Discuss: How did you celebrate Pride Weekend?
Pride was celebrated in many cities around the world over the weekend, with gays and gay allies taking to the streets in a show of unity and at times, defiance. There was an added significance this year, of course, since it's the fortieth anniversary of the Stonewall uprising. For many people this year's celebration was also a time for reflection, on how far we've come ... and how far we've yet to go. NY Governor David Paterson, NYC Mayor Michael Bloomberg, and Speaker of the New York City Council Christine Quinn For many of us living in less fortunate towns there were no Pride parades, so we had to celebrate in our ... own unique ways. I put on my "Frankie Says Relax" t-shirt (which one of my friends drunkenly altered to read "Frankie Says Exlax"), and my friends and I had a barbeque in the backyard. I know it's not much but for a few hours we were able to come together in solidarity (until the inevitable screaming match which degenerated into ears of corn being flung like tomahawks). But it was nice while it lasted. Below you can see pics from various Pride events around the world. If you were lucky enough to attend one this year, what was the mood like? Was it more joyous, or a bit more somber than previous years? And if there were no Pride parades where you live, did you celebrate a different way? Or does it just not interest you? Dan Choi and Cloris Leachman in San Francisco NY Senator Chuck Schumer Tiffany in Kentucky Awwwww! Real Housewife Danielle Staub Marissa Jaret Winokur Liza Minelli in Paris Pride in Berlin Pride in San Salvador Submitted by on Mon, 2009-06-29 08:08. |
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Is Bernard Delanoe going to be Liza's next?
Dallas
Ft Worth raids
Pope Skippy XVI
It seems that the Ft Worth raids were serious. One of the patrons arrested had a fractured skull. Very disturbing.
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Not really one for Pride Celebrations
However, I watched "Milk" with my roommate Saturday morning (the St. Pete Pride Parade was later that day, but I just can't get into it).
Loved looking at the pictures -- just because it's not my scene doesn't mean I don't enjoy reading about it!
We aren't either...
Yep. I'm out, I don't
Yep. I'm out, I don't hide it. If I had a partner, I'd talk about him as freely as I would if my partner were female. In fact, I was just in the lunchroom here telling one of my coworkers about the gorgeous man I met last night (he's my future ex-husband, I've decided, but I digress ;-) )
I get so much stink for not doing Pride events, I just remind them it's not an obligation and that I do have a rainbow sticker on my sliding glass doors at home and I don't shy away from discussing my life openly.
Good for you!
First I have to address your "future ex-husband" comment. LOL! So positive of you!
I will follow up your comment by telling this quick story. My 1st ex, who I have always referred to as ex-husband #1 since we lived together, and I went to a baseball game the other night. We were discussing the upcoming wedding and I said, "Well, if we get married and get the legal certificate I will have to call you my ex-bf from now on since... well... we didn't ever have a ceremony and make it legal or anything." He laughed and I laughed and he said, "Makes sense... its sad really... but also a good thing too!" Funny how exes can be the best friends you ever had in our community.
Why is it that those of us not into the event are always criticized for not showing up? Our community is quick to turn sometimes.
I wish I had known beforehand...
I knew about Gay Pride Month and I knew about Gay Pride Parades, but I didn't know that there was one weekend in particular that they all kind of have the parades at the same time. I live in a semi-small town, but they had a pride parade. Since the gay community is so small here, I figured that they wouldn't have one, but if I had known about it beforehand, I would have definitely went and showed my support. Now I feel sad b/c I could have met so many people, and now I won't get to. I've never been to one before, so I'm trying to get into the habit with a new baby boy in my life (not mine, but in the family). Next year I'll know, and I'll definitely go b/c I could have used it after the bummer that was last week. I hope that everyone that did go had tons of fun!!
Kitty
Booze Ads
I remember when the bars would rent a flatbed and would design and decorate it as a team effort. Now it seems that each bar gets its float delivered out of a box from different booze merchants. There are some bits and pieces of awesome to be seen but since most of it is booze ads... I can see that just walking down Castro Street any evening. I'm expecting the cigarette companies to join the parade next year.
Needless to say... I stay away from these things. I participated for years. There's noting unique anymore.
The atmosphere where I am
off to london pride next weekend
me and my best friend gina are off to pride! its our 1st, well unless you count thanet pride but honestly we dont ha ha
Pride Dublin, Ireland
I was at the pride event in Dublin ireland. The Parade was led by the chair of the National Lesbian and Gay federation Ailbhe Smyth, who is also a distinguished lecturer from Trinity College and the post parade event was MC-ed by the ever witty and hilarious Miss Panti-Irelands most iconic Drag queen.
