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Rocking Out – Male Musicians Straddle the Closet

In hearing Mika brush off media speculation that he might be gay, one can sense the marketing savvy beneath the privacy issue façade. “I never talk about anything to do with my sexuality,” he said in a widely-quoted 2007 interview attributed to PR-Inside.com Entertainment News. “I just don't think I need to. People ask me all the time. But I just don't see the point. In order to survive I've kind of shut up different parts of my life, and that's one of them, especially this early in my career."

Already a smash success in Europe, and hoping to break big in the U.S., cocksure Mika says he fears no ingrained social taboos about rock stars looking and sounding gay. He's quick to point out that his song “Billy Brown” is about a homosexual love affair. Is Mika's attempt to keep his sexuality private really just a marketing strategy of playing gay for the gays and straight for the straights?

When asked about what he thinks of artists such as Mika and Martin, who seem gay, promote themselves to gays, yet dance around the sexuality issue, Chuck Panozzo doesn't mince words. “It saddens me to see artists playing that game,” he says. “I can understand it at the beginning of their career, but after all, this is the year 2007. Especially since there are young musicians around who are willing to say ‘I'm gay'.”

Jake Shears of the disco/pop/glam band Scissor Sisters is openly gay, but claims he is not interested in singing about being gay. In a 2007 www.me-me-me.tv interview he bristled: “I want the music to be accessible. I don't want to appeal to just a tenth of the population. I couldn't give a f*** about being gay. I'm not a gay man first and foremost.”

Shears's words may come back to haunt him. One might make the case that he needn't feel obligated to make “gay art” simply because he's gay. But early on, the Scissor Sisters purposely chose to make gay-gay-gayness their startup image and marketing strategy.

Lately Scissor Sisters have been floundering somewhat in their quest for mainstream U.S. success. Perhaps they seek to lose some of the “gay taint” surrounding them. Are “the gays” to blame for holding them back from larger commercial success, or are Scissor Sisters wrong to dis those who put them on the map in the first place?

There's no doubt today's new wave of young bands are more at ease with homosexuality than their old-school forbears. Musicians now are more likely to shrug it off, write songs about it and even discuss it with the press.

Chuck Panozzo concurs. “It's nowhere near as bad now as it was before. One can now see young openly gay artists getting record deals and at least getting out there and performing. It's exciting for me to see this happen. When I was young, I had no role models. There was no one to take me by the hand and say, ‘Now Chuck, do it this way and don't do it that way.'”

Critically acclaimed Brit art/punk band Bloc Party features gay singer Kele Okereke, who is becoming an eloquent spokesman for disaffected, lonely youth with several songs with openly gay lyrics. Okereke spoke of his goals to ArjanWrites.com: "To speak to young people in their impressionable formative years,” he says, “and say something that could help them make sense of their lives. Lessen the sense of alienation and isolation that they might have. I think that's something that definitely... I'd be proud of.”

Also from Britain, upbeat soft-rock group The Feeling stars Dan Gillespie Sells, who is poised to become the new gay heartthrob in rock. Armed with stylish, preppy good looks and perfect coif, h e only came out publicly in 2006, but arrives with some fascinating gay credentials. "My mum's gay, my uncle too, so I grew up thinking it was perfectly normal,” he admitted in Attitude magazine, noting that he marched in his first pride parade at age 4.

As they seek to make it big in the U.S., Brits Okereke and Gillespie Sells wisely came out of the closet early so as to preempt any U.S. media innuendos. Their gay orientations are already a non-issue with their fans.

Young musicians in today's rock scene have witnessed the very public outings of their rock predecessors — think Elton John, Freddie Mercury, George Michael. They've seen Kurt Cobain don a dress. They see openly gay characters and actors on TV and in films. They are even aware of the many openly gay acts that have been out from the outset and forged careers mainly within gay culture, including homocore favs Pansy Division, gay pop icons The Village People and singer/songwriter Rufus Wainwright.

