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"Better Off Ted" star Jonathan Slavin on Hollywood's internalized homophobia

We love out Better Off Ted star Jonathan Slavin. We recently spoke to him for our now-historic BEST.GAY.WEEK.EVER! on camp, which led to a fascinating conversation about straight actors playing gay roles — something Slavin wishes they wouldn't do.

Now Slavin has been interviewed for Advocate.com in which he expounds further on Hollywood's internalized homophobia:

What happens sometimes with gay writers, gay directors, and gay casting directors is that they sort of look like me: They’re sort of schlubby, middle-aged gay guys who have always been schlubby gay guys, and who have always wanted to be around really hot guys. When you give those people power, they tend to surround themselves with the people that they find dreamy, and they have a tendency to fetishize the conversion of hot straight guys. Like, you hear stories about them not yelling "cut" on the set of Brothers & Sisters when Jason Lewis and Matt Rhys were kissing.
It starts with the gay people in power, but the responsibility falls on us in the gay community because we tend not to care if a straight guy plays a gay character as long as they’re cute. We’ll choose abs over politics, and that’s our problem. It’s up to us to say, "But I’d like to see a gay person playing a gay person."

He also speaks about how difficult it is for gay actors to be considered for some gay roles:

I have actively sought after some gay roles that I haven’t even been able to get seen for because they’ve said, "It’s not that kind of gay; we want Brokeback Mountain gay, so we’re only seeing straight guys."

It's obvious that Slavin isn't afraid to tell it like it is, and we applaud his candor. Now if someone could just do something about his de-gayed IMDB profile!

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    IMDB's content is mainly

    IMDB's content is mainly user-generated, so they don't change things themselves generally, though they do review changes made by users. So anyone can fix the profile page. I just submitted a correction anyway.
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    Liz's picture

    hmm...

    "I have actively sought after some gay roles that I haven’t even been able to get seen for because they’ve said, "It’s not that kind of gay; we want Brokeback Mountain gay, so we’re only seeing straight guys."

    ^ "not that kind of gay?" what does brokeback mountain gay mean? something dramatic and heartbreaking? oh, hollywood...tsk.

    "because we tend not to care if a straight guy plays a gay character as long as they’re cute."

    ^ oh man, this really reminds me of when the cop who is gay on southland was revealed. people were upset that he wasn't hot.

    in general, i think it's not even the gay community that is the problem. i mean, hollywood in general usually has good looking stars, whether gay or straight.

    they're gonna play all sorts of roles. Hollywood practically banks on their looks. you're cute, people love you, go see your movies, cha-ching! Jonathan does has a point, but i think when it comes to roles and casting, that isn't up to a whole community. whether the person is good looking or not...we don't cast them. there are always gonna be people who think so and so isn't hot, but there are those who DO find them hot.

    pretty sure i explained that horribly. it's hard explaining stuff on the internet.

    TriplicateGuy's picture

    I'm with Slavin

    I'm much more upset that the gay cop on Southland is being played by a straight actor than I am that he's not "movie star" handsome (although I see that someone in charge finally made him get that huge mole removed from his cheek).

    I liken the straight-as-gay casting to a production company that claimed they were going for color-blind casting, saw a ton of actors of color, and then "somehow" wound up with an all-white cast. 

    Oh, and add Jonathan Slavin to the "adorkable" list stat. 

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    Dennis Mpls's picture

    I also applaud his

    I also applaud his candor.  However, a lot of what he says is quite silly.  The idea that only a gay person should play a gay person, for example.  He talks about choosing "abs over politics", but casting is an area where politics doesn't belong.  Casting a movie is about choosing someone who can best bring the role to life, not about making a political statement.  The production makes the statement, as with "Milk", not the casting.

    Remember, virtually every role is a situation of someone portraying someone else, i.e., someone DIFFERENT from themselves in various ways, usually in many ways.  In a context where the goal is to produce the best work of art possible, the only consideration of the casting should be to enhance as much as possible that goal. 

