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The gaying of TV

I remember after I marathoned the first season of Queer as Folk on DVD, I went outside and couldn't understand where all the straight people came from.

And I mean, I live in San Francisco.

There was a time when all a show had to do to get me to watch was have subliminal homosexuality - okay, maybe that's not the only reason I watched Xena, but it helped - or a tangential gay character. We were desperate for queer representation on television shows.

Kevin and Scotty

Then Ellen came out and a year later, Will and Grace came along, and of course, QAF and the L Word and Noah's Arc and then, I don't know, everyone had a gay or lesbian character on their show. I can't keep track anymore. And I don't even watch reality TV, which I understand is a hotbed of homos these days.

Michael keeps sending out these emails asking if I watch such and such a show for an article, and I'm like, don't tell me that show has a gay character on it!

And he's like, oh yeah, didn't you know? I just whimper.

Don't misunderstand. This isn't a complaint. I'm totally happy that there's a lesbian surgeon on Nip/Tuck and that Pratt's brother had sex with his boyfriend in the shower on ER, and there's a gay brother on Brothers and Sisters who actually kisses and has sex and stuff. I seriously am extremely blissed out that Omar is on boyfriend number three on The Wire and that Lucy Lawless had a three way on Battlestar Galactica.

It's just that I can't watch every single show with a gay character on it anymore. Who has that kind of time?

I guess The Wire's Omar has that same problem - here he is, watching Oz on HBO with boyfriend Dante:

you_will's picture

*sniffle*

oh boy.... i miss QAF + Xena! those were good tv days.....

Anonymous's picture

I wish I had that problem

Most of the shows I see on TV run like hell from gay characters or gay images. Brothers & Sisters is the exception, and given how much criticism the show gets here and at Afterellen, I think people that the show for granted (I do too, sometimes).
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Actually, we're

big fans of the show and try to say so and have championed it from the very beginning. Heck, that's why we recap it! But that doesn't mean it's perfect and couldn't do some things better.
Anonymous's picture

I guess we see it different ways

There has been so much criticism of Kevin and his storyline in your recent recaps, and making Chad seem much more sympathetic than I ever saw him on the show. I don't like some of the writing for Kevin either but I don't see Chad as some victim who deserved better. Meanwhile, the people at Afterellen not only slammed the show for having a bandana-wearing lesbian, but also used that to put down most gay men who produce TV. When someone uses a brief cameo from a lesbian in one episode to take a swipe at not only the gay men who work on this show, but the gay men on countless other shows, I don't see that as support.
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Oh, I also

meant the comments that someone here made about Kevin's love interests being his "victims". Kevin has many flaws but he also has his strong points. There seems to be more and more negativity about pretty much the only gay character on any major drama at this point, or on most TV shows (aside from the comic relief/stereotype on Ugly Betty, whom I find much more bothersome than Kevin).
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michael's picture

Fair enough. Perhaps I've been

too hard on him of late.
Anonymous's picture

I can see both sides

I am also very frustrated with Kevin sometimes. I hate some of the stories they give him. I just try to keep the faith with this character because at this point he's just about all we have on network TV. Most of the other tokens are totally alien to me. At least Kevin I can see as a real person. The remarks made at Afterellen against gay male TV producers bothered me far more than anything you have said. I am so often reminded that gays seem to see each other as the enemy.
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Anonymous's picture

I agree...

Kevin is definitely flawed, but I think he - like all the Walker siblings - is a fundamentally good person with plenty of strengths. Then again, I really love B&S as a whole and not just because of the gay storyline. To each his own, I suppose.
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Re the comments made on AfterEllen...

... I don't think they were made just in reference to that one tiny cameo by a bandanna-wearing lesbian. They were made partly in reference to the fact that Brothers and Sisters has had four prominent gay male characters so far (Kevin and his boyfriends) and is on the cusp of introducing a fifth... which will again be a gay man. So gay men = prominent, well-developed and multiple roles on B&S, lesbians = one tiny bandanna-wearing and rather stereotypical cameo. If you look at Queer As Folk, also created by gay men, then you get a similar thing... loads of male characters with plenty of screentime and interesting, varied storylines, and boring Mel and Lindz who get saddled with a storyline about Lindz having an affair *with a man*. (I do realise that some of the same criticisms could be made about gay men on The L Word). Nip/Tuck... created by a gay man... minor lesbian character who mostly has no love life and not much interesting plot. Network TV as a whole... no lesbians except for Bianca on All My Children, whose most recent affair was with a transgender character played by a man. Gay men are shamefully underrepresented on TV, but lesbians are more underrepresented. That's just a fact. Take a look at the majority of TV/media marketed towards 'the gay and lesbian community', and if you really count up the numbers you will find that the presenters, the issues discussed etc are far more likely to be about gay men. AfterEllen has a blog post about an upcoming season of "gay and lesbian" movies on TCM which perfectly illustrates the point. http://www.afterellen.com/blog/malinda/note-to-turner-classic-movies All the presents/commentators announced so far are gay men, and virtually all the movies announced so far are about gay men. I don't think those comments on AfterEllen were made because lesbians want to see gay men as the enemy... I think they were made because lesbians are frustrated that gay men in positions of power on TV don't do a bit more to work towards interesting, varied, well-developed visibility for lesbians as well as gay men. The recent development in B&S is just the perfect example... show that already has had four gay male characters says it's going to introduce another gay character, and it turns out that yet again it's going to be a man.
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Gay men are no better to gay men

