Is it weird for you to know someone as a person, or how they present themself, only to be blindsided by something that reveals their most intimate side?This is actually a topic i've been meaning to touch on for a long while.....since last summer in fact.It was then that I was inspired by a couple of examples of this, the first being an ex fighter I learned about in one of my earlier threads.In The ultimate fighter My buddy Evan, being the plethora of knowledge that he is, informed me of a young man named Aaron Savvy, who fought in Toughman, what is now the UFC.I was all excited.An openly gay fighter who won most of his fights.....how cool is that?

He was an all around sportsman doing football, baseball, and even arm wrestling.He gave away $100 of his own money to a homeless person when he didn't have much himself, so he has a good heart.He's like a hero to me at this point.Evan also included a link to Ben Patrick Johnson's video blog on youtube where he was interviewed.It's mentioned that Aaron "Ajay" Savvy also happened to have done porn.I look into it a little and sure enough he, um.....modeled for Sean Cody under the porn name.......you guessed it...Ajay.

I'm not going to lie.At this point i'm horny, thinking I've got to see this guy in action.I download his videos, and BAM!There he is, getting it good from some dude while bent over a couch.LOL!Don't get me wrong.I still hold him in high esteem.It was just jolting, though not necessarally in a bad way *wink wink*, to see this toughman/saint getting slammed in all these different positions by this stud.He was also supposed to host some national game show, but it fell through for some reason.It would have been crazy seeing him doing some Deal or no deal type of gig having seen what I saw.

It happened again when AfterElton member GayTVluver started a new thread about and linked to a blog with these alleged nude photos of openly gay former CNN headline news anchorman Thomas Roberts from Manhunt.com.Now it was never confirmed it was him.There was never any proof as the guy's face wasn't in the pictures, but people sure acted like there was never any dought.It was even mentioned on VH1's Best week ever.If it were him, however, and i'm not saying it was, how shocked would you be seeing pictures of this sweet anchorman lying stomach down on a bed, spreading for all to see?

The latest example of this, as you may have heard, is Neil Patrick Harris revealing on Howard Stern's Sirius radio show that "the best part about being in a relationship with a another guy is that sometimes you can be a top.......sometimes you can be a bottom".After hearing him basically say he's versitile I now have this image of him, who I seem to have built up as some kind of boyscout in my mind for some reason, and David Burtka flip flopping in bed.Now this is probably just me because I have that kind of a dirty mind, but WOW!Did anyone else even want to know that about him?I mean tell the truth if you were even a little curious about that.This is, in small part, a thread about honesty.....as you can see by some of the things i'm admitting to.LOL!

 I don't think anyone on here is a prude in any way.I'm certainly not, but for some reason it's still pretty jolting, but again not necessarally in a bad way(LOL!), to go from knowing someone in a certain way to knowing them in a sexual way.It's not just limited to celebrities either.Take someone you know, or another AE member maybe.......right now I can't imagine knowing Evan in that way, but if I did I would have all of these "thoughts" running through my head about it.LOL!We all know the AfterElton staff in a certain way.They tell us about their lives, invite us into their homes in their vlogs, some do them with their boyfriends/husbands.

I love the Angry puppy guys.Their cute together, which is part of the reason why I would be shocked if Lee just announced how much he loves Marc's balls, or that he's a top, or if there was video of Lee bangin' Marc because I only know them as the angry puppy guys who have this sweet geeky demeanor about them, or maybe that's just me again building them up as something in my mind because I don't know them more.It works the other way too.I've read things about porn stars and interviews they've given that make me go "wow, you're not just a dick and balls.You're an actual real person with thoughts, opinions, and a life's story".That's because I get to know them as the fantasy, or their persona first.

Imagine my surprise when gay pornstar Marcus Iron showed up on HGTV to do someone's landscape.I was like, "Whao!I know him.I've seen close ups of this guy's asshole in a bunch of porn videos".I had seen this guy naked and everything, and here he was as just......a regular person, making over someone's yard on HGTV.It was surreal.Could you imagine seeing David Bromstad getting bounced on a dick after watching Color splash?When you only know someone as a hot piece of ass it's hard to think of them as a person and when you know someone as person it's hard to think of them sweating, moaning, grunting, and squealing with their legs in the air while they get pummeled.