    If you say that only a gay actor should play a gay person, then shouldn't you say that only a deaf actor should play a deaf character, only a blind actor should play a blind character, only a Slovakian actor should play a Slovakian character, only an American actor should play an American character, etc?  Just think of all the incredible performances we'd have missed.  To take the first example that pops into my head, Viggo Mortensen playing a Russian in Eastern Promises was one of the best examples of an actor losing himself in a role that I've ever seen.  And then of course there's Sean Penn in "Milk".  And Heath and Jake in BBM.  And most of Meryl Streep's career! 

    Coming at it from another angle, if straight people can't play gay, then gay people can't play straight for the same reason.  Do we want to tell Neil Patrick Harris or the many other gay actors that they can't play straight roles? 

    So if you consider the reality of what acting is, and then consider the goal of casting, the only reason to insist on gay actors for gay roles is to elevate political considerations above all other considerations.  That seems artistically unwise.  And it also further ghetto-izes gay actors, and by extension the whole gay community.  I for one don't want to go down that path.

    I think our goals as they relate to actors should be two-fold:  1.  to create an artistic environment where sexual orientation has nothing to do with casting, so that gay actors have no roadblocks to employment for any role that they can properly perform; 2.  to create an overall environment gay friendly enough to entice all gay actors out of the closet.  When that happens the only thing that will matter when casting is done is who can best play the role in question.  And that's as it should be.

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    Madeleine's picture

    I couldn't have said it

    I couldn't have said it better myself. I think every actor, gay or straight, should be given a fair shot at a role, and the actor that best fits the role should get it.

    Kudos to Mr. Slavin to speaking his mind, but I think the comment at the end seems a little unfair. I don't honestly believe a director would say "we're only looking at straight guys". It seems like Mr. Slavin is stereotyping straight guys as buff jocks with six packs, when in reality gay men can look like that too and straight men can look "shlubby".

    A while back I found out that the director of "Were the World Mine" specifically cast gay actors as the two leads, and I think that is an interesting choice. I admire that he is actively helping out gay actors, but I would caution treading too far in that direction and excluding straight actors from playing gay.  

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    Jamie's picture

    His characer on Better Off Ted

    Good pont: "Coming at it from another angle, if straight people can't play gay, then gay people can't play straight for the same reason.  Do we want to tell Neil Patrick Harris or the many other gay actors that they can't play straight roles?"

    Slavin's character is straight on Better Off Ted. 

    Dennis Mpls's picture

    LOL!!!

    I don't watch the show so I didn't think about it that far.  That's certainly ironic.
    snicks's picture

    not really, if you read the interview we did with him

    "I am a proponent of only gay people playing gay roles, very much the way that affirmative action in that like a black, a Latin or Asian role should never be played by a white person. Yet there are many roles that are not specifically black, Asian, or Latin, per se, that can be played by someone of color. Like I feel the same about being a gay actor, like we should be covered under the same affirmative action. So, I think that ... only gay people should play gay, but I think that it’s okay for us to play straight as well, only because affirmative action was created to protect people. And there were certainly times in my career, many times, when I’ve gotten feedback like they don’t want to hire you because you’re gay. So if I feel like it has worked against to me so much of the time, I need to be protected. Does that make sense? "
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    zanefan's picture

    I have to say, I think

    I have to say, I think that's a skewed viewpoint.  Again, I understand what he's saying, but I don't completely agree.

    There's an INSTANT disconnect when you are watching a role that is clearly written as being for a person of color and the person playing them is NOT that race.  I don't care HOW convincing an actor is, a white person is not going to pull off playing a character who is written as Asian, etc.

    The same cannot be said for being gay.  This is one of those situations where sexuality and race are not clear parallels.  They are in so many other ways, but when it comes to acting, I don't think they are.

    We've seen convincing straight people playing gay and vice versa.  To stop doing this in order to address a behind-the-scenes casting issue is the tail wagging the dog.  It's better to focus your efforts, I think, on FIXING the problem, not limiting your options.

    Just my $.02

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    TriplicateGuy's picture

    Yes, it makes perfect sense.