Desperate Housewives has a celibate, asexual gay teenager. When he is involved with other men, these relationships are ALWAYS presented as seedy and as being about a brat wanting to punish his mother, never about true affection. Heroes has a gay producer and that sure didn't stop them from degaying Zach, did it? Nip/Tuck has a gay creator and yes, the lesbian is a minor character, but at least she's there and she's sane. Is that somehow worse than the parade of gay and bisexual men who are on there only to be pathetic, to disgust the straight "heroes", to be painted as sick and as serial killers? And where are the gay men on The L Word? At least QAF did have lesbians who were regular characters and had stories. There have been several more lesbians as regular characters on TV shows than gay men. Yet, when this was especially prominent on ER and Buffy, somehow I don't remember lesbians decrying writers or producers for not having more gay men. Funny how we're supposed to do the same now that there is ONE regular gay male character on network TV. And these "well-developed" gay men on Brothers & Sisters consist of characters who were in about 5 or 6 episodes, or less, in a few tiny scenes per episode, usually just to show us what a failure Kevin is. Afterellen used this one small character to insult almost all gay men who produce TV shows. It was a classic example, as far as I'm concerned, of gays being so desperate to find fault with each other that we don't even care about the real problem. The comments from whoever wrote that diatribe reinforced the stereotype of biterrness and humorlessness far more than a brief cameo from a bandana-wearing (how horrible!!!) lesbian on Brothers & Sisters.
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I wanted to mention

I do like most of what Afterellen does. Those particular comments are what upset me. Not to take away from the rest of their site.
Anonymous's picture

'Gay men are no better to gay men than they are to lesbians'

Well, let's examine that statement... Desperate Housewives = 1 celibate, asexual gay teenager Desperate Housewives = 0 lesbians of any sort Heroes = 1 character intended to be gay who turned out not to be Heroes = 0 characters intended to be lesbian Brothers and Sisters = 1 main gay character, 3 supporting gay characters in 5 or 6 episodes, 1 upcoming significant gay character Brothers and Sisters = 1 cameo lesbian in 1 episode So I think they are a little bit better. And, for the record, I know The L Word has had at least one gay/bi male character (I don't watch it, so I'm not sure which) played by out actor Alan Cumming. This doesn't mean that I don't get your point... or some of your point, anyway. I would agree that perhaps these things do partly go in cycles, and that lesbians had at least a bit of a good cycle when Weaver was on ER and Willow was on Buffy. I'm sorry the AfterEllen piece upset you. I honestly don't think the AfterEllen writers are out to get you. I think they feel frustrated at the lack of lesbians on TV - particularly network TV - and the fact that things do seem to be skewing a bit more towards the guys at the moment. That doesn't mean lesbians don't want there to be good representations of gay men on TV... it's just that they'd like some of the same for themselves. I expect the AfterEllen writer was impressed by the character of Kevin on B&S, and was hopeful that the new gay character might be an equally well-developed woman. Then felt disappointed when it turned out it wasn't. Because that means we get left (at least for the moment) with Bianca on AMC, and no-one else. Whereas, as far as network TV is concerned, gay men have Kevin, his three-and-counting boyfriends, the new B&S gay male character, Marc and Justin on Ugly Betty, Andrew (rubbish as he may be, at least he's there) on Desperate Housewives. A bit of an imbalance, non?
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Nothing is better than bad

I'm sure if lesbians had to choose between their own version of Andrew, or the brother on Dirt (a whiny, pathetic stalker), or Julien on The Shield (a gay man who went straight because of Jesus), they would choose none. Or how about that Rescue Me storyline with Probie and Tim Adams? Or Quentin the bisexual/hermaphrodite sicko/serial killer on Nip/Tuck? Gay men are often on TV solely to be exploited, degraded, and insulted. I fail to see how this is something to envy. I don't think the comments were out to get me. I think they were out to get gay male producers in Hollywood. Or that's what I thought was implied. And Ugly Betty has never said Justin is gay, BTW.
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Neither "side" is w/o fault...

...but the B&S people knew exactly what they were doing when they chose to introduce a hyper-stereotyped & activist lesbian, so I think the criticism is justified.

I'm sure the writers/creators wanted to create a family that was "better" than the Walkers.  But for a "better" gay person than Kevin, he/she didn't have to be the character that was introduced.  How about someone who is more comfortable in his/her own skin, emotionally stable, etc.?

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Anonymous's picture

The criticism went beyond them

It went to all gay male producers in Hollywood save a few. That's what bothered me. Can you imagine the reaction if a gay man used that foolish bi character Alan Cumming played on the L Word to castigate most lesbian producers in Hollywood?
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You write what you know....

Gay men write stories about gay men. When the lesbian population is better represented in production in hollywood, maybe we'll see more lesbian storylines. One underrepresented minority can't be expected to champion all the others. Get in there and do it, folks! Russel T Davis has done it in his country. Keep writing good stories and positive characters. It's changing but slowly. Less bitching and more action.

 

If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.

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