The parade was attended by an estimated 12,000 people who were blessed with some of the best weather of the year so far. The parade theme this year was 'Pride and Prejudice', a fitting theme giving the publication of the Bill for Civil partnerships which has been hailed as a half measure and as enshrining in-equality for LGBTcouples and families into Irish law. It has already been criticized by the head of Amnesty International in Ireland. There was a united front presented to the government though as the Bill was shredded on stage to roaring applause from the thousands gathered. My favourite quote of the day came from Miss Panti who gave and amazingly rousing speech,
“Anyone can get married in this country except you, any soccer hooligan, any gay basher, any fascist, any murderer, any sex offender can get married, but YOU cannot,” - Miss Panti as quoted in the Irish Times.
Panti also stressed that while there are differing opinions within our community on the bill, we are united in the believe that it does not go far enough!
The fantastic work of groups such as LGBT Noise, Marriage Equality and EQUALS made sure the message was gotten across.
Pride Dublin has grown in recent years into what is now a 10 day festival with superb theatre performances, gay walking tours of the city, art, short film competitions, and much, much more. So even though there was a serious theme this year there was also a lot of fun to be had!! :)
More links can be found on the day:
http://short.ie/vbi6ji
http://short.ie/xwuad8
http://www.irishtimes.com/newspaper/ireland/2009/0629/1224249725588.html and pictures here...
http://bit.ly/13uGJT
I feel like I'm really not doing it justice...
Ro.
This year was amazing Pride
This year was amazing Pride weather. All the flags along the Liffey looked so fantastic against the sky.
I love Miss Panti. I was at craft night at Pantibar last weekend. Came home smelling like plastacine, but it was a great evening.
Flags along the liffey!
That was a really nice touch!! It made the city look so colourful! I dont think I even say that many gay pride flags in Amsterdam! :D
I wish I had made it to Panti bar as it looked great but by the time we had seen All Over Town and shown my friend the Dragon we kind of wanted to head to the love ball.
Anyway as Panti said "Best pride EVER!"
:)
Houston Pride festival
My husband and I went to the Houston Pride festival for the first time. Luckily the heat wasn't as bad as we were expecting. It was nice seeing a few major companies making an appearance: Continental Airlines, Supercuts, Houston Chronicle, Walgreens, Bud Light.
Sadly, as one of the few over-40 couples, we really felt out of place. We don't have tattoos, or wear outrageous clothes, or have piercings and dyed hair. But we are actually gay, so that counts for something I suppose. On the plus side, a nice lesbian couple said we made a really cute couple, and offered to take our picture. I'd like to think our presence made some sort of difference. But most people were too busy getting drunk to notice. I'm sure the guy wearing the "I Like Dick" t-shirt would miss us if we didn't show up next year.
You know...
I feel the same way. It seems the idea is to have flamboyance and not action to change really.
Another 40th Anniversary
Pride Parade held yesterday in Toronto, but alas once again did not make it :(
Yesterday marked Stonewall's 40th Anniversary. Canadian gays also mark a 40th anniversary this year. It will be 40 years in August that Bill C-150 was passed into law and homosexual acts between consenting adults would be decriminalized.
"I think the view we take here is that there's no place for the state in the bedrooms of the nation. " Former Prime Minister Pierre Elliot Trudeau (then Justice Minister)
Found the following interesting. Excerpts from the various debates on Bill C-150. While we have come a very long way in 40 years, reading some of the comments and comparing them to what is said against gays today, it seems that we have hardly moved at all.
http://www.xtra.ca/public/National/Excerpts_from_the_Bill_C150_debates_in_the_House_of_Commons-6797.aspx
Canadian Irony
Not only was Canada way ahead of the U.S. in decriminalization, but even more glaringly ahead on the marriage issue.
It always amazes me at just how radically different a country so near to us, which shares so much culture and language with us, can be. Canadian gays have a lot to celebrate. Their country has proven in law, rather than rhetoric, just how truly committed to justice and equality they really are, Stephen Harper notwithstanding.
Thanks for...
...the Canada appreciation! The last week in August is Pride Week in my little town of Nelson, BC. It culminates with the parade on Labour Day weekend. It's a small but hearty celebration.
I just have to say, I love Dustin Lance Black a little bit.