    The arguments some of the posters above (Everyone should be considered for every role) could then be translated into white actors being cast in "A Raisin in the Sun." It's absurd.

    Until the playing field is evened out, with gay actors receiving the level of respect they deserve, affirmative action is a must. No one doubts Sean Penn's ability or star power made Milk the movie it was. But all those supporting roles played by straight actors? How much better and more authentic would the film have been with a talented gay actor in James Franco's role? Diego Luna's? How many more gay actors would come out if they knew they were being actively sought for parts?

    Years ago Native Americans had to fight for the right just to play Native American roles, which were generally cast with Italians. Black actors had to fight for the right to play doctors and lawyers and to be cast in commercials. Why do gay men not see this as the same battle?

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    zanefan's picture

    Honestly, because it's not

    Honestly, because it's not the same battle.

    There's plenty of battles to be fought, I agree 100%.  But this isn't one of them, IMHO.

    For one thing, I think you'd be hard pressed to find that many out actors who actually FEEL the same way Slavin does.  I think most of us agree we need more gay stories to be told on the screen, and need more WORKING gay actors, but to suggest that ONLY gay people should play gay roles is a bit illogical.

    I think tying this situation to the very valid and well-fought battles you stated regarding Native Americans and black actors is tenuous at best.

    As for your example of Raisin In The Sun, the story was written for characters who ARE black.  And you have to BE black in order to play a role specifically written for a black person, unless you resort to offensive things like blackface. 

    The same simply is not true for stories written about gay people.  It simply isn't.

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    TriplicateGuy's picture

    Generalizations

    Where is your information coming from that you can say "you'd be hard pressed to find that many out actors who actually FEEL the way Slavin does" or "I think most of us agree". You make a similar generalization about Jewish people in another post. Why are you making these sweeping, absolute statements? Has there been a poll on any of these subjects that I am unaware of?

    Please do not presume to speak for me or any other people except yourself or your arguments have no validity. 

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    zanefan's picture

    You'll note that in both of

    You'll note that in both of those statements, I prefaced it by saying "I think."  That's not a "sweeping generalization" that's an opinion, meaning I'm not speaking for anyone but myself.

    But nice try!

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    Dennis Mpls's picture

    Oh come on now!!!

    I hate to be so blunt, but that analogy to black actors is literally non-sensical.  I ask in another post on this thread if I really have to explain why a white playing a black is different from a straight guy playing a gay guy.  But I guess I do.

    A bunch of white people couldn't do "A Raisin In the Sun" because it would be, on its surface, ludicrous and unbelievable.  Because no one would buy it.  Because it would be a laughing-stock production.  (Again, do I really have to explain this???)  Straight guys can play gay guys because the audience can't tell the difference.  As with QAF, where when I heard more than half the cast was straight I couldn't figure out which was which without researching it.

    So please, let's put the black vs. white analogy to bed, for pete's sake.

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    Dennis Mpls's picture

    Not a whole lot better

    Actually, that doesn't make things a whole lot better.  I was assuming that he meant something very much like that, i.e., the similarity to affirmative action for blacks.  And I can see some value in that.  I'm not being pollyana-ish, as Darcolover suggests below.  But he should have said that because of past inequalities, the orientation of an actor should be highly considered when casting a gay role.  Not that only gay people should play gay roles.  For example, if Gus Van Sant were casting "Milk", and he had a choice between Sean Penn and a gay actor who could bring the same quality or nearly the same quality to the role, then yes, by all means cast the gay guy.  But can anyone honestly say they think there's a gay actor out there who could have done what Sean Penn did???  So Jonathan Slavin is saying that "Milk" should have been a lesser movie with a lesser performance simply so that we can follow the political dictum that only gay actors should play gay roles.  There's no way that makes any sort of sense to me.

    And jeez, I was so totally hoping that no one would bring up the analogy of whites playing black, Asian or Latino roles.  Do I really have to explain why that is so totally a different thing that in no way applies here?

