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Ninety Gay Minutes in the Life of Rufus Wainwright

While he may not feel that one's sexuality is necessarily interesting from a creative perspective, in and of itself, he acknowledges the importance of gay visibility in the big picture: “I do feel that gay issues and homosexual liberation is one of the most pertinent and current situations … it's important to talk about it, but as I said before, what anybody wants to do, it's their personal choice.”

This pragmatism works both ways. Wainwright is similarly relatively unruffled by the “outing” of celebrities – as long as it's done in good faith. When asked about the recent high-profile “outing” of celebrities like Anderson Cooper and Jodie Foster in Out magazine, Wainwright replies, “Well, I think that's fine, too. I don't disagree with [it] as long as it's not done nastily. I think it's fine if it's brought up in a conversation.”

But Wainwright believes that often sexuality is used as ammunition by both the straight and the gay press: “I know recently Clay Aiken was discovered on Manhunt having, you know, talking about sex with someone and then they went public with that – and even the gay media was extremely catty and bitchy towards him, like “look, he likes fisting!” or something. That to me is just so base.”

Our readers – some of Wainwright's biggest fans, by their account – naturally wanted to know more about the artist and his work. For example, with whom would Wainwright like to work in the future? “I'm a big fan of Bright Eyes. I think he's really great. I haven't heard his new album yet, but I'm dying to hear it. I like him. I also like – who else do I like? A lot of people say that on this album I sound like the lead singer from Radiohead; a Thom Yorke/Rufus thing, a similarity in the way we sing. I can see it occasionally and I've always been a fan of their music. I don't know if I'd necessarily want to work with them, but I wouldn't mind having a drink. (laughs) A soda. I think Bright Eyes and I would make an interesting track together. We're kind of doing similar things but on different planets.”

A reader who had seen Wainwright perform live at the Atlanta Botanical Gardens wrote that the performance “transported” her, and asked which live performances had effected Wainwright in the same way. The answer brought Wainwright back to one of his favorite topics: opera.

“It's hard for me to say, because I go to the opera all the time. I'll go at least three or four times a month. Only because I'm getting free tickets now because I'm writing this opera for the Met, so I take full advantage of that. And that is what is expected of the night's performance. It is mandatory that you are transported, at every single show … so I've had countless experiences like that in that world.”

“But in the other world, that pop world, I'd have to say … who's really transported me recently. Oh, you know who was amazing? Morrissey was amazing. Seeing Morrissey in England. We did a few festivals together in England and I'd never seen him live and he was outrageously amazing. Totally transported me, because of his weird ambiguous Elvis character. You know, he's someone who's certainly straddled the closet.”

Our time was running out, but we had time for one more question from a reader who wanted to know what Wainwright would have done for a living had he not become a singer/songwriter. “I definitely would have been a painter, only because there's no noise. [As a musician] you're constantly barraged by sound, and it gets a little infuriating. I still draw and paint. I did a lot of the artwork for my albums over the years.”

Rufus will be performing in-store and signing CD's Wednesday, May 16 @ 7:00 pm Barnes & Noble 33 East 17th Street New York City

Ashleigh's picture

Yay!

A reader who had seen Wainwright perform live at the Atlanta Botanical Gardens

Hey, that's me! I'm pleased my question got answered (and even more so that it was phrased in a way that didn't sound psychotic, as my original thoughts ABSOLUTELY did). Thanks, yall.

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David Ehrenstein's picture

Closets Are For Clothes

The last time I saw Rufus live was at Lance Loud's funeral where he sang "Over the Rainbow" quite memorably.

Not sure what he means by straddling the closet. The great thing about being an out performer is that with the Giant Pink Elephant in the bedroom acknowledged he can get onto other things. The key to Rufus is how overwhelmignly romantic he is. He may never find Mr. Right but he won't ever stop looking.

Saw the new Piaf biopic "La Vie en Rose" the other day and in a weird way Rufus reminds me of her.  

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Brian Juergens's picture

Straddling the closet

We were discussing musicians who court gay audiences and might even write about gay relationships while declining to speak about their sexuality. Artists like Mika, Michael Stipe, Morrissey, etc. have had loyal gay followings without identifying as gay, even though they have suggested as much. Kind of a "one leg in, one leg out" situation that Rufus has avoided entirely.
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Insideguy's picture

Fascination with

Insideguy

I am not a raving hipster, and in no way would I describe myself as an opera fan. As Lanford Wilson writes in BURN THIS, "In the World of Opera Queens, I am not even a lady-in-waitiing."  After seeing Rufus live a few years ago at the Henry Fonda Theater in Hollywood, I became a true believer. Rufus' music transorts me to  places I seldom discuss with even my closest friends.

His sexuality, is of small importance to me (nor is Clay Aiken's predelition for for fisting) though it doesn't turn me off either. I doubt that Rufus is a man in search of an SLAA meeting, but the desire for love is something we all yearn for as far back as I have been gay. No gay ghetto dinner party comments, please.

 You know where I will be September 23rd.

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nordic balance's picture

Stay Neutral

Most don't like to admit it, but America is just not ready for "out" male celebrites. America is still largely Republican and 33 states have anti-gay discrimination written into their constitutions, almost all within the last 3 years. If you want to sell to bigots you can't be out. Sorry but that is the reality in America today. Even the self described "Gay Friendly" fans stop buying records, because they lose interest in the artist (but fully support them being out) The challenge is to keep your self respect, you can't create when you beat yourself up. You can keep your self respect by NOT lying aka Tom Cruise style. Just avoid the question, sell more records, ignore the gay buzz. Think of it as a transitional stadge where you keep some dignity, but still sell records. The fangirls will still buy your records and deny, foaming at the mouth, you are anything but 100% straight, as long as you don't officially say you are gay.