Puritanism: The haunting fear that someone, somewhere may be happy.
Pride in Cardiff (Wales)
Well I'm gutted, everyones having these pride celebrations around the world and I have to wait til the last weekend of august (which I'm majorly looking frwd 2 as it's my first and then im goin on holiday before going to university! yay!). Although I'm kinda glad as the weather sucked this weekend with flash floods and storms, hopefully it'll still be sunny for cardiff pride.
My tonuge would catch your tongue...were the world mine :-)
Liza goes to gay pride?
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Kansas City
Pride in Lisbon, Portugal
D.C.
god, is my city the only city that has pride early as hell? i'm trying to remember...i think ours was June 10th...well, it was not this past weekend, thats for sure...
DC Pride
ah, yes...
wait, what was on the 13th and 14th? the 12th was the parade.
ugh, i need to look at the calendars more carefully next time
wel...
Phoenix does ours in April.
Post Pride?
In large metropolitan areas it's relatively fashionable to be over it. It does seem to have morphed from political event to quasi ethnic festival. It might be time to take Pride on the road, to where it's needed, the smaller cities and towns where being out is still not an option, and folks need to be given a chance to feel like part of something bigger. I'll be happy when we can all be as blase as hell about big public displays of gayness.
Nous Sommes Tous Sauvages.
Toronto Pride
This was my 3rd Pride, I've gone since 2006, but had to miss last year because I was out of town. The theme this year was "Can't Stop Won't Stop", and you could really feel that in the air. About 1 million people showed up (I think we are something like the 3rd largest parade in the world), despite the rain, although that did clear up when the parade started, proving that God loves us. It was also the first year that our parade was televised. And thankfully our civic strike (read: no garbage pick up) was not a major issue, as everything was cleaned up fairly quickly afterwards.
This year was also the first year I marched in the parade. I marched with a group called "Heterosexuals for Same Sex Equality", and I have never felt prouder in my life. It was an amazing experience to show my support, and hear 1 million people cheering and screaming their love and support.
Toronto's Pride Parade has come along way since 1981, when it was essentially a protest against the bath house raids earlier that year, which are our version of Stonewall. Back then, police were the enemy. Today, our officers proudly march in the parade, wearing beads, stickers and smiles, and soaked by water guns. The military also marched for the second time this year, something I'm very proud of. It was also great to see local church groups (including my own!), fire fighters, Mayor David Miller, NDP leader Jack Layton, Liberal leader Michael Ignatieff and other city officials and politicians. Harper failed to make an appearance, but then again, no one wanted to see him anyway.
I can't really describe how amazing the atmosphere is in Toronto. Pride is when I feel most proud of my city, as I feel most strongly the diversity and tolerance my city has. Everyone was there to have a good time and celebrate, and yes, make a stand against injustice, but there was no judgement involved. (There was a small anti-gay group, but everyone pretty much ignored them.) There were people of all races, shapes, sizes, ages, and states of undress. I saw more penis and boobs than I've ever seen, and it was great! (figuratively speaking, not literally :P). Families with kids, couples, elderly folks, teenagers...everybody was showing their Pride.
The moment that stands out most for me though was when I saw a 10 year old boy leaning over the fence, shouting "Happy Pride!" to everybody. I made sure to give him a high five.
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I may be straight, but I'm not narrow.
Every day is Pride for me
Kind of in the vein of "Make Everyday Christmas", I guess, but I live my life in such a way that I am an out, proud gay man every day of my life.
No street lined with rainbow flags or huge throng of gays of every description reinforces that more than the knowledge I get looking in the mirror at the end of each day, knowing that I have always been completely true to myself and who I am.
That's an amazing
That's an amazing philosophy!
Though I still think it's great to have a day to celebrate yourself.
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Celebrating Myself
Though I still think it's great to have a day to celebrate yourself.
Ahhh, but I do! Everyday!
I guess for me it's like a
I guess for me it's like a birthday. I'm special and loved everyday, but on my birthday, it's MY day, I own the world, and I can do whatever I want. I feel EXTRA special.
But I'm glad you have such a positive outlook on life!!
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NYC PRIDE
Cutest picture ever!
Agreed!!!
And pictures like that make a way bigger statement to those outside the LGBT community than pictures of men and women in colorful underwear.
"To make a bad day worse, spend it wishing for the impossible." - Calvin of Calvin and Hobbes
Total Agreement
Have you adopted any
Not yet but soon
Absolutely agree with you!