    The bottom line is that we should encourage directors to cast gay people in any roles they can enhance, and also to tilt toward gay actors whenever a viable one is in the running.  But I think to go farther than that, to say that only gay people should play gay roles, is literally counter-productive to the general, long term cause.

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    zanefan's picture

    Well said, Dennis, and I

    Well said, Dennis, and I totally agree, if given a choice between Sean Penn and an equally qualified out gay actor, I'd rather see that gay actor given the spot.

    But we don't yet live in a world where there's a marketable out actor of this caliber.  Maybe someday.  NPH has a similar appeal as Tom Hanks, so maybe he'll get some serious roles one day and become that actor, who knows?

    Is this a catch-22?  Is casting straight actors in gay roles somehow CREATING an environment that makes it difficult for actors to come out?

    I, personally, think there are tons of other factors that are much, much more compelling.

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    TriplicateGuy's picture

    Duh...

    "Is casting straight actors in gay roles somehow CREATING an environment that makes it difficult for actors to come out?"

     

    Um, yeah

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    I disagree with your

    I disagree with your assumption.  It's not that directors or producers choose straight actors that is causing the environment you cite.  Rather, it's one of two things:

    1.  Actors are concerned that their image will be affected, considering the large amounts of homophobia that still exist in society.

    2.  Actors are afraid that directors won't cast them for fear of the homophobia I refer to in point #1 above.

    Those two things are NOT the same thing at all as what you are saying.  Casting straight actors does not create the homophobia in society, nor the resultant fear that moviemakers sometimes have.

    You could argue a different point, which is that simply casting gay actors will gradually decrease the homophobia in society at large.  And I'm sure that would be true to some extent, though likely a very small extent.  But an opposing force would also be at work.  Several people have cited Sean Penn and "Milk".  Sean's overwhelming performance and resultant Oscar did a huge amount to help combat the homophobia I'm speaking of.  If "Milk" had used a gay actor who couldn't bring that level of performance and star power to it, and the movie had been less impactful, the overall environment would not have been helped as much as Sean Penn has helped it.

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    They key word is

    They key word is CREATING.

    Creating an environmment?  No.

    Contributing to that environment?  Sure.

    snicks's picture

    About gay actors playing straight roles

    he goes into it further in the interview we did with him.
    zanefan's picture

    I *kind* of see what he's

    I *kind* of see what he's saying, and I think his heart is in the right place.  But he loses me with the talk of "schlubby gay guys" fetishizing straight actors.  I am SURE that does happen sometimes, but I highly doubt it's as often as he makes it seem.

    That, to me, sounds a bit like sour grapes.  I might be wrong, or interpreting it wrong, but he sounds like he's bitter that he didn't get better parts in his career.  Which is a shame because he's a very memorable character actor and there's nothing at all wrong with just being that.

    Heck, it's more than a lot of actors can say.

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    TriplicateGuy's picture

    Again with the prounouncements

    Just because you highly doubt something does not make it remotely untrue.
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    zanefan's picture

    LOL... yeah, you got

    LOL... yeah, you got me!

    Dude, do you have a crush on me or something? :-)

    Jay's picture

    Well there are very few out

    Well there are very few out big gay stars, isn't there? So straight guys are really the only option until people (aka. Tom Cruise) come out of the closet! :p
    Liz's picture

    gotta ask about this...

    i have horrible "gaydar", but i find a lot of people think/some say they know tom is gay. did someone publish a book or comment or something to make people say/feel this way? i really am curious because i just don't get it.
    zanefan's picture

    I think that rumor started

    I think that rumor started years ago.  It's equal parts word-of-mouth and wishful thinking, I think.

    Although I wouldn't want to claim him these days.  Cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs, that one.

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    Anonymous's picture

    I Think Y'all Are Missing The Point

    I've never heard him say that ONLY gay people should play gay people.

    1) But the reality is that Out Gay Actors Are Discriminated Against regardless of what parts they are auditioning for.

    "2) Being gay is one aspect of experience that an actor can bring to a roll just like being working class or being tall or being part of an ethnic group.

    There is nothing wrong with actual blind casting but there is no such thing in Hollywood as actual blind casting.

