to most of the fans about anything.

If I ever (finally) see Carly slap Jack across the face and bedded by a new hottie (Simon come back), the Stepford Wives wake up, and the Synder men (with the exception of Brad and Luke) show women some love and respect, then the writers will have some major questrions to answer. Until then, they can use having bipolar disorder to defend any and all that goes on in the gloomy and love-free show that they write. 

 

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Michael 's picture

WOW spring

NO wonder your considered the leader of our atwt message Board, Damn you nailed it all, and all with passion!
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Ron's picture

Preview Clip here, Friday 28 with Luke & Noah

artias's picture

I agree, but I don't

I agree, and I thank CBS and atwt For what they are doing, and I am grateful even with the kiss away. I was tempted to leave it at that, but i am tired of settling for what we can get, we deserve nothing more and nothing less then equality even if it is a soap. As silly as they are, this is actually a very important step in the road to visibility and equality. And shows middle america that their kids can be happy being gay. 

Ok, I am off my soap box now.