“They grew up during a time in the '90s when sex and gender were discussed more openly and in creative contexts,” notes journalist Jean Fury in Decibel, “as opposed to the '80s when 'gay' meant 'AIDS.' As a result, the younger bands are more likely to have out-of-the-closet friends.”

Kids raised on MTV were acclimated to all things queer early on in their lives via the wildly popular videos of uber-gay rock acts such as The B-52's, Culture Club and Human League. Since their heyday in the 1980s, gay frontmen Fred Schneider of the B-52's and Boy George of Culture Club have gone on to become highly visible celebrities in their own right, lending their fame to a variety of pro-gay causes.

Young rockers today can even look back on a considerable lineage of self-described straight and/or ex-gay musicians who have, at one time or another, played the “gay card” to advance their careers. Anti-hero type idols such as Alice Cooper, David Bowie, Kiss and Marilyn Manson sensationalized gay fantasy, homoeroticism, gender-bending and camp glamour. Even these “fake” gay acts helped open up entrenched conservative sexual mores across the U.S.

“The fact is,” Panozzo concludes, “we are all musicians and professionals. Music is a universal language. There is power in what we are doing. It strips away all the crap and makes us human. Once we can all understand that, there should be no fear, if you are a straight musician, of sharing the stage with a gay musician. The main purpose is to perform and share musical talent with each other.”

David Ehrenstein's picture

Here We Go Again!

KEEEEEErist I hate coyness.

Look people, it's not The Mystery of Life Itself  you know. YOU'RE GAY! DEAL WITH IT! ZILLIONS HAVE!

As much as I adore Moz I really wish he'd get the fuck over himself. "This Charming Man" is the most screamingly gay song since "Mad About the Boy." And as everyone who has closely followed his career knows he left L.A. for The Continent in pursuit of an Italian boyfriend. Yes he got to cut tracks with Ennio Morricone too but the Italain boyfriend was first and foremost. See Bill Jones' great documentary Is It Really So Strange? for all the poop on Moz and his fans.

Heterosexuality is NEVER seen as "a private matter." That's because it's a very public source of Absolute Power and Control. Are you going to stand up for yourself or lie down like a dog?

And what's  this bit about Chris Lowe never making a statement about being gay? He never talks AT ALL! He's arm candy for Neil. And it's fairly obvious that they're not lovers -- just sisters.

OK. now let's go back to pretending we're all blinkered and believe in "privacy."

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GayTVluver's picture

I love "The Feeling"

It doesn't hurt that the lead singer, Dan Gillespie-Sells, is cute to death, or that the drummer, Paul Stewart is HOT...but regardless of all that The Feeling is a fantastic band.

 

Rosé is great, written about wine and all...

Never Be Lonely is excellent and I love the video.

They sound excellent live and they are fun to view and read about. LOVE the fact that Dan is out and not playing bullsh!t Mika games about his sexuality.

janette's picture

It's Easy To Say

Come out of the closet. But this article has shown example after example of singers and/or bands that have had adverse effects when they have come out. As much as it pains me to say it, sexuality is important when it comes to fan bases. Of course if they're older (Morrissey, Michael Stipe, etc.) it really doesn't matter anymore. But the marketplace still punishes anyone out of the closet. If they want to remain in the closet, it's their business. It shouldn't be their job to be gay activists.
GayTVluver's picture

The marketplace still punishes ANYONE out of the closet??

"But the marketplace still punishes anyone out of the closet."

I hope Elton John, George Michael, Placebo, Melissa Etheridge, Boy George and Morrissey can withstand the punishment.....

Evan's picture

Gay Male Athlete

Comparing their record sales from before they came out to after they came out, yes, they have taken a hit career wise.  With that said I believe that gay people should come out when they are comfortable and the sooner the better.  You only live one life so you should live it your way.