    So if out gay guys can't get hired to play straight characters if they are openly gay and gay guys can't get hired to play gay characters because we expect all gay characters to look, act and speak exactly like straight characters, only CERTAIN gay actors are going to be hired.

    That is the part that is unfair and ignorant.

    Just because an actress is black doesn't mean she's had the same experiences of the character she's playing and her experience of being black could be radically different than the part she's been asked to play.

    However, being a black woman is a value-added element if an actress is called to portray a black woman because it gives her some insight into the character that a white actress wouldn't have.

    Me and my girlfriends call it the Halle Berry syndrome.

    Most African American women  who are not biracial don't look like Halle Berry (and I don't mean in terms of beauty but in terms of hair texture, skin tone and bone structure)

    But for the longest time, every black female part was played by women who were biracial such that the idea of what a black woman looked like in films became skewed and it made it really difficult for black women who were not biracial  or who had dark skin, kinky/curly hair and broader features to get parts playing black female characters.

    It matters not just because of what the actress looks like but also because of the experience she can bring to the part and how it reflects the culture in which we live.

    Being black in America can be a radically different experience (on a day to day basis) if you have light skin, straight hair and less "african" features.  That's just the reality and therefore different black actresses can bring different kinds of experiences to the part.

    But if Hollywood only wants black actresses who are ethinically indiscriminate  in appearance (Jennifer Beals, Rashida Jones for instance) to portray black female parts, it allows them to say they are hiring Black actresses without ever having to upset the staus quo in terms of visual representation and it doesn't tap into the rich experience and real diversity that exists amongst women who identify as Black or African-American.

    So my point is, I don't think anyone is saying that ONLY gay actors should be hired to play gay parts of the fact that Directors, et al are reluctant to hire out gay actors BECAUSE THEY ARE GAY to play gay parts not only means that they are limiting the number of people who get to have those parts but it also means that the experience of being gay (which is siginificant and meaningful) isn't being brought to the part of gay characters and that is a great loss.

    I've seen straight actors peform brilliantly in gay parts but it saddens me tremendously to know how many incredibly tallented gay actors there are who wouldn't even be considered to play those part (even if they were perfectly qualified) because they are openly gay.

    I think it is simplistic to say that growing up straight and growing up gay in American culture don't mean very different things for men and that those experiences wouldn't be integral to what the actors brings to a part.

    The feeling of being in love may be the same for all people who are in love (within their own heart) but the experience and ramifications of loving someone when you are gay or lesbian are very very different than they are if you are straight and it is a quality that can only be an asset to an actor who is meant to portray a gay character.

    People always seem to respond to the kinds of things that Jonathan Slavin is saying with this idealist idea that "all things are equal" but they arent.

    It would be lovely if an actor's sexual orientation wasn't even an issue when considering them for a part but we all know that that couldn't be farther from the truth.

    Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorothy Parker)

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    zanefan's picture

    If it's true that Slavin

    If it's true that Slavin ISN'T suggesting that straight actors not play gay roles, then perhaps Snicks should adjust this part of the piece:

    straight actors playing gay roles — something Slavin wishes they wouldn't do.

    Either way, it does come across as a bit disingenuous to have a working actor complaining about this issue when he's playing a straight character on a network sitcom.  (And, arguably, the BEST character on that sitcom.)

    Plus, let's not forget that Better Off Ted employs TWO gay actors in straight roles... Slavin AND Portia DeRossi as Veronica.

     

    snicks's picture

    he IS suggesting that

    read my above comment for the explanation.
    zanefan's picture

    Thanks, Snicks, that's

    Thanks, Snicks, that's pretty much what I thought.
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    Jonathan Slavin isn't the first gay actor to make this point

    maybe he's just a bit more overt about it than many actors would be.

    But the issue isn't just an issue for him and he seems to be very aware of that.  Just because he's lucky enought to have a regular gig, doesn't mean he isn't the exception to the rule.

    If working out gay actors don't take the mike and speak out about the behind-the-scenes discrimination that goes on, Who Will?

    I can't speak for him, obviously, but so many gay actors have said what he's saying (male and female) that I can help but believe it's true.

    I don't think that the idea of hiring gay actors to play gay parts is any more radical than hiring black actors to play black parts because sometime I think the only way to counteract decades of discrimination is to do so openly and overtly and without apology.

    Many indie gay directors have hired gay actors specifically so that they didn't have to deal with the whole "what's it like to be gay" thing with their actors and could just get on with the acting.

    I think part of why we bristle when folks like Jonathan Slavin says what he says is because people don't like to feel different  and gay people are no exception.

    So for some people, saying a gay actor might bring something unique to a gay part that a straight actor couldn't  because they are gay is calling attention to difference in a way that makes people feel uncomfortable.  

    I think a lot of gay folks don't want to admit that their experience of being in the world or their experience of being a man or woman is different BECAUSE they are gay because we live in a world that's all about "Look at how much we are the same." (the idea being that because we are all the same we deserve to be treated equally and if we could just get straight folks to see us as the same, they'd realize this.)

    But the it seems to me that when you are hiring an actor for a part, you may WANT to consider that person's life experience as part of your hiring criteria.   You may want to hire a working class Italian actor to portray a working class Italian character because of what they can bring to the part that is specifically about having grown up in that experience.  Doesn't mean the acting won't be challenging for them but the experience is part of what the actor has in his arsenal.

    It would not always be true for every part but I think definitely I'd rather see excellent gay actors being hired to portray gay parts then having to listen to 10 more years of actors being asked "What does it feel like to kiss a man?", "Were you worried about the effect that playing gay would have on your career" or straight actors being worshiped  by the gay community for having the "courage" to play gay.

    Again, those are my thoughts as an extension of Jonathan Slavin said today and in his earlier interview.

    "Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorothy Parker)

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    If working out gay actors

    If working out gay actors don't take the mike and speak out about the behind-the-scenes discrimination that goes on, Who Will?

    I have to say again, I think there's a leap between doing precisely this and the suggestion that only gay actors should play gay roles.

    One does not resolve the other. 

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    Dennis Mpls's picture

    Yes, totally.  Please take

    Yes, totally.  Please take the mike and scream as loudly as you can about all aspects of whatever discrimination exists.  But as Zanefan says, that's a different thing altogether than insisting on an "only gay actors" policy.
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    Jay's picture

    Yes, we all know that there

    Yes, we all know that there is discrimination in the industry, but in reality that isn't really important. As long as our stories are being told, regardless of the sexual orientation of the actor, that's all that matters.
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    I don't think so

    Maybe it's not important for us as viewers, but obviously is important for gay actors. And i think explain that only a few come out of the closet, and some lie all the time about that
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    TriplicateGuy's picture

    Oh, please!

    That's like saying that as long as all the apartments in a building are rented, it doesn't matter that they're all the tenants are straight. Or just because all of the job openings are filled, it doesn't matter that they're all filled by white men.

    Those of you who have not worked in the industry have no idea of the daily tirade against gay actors one hears in a production office. "He's too light!" "He's too gay!"

    I heard that every day when casting a soap opera, where conveniently no one remembered that the only Emmy winners the show ever had were publicly closeted gay actors. It can be a horrendous work environment, one that would not be tolerated by law in any other industry.

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    zanefan's picture

    I am not sure anyone is

    I am not sure anyone is disputing that the kind of unfair casting you (and Slavin) describes actually DOES happen.

    Just that the suggestion he makes might not be the solution.

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    Craig Young's picture

    Exactly- his solution is the problem

    I also have some problem with trying to understand the very difficult job of casting which whether people want to admit it or not must in part go with gut superficial instincts. You have to pick an actor for what you are trying to go for in the part. It maybe unfair, but it's reality. Do you want an actor playing against type? Maybe. But, that's a choice, and it's one that must be actively made, and will affect every other area of production.
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    Dennis Mpls's picture

    Misinterpreting

    You're misinterpreting what Jason is saying.  He's saying that the key point with art, the goal of art, is to tell stories and tell them right.  And regarding gay stories, making sure the stories are told is paramount.  Reducing the quality of the art, and therefore reducing it's impact, is not a worthwhile goal.  I'll use the "Milk" example again.  A lesser quality film because of a lesser quality actor would not have been worth the trade-off of employing a gay actor instead of Sean Penn.