I don't think breaking down barriers will come from entertainers.  When there is a gay male athlete that comes out and performs to the highest ability then you will see change. 

GayTVluver's picture

It won't be athletes or celebs

Breaking down barriers comes from the individuals like you and I who come out and live open for the world to see.

But as to your comment above about sales -

Melissa Etheridge - I Am, highest selling album for her and this was after she came out.  Even won a Grammy.

Placebo - Gay and Bisexual in the band and their sales are on fire, they are popular for there genre

Elton John - Sells out shows today, third higest played artist on american radio in the adult contemporary genre.

George Michael - Sells out shows internationally with ease, sales are hot in Europe and S. America. His lack of air play in the US has little to do with his sexuality and more to do with him being a mess and his politics.

Boy George - doesn't perform like he use to but he is still able to pull together backing and fans for things he is interested in like the short lived "Taboo"

All this after they came out.  Plus, in the non-music...Ellen and Rosie, never been more popular.  Rosie said she wishes she'd done it sooner.

Evan's picture

Breaking Barriers

Yes, a couple have made it.  Melissa Etheridge is the rocker chick of the last two decades that's why she continues to sell albums.  Elton John is still successful because of his early hits.  I don't think his career has been impacted the way others have because by the time he came out he had already been through publicized drug abuse and other "scandals".  People had lower expectations for him.  Also he was never a sex object.  George Michael puts on a good show.  The reason why he hasn't been successful in the U.S. in the last decade is because of the bathroom incident in L.A.  That type of sex scandal doesn't go over well with American audiences.   

People have had an affection for Ellen way back.  I loved her since the early 90's before I knew she was a lesbian.  The main reason why she is popular today is because she keeps her homosexuality low-key.  Rosie is popular because she is "controversial."  Unlike Ellen, Rosie has never held back in discussing her life after she came out.  Some deeply resent that hence the controversy.

I still believe a gay male athlete is the one that will break down many barriers.  Athletes are not beholden to the public.

I agree with you that all gay people need to live openly.  That will make a huge impact.

AnnieO's picture

Billie Joe Armstrong

No mention of Billie Joe Armstrong from Green Day?

He's been open about being bisexual for years, toured with Pansy Division, etc.

Scandinavian Guy's picture

Army of Lovers

Thanks for the article, reminded me of a group form the 1980s in Sweden called Army of lovers (they had a hit with "Crusified"), Both lead singers were very open about being gay and their videos (if you can see them on youtube) were also pretty gay
Allyndra's picture

I think the "stage gay" and

I think the "stage gay" and ambiguous sexuality of some of the current bands fit this topic. Fallout Boy's Pete Wentz has an interesting interview on Out.com here: http://www.out.com/detail.asp?page=1&id=23932, in which he talks about his own ambiguous sexuality. (Although his claim that the last time he made out with a guy was when he was 22 totally destroys my pet theory that he and Mikey Way had a torrid affair.)
irishpunk77's picture

WWW.MYSPACE.COM/CUCKOOSAVANTE

A small bit of shameless self promo here, but As the Queer front man of a band thats has a bisexual guy ,a hetero dame and two totally straight( or so they claim) guys,in the line up.. i think it is very important for gay singers/artists actors and anybody else in the public domain to be upfront out and proud about their sexuality, the younger generation need more positive role models.

check out our tunes on

www.myspace.com/cuckoosavante

LolaRuns's picture

I have to say, I liked

I have to say, I liked Stipe's answer. If I remember correctly, he said the reason he didn't come out earlier because before he didn't have anybody special in his life. Whether true or not, as far as excuses why he didn't out himself out sooner, I find that more likable than many others.
David Ehrenstein's picture

He has excuses. I have a LIFE -- and so do you.

Pete Wentz makes me want to  vomit.
Maxwell k's picture

No Tom Robinson?

I really thought hed be on this list!
Alvin's picture

Kele Okereke

Would like to hear more about him, full blown interview if possible!

xx