    So the analogy to filling all the apartments in an apartment building doesn't apply.  Apartment buildings aren't art, they don't tell stories, and they don't advance the cause of gay acceptance.

    No one is denying the historical prejudice against gay actors.  But the solution of employing ONLY gay actors for gay roles is a faulty solution.

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    zanefan's picture

    I also meant to comment,

    I also meant to comment, and I mean this in the most respectful way possible, you should really be careful not to presume that those of us who disagree with you are not "in the industry" as you say. 

    You really have no way of knowing that, and it could come across as both silly and pretentious. 

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    TriplicateGuy's picture

    I didn't presume

    I didn't see anyone else posting that explicitly said they were speaking from experience, which in this case makes them more qualified, in my opinion. If you are in the industry, please say so, and cite some examples backing up your opinions.

    But, yes, I am both silly and pretentious. Unfortunately, perhaps, it's never kept me from expressing an opinion. 

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    Craig Young's picture

    Wrong Framing

    I do not care if a gay or straight actor gets a role playing a gay character. I want good actors, gay or straight, to play good roles. Sexual orientation of the actor should not matter. My problem with Hollywood is that it self limits what roles gay actors can play by assuming that the public will not accept them. Maybe that's right or maybe not. We won't know for quite some time. I've seen this actor. He's a good actor who deserves work. That he is gay is irrelevant other than Hollywood using this to discriminate against him. Yes, members of a group (in this case other gays) can sometimes be the biggest bigots. That's true of any group. The harshest discrimination in a job that I can face can sometimes come from other African Americans. I do not think he should define the role as gay or straight, but whether it's a good role. By the same token, I do not think he should get a role for being gay. This is one of those areas in which race is not an applicable analogy. Race is external. Our sexual orientation is not. It's biological, but it is not visible biology. The key element is whether he fits the role. The closer, but imperfect, analogy would be a non-Jewish person playing Jewish. I also know casting can be extremely difficult because you use physical body language and looks to convey who a character is. You play on the audience emotions. If you want a guy who is a geek, you choose someone who looks like he could play a geek. It's unfair. But, that's the nature of the business. The looks issue is another topic, and a more complicated one.
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    Dennis Mpls's picture

    Very well put

    I like your analogy of Jewish actors, which I think is a great analogy to the gay situation.  And you also state the black vs gay thing more succintly than I did in my earlier posts.  "Race is external.  Our sexual orientation is not."
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    zanefan's picture

    Nail, meet head. :-)

    Nail, meet head. :-)

    Your Jewish analogy is perfect.  While I'm certain there's a segment of the Jewish population who also wish only Jews would play Jewish roles, I think that's far and away the minority. 

    One of the biggest reasons we have trouble convincing people we didn't CHOOSE to be gay is because they can't "see" it from birth, like race.  That alone makes our paths different from those taken in race battles.

    Similar, but not the same.

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    TriplicateGuy's picture

    Come ON!!!

    You mean to say you can't tell Ross the Intern is gay because you can't see it?
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    seanb's picture

    I actually thought of that

    I actually thought of that sort of thing earlier, and it's true that some actors can be pegged as gay by appearance, voice, etc.  But it's also true that the number of those actors is very small as a percentage of those where you can't tell.  So let's not get sidetracked by that.  If a director/producer wants a character of that type, then that type of actor will usually be cast over a straight guy.  If the director/producer wants a Luke or Noah type, then that type of actor wouldn't get the role even if all gay roles had to be filled by gay actors.

    TriplicateGuy's picture

    Unless...

    Unless it's Stanley Tucci in The Devil Wears Prada, or Chris Diamontopoulos in The Starter Wife, or...
    Anonymous's picture

    That Instant Disconnect Does Happen

    I don't want to be mouth-all-mighty about this but that disconnect does happen for me when casting directors try to be color-blind in casting and wind up with biological impossibilities like The Huxtable Children

    It was completely distracting every time they were on screen though I'm sure someone meant well and just wanted to convey the "visual diversity" within black family.

    Me and all my friends just keep saying, "Who's children are Denise and Sandra?"  Both actresses were biracial but we were meant to just accept that Claire and Cliff were their biological parents even though I don't know any Black folks for whom that rang true.

    My point is, White actors playing Black characters isn't really the right analogy because we're not talking specifically about what an actor looks like but about culture and identity and experience (which isn't necesarily something you can see)

    I think Italian actors portraying Native American characters is a closer analogy because you're dealing with identity versus appearance (that's why I specificaly brought up ethnic indiscriminance in my example)

    Because outwardly, you might think a person could be either but their experience of being Italian and Native American in the US could be radically different and the ability to bring that experience to a role is just part of what an actor has to offer.

    A gay man isn't just a man who has sex with men.  A gay man is a man who's lived the experience of having something integral to and inextricably linked to his identity as a man (his sexual desire) criminalized, discriminated against, mocked and ridiculed. 

    The degree of that conflict may differ from one man to another but all gay people have that shared experience (though it is different for lesbians)

    Even those of us who've been lucky to have a relatively discrimnation-free life still live with that knowledge, that fear, that knowing, that desire to be accepted, that defiance and that need to be very much aware of ourselves and how others receive us.

    For me, it isn't about whether or not a straight actor could research the experience of being gay (generically speaking)  it's about whether or not having that experience  as part of your life experience is an asset to playing a specifically gay character.  I think it is.

    We as gay people are a minority that exist in a world that for the most part is by, about and for straight folks even to this day.  We have to fight to be seen, heard, considered and we have to constant remind folks that we exist.

    We have been inundated with straight representation our whole lives. 

    Every aspect of film, television, all cultural media, socialization has been about straight people.

    Whether we want to or not, we have a lot more insight into what straight people in general are like or are expected to be like.   

    So while we may not have the experience of being straight, we definitely know how to play it (sometimes just for the sake of survival)

    That's just the reality.

    The reverse isn't necessarily true.

    "Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorothy Parker)

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    Knickie's picture

    If that's the case, then gay

    If that's the case, then gay actors (in or out) should turn down all straight roles. Period. And Jewish actors should turn down any non-Jewish roles (what about Paul Newman or Goldie Hawn? Or even Harrison Ford? How much "Jewish blood" would count? Talk about a creepy thing to be discussing!). And Rashida Jones and Jennifer Beal should... well, I don't know what they should do. Find another kind of job, I guess, where their "racial ambiguity" won't make any difference.
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    Anonymous's picture

    Halle Berry, Rashida Jones, Jennifer Beals and Barack Obama

    have all talked about the ways in which being biracial or multi-racial has affected their experience of being an African-American.

    Some folks can afford to think it's tangential.  Others cannot.

    Part of being African-American is about experience/culture and a significant part of it is about what you look like and how you are received.   I don't know a single Black/African-American person who doesn't know this (regardless of skin-tone or experience).

    I've heard Jews, Italian, and other "ethnic/cultural" groups say the same thing.

    It's about the experience of being something (gay, african american, jewish etc) versus  how you are received/treated vis a vis that something.

    Obviously there are nuances and part of your job as an actor is to become someone else and a talented actor should be able to become almost anything or anyone.

    But actors are still human beings.  They aren't really blank slates.

    They bring to a part all the experiences they've had existing in this world.

    I think the experience of being gay can give you insight into playing a gay character that you might not have if you are straight.

    Given the long list of incredibly talented gay actors who have come before and who exist now, why would we assume that the calibur of a particular film would automatically be affected by using a gay actor to portray a gay character?

    I'm not particularly worried about the rash of straight actors being denied the opportunity to play gay characters because that's not the issue at hand and I can't see it becoming an issue in my lifetime.

    "Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorothy Parker)
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