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Richard Cullen (Partner of Darren Hayes)

For years, Savage Garden frontman Darren Hayes, 36, was coy about his sexuality, but that all changed in 2006 when he married Cullen in London and later announced the event on his website. Since then, Hayes has become an outspoken advocate for marriage rights in his native Australia because Cullen, a Brit, can only enter the country on a guest visa.

"It makes me angry and frustrated," Hayes told Australia’s Herald Sun. "I'm Australian and the way the law sits, I can't bring my partner home as my partner.”

Darren Hayes (left) & Richard Cullen

Hayes claims that he and Cullen “spoil each other rotten” at birthdays and anniversaries. Meanwhile, the couple also work together on Hayes’ creative projects, with Cullen designing the singer’s solo CD covers and producing and animating his films. They currently live in London.

Andrew Cowles (Partner of Stephen Gately)

Cowles, an Internet businessman, was introduced to Gately, 32, one of the lead singers of the recently-reunited Irish boy band Boyzone, by none other than Elton John and his partner David Furnish. Shortly after meeting in 2003, they held a commitment ceremony while on vacation in Las Vegas. Three years later, they made it official, holding a much-publicized marriage in London.

Andrew Cowles (left) & Stephen Gately

Photo credit: Chris Jackson/Getty Images


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Frank's picture

What about Klaus Wowereit

mayor of Berlin and his partner Jörn Kubicki who attend official events as a couple?

 

 

 

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Novinous's picture

Berlin's mayor is gay ???

Berlin's mayor is gay ??? And has a partner ? Wooo that's great, well I mean I wasn't expecting a mayor of a big city to be out and proud, I think it's great, right now I can't recall any out french politicians...
Medusa's picture

Not just the mayor of

Not just the mayor of Berlin, the mayor of Paris Bertrand Delanoe is also openly gay, as is the mayor of Hamburg Ole von Beust. And in contrast to Wowereit and Delanoe, who are members of the socialdemocratic party and socialist party, respectively - Ole von Beust is a member of the CDU (Christian Democratic Union), the German Conservatives. He was outed in a scandal, but got reelected anyway...

 

And about Delanoe - this sentence in his Wiki-Bio sounds promising "He is considered to be a potential candidate for President of the French Republic in 2012."

Pure logic is the ruin of the spirit.

Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Novinous's picture

I can't believe I forgot

I can't believe I forgot about Delanoe, and yes I remember that I heard that he might be a candidate... but the fact that he's gay is certainly not a good enough reason to vote for him... That would be amazing though to have a gay president, especially in France, but it's highly unlikely to happen right now.
LolaRuns's picture

Not just gay, but awesome

His infamous coming out phrase "Ich bin schwul und das ist gut so" (I'm gay and it's good that way; except "es ist gut" has a slightly deeper meaning in German, more along the lines of "Everything is in order/Everything is right in the world/it's ok";) is a catchphrase even for non-gay people.

I still remember his interview (on the subject of anti-gay mobbing particularly in schools) in the German Die Zeit (the times) where he said that now a few years later after his coming out, he didn't necessarily feel like things had gotten much different for gays in Germany, but he felt he had to do it, even if it would help just one you gay person growing up. 

He's a truly charismatic politician and held in high esteem. 

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j U d E's picture

Gay politician..

Elio DiRupo, president of the Belgian Socialist Party is gay, but I don't know about any boyfriend. 

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SonicSwoon's picture

The mayor-elect of Portland, Oregon is gay as well...

...granted Portland isn't quite Berlin or Paris, but our soon-to-be mayor, Sam Adams is a really cool guy and is going to be a great mayor.
TerrynJames's picture

aww :)

I love celebrity boyfriends and how sexy is stephen gatleys!! I guess that Britain doesn't really have a gay power couple does it? Or do we class Elton and his hubby as it?

 

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lo731's picture

I love these posts! Tim

I love these posts!

Tim Campbell is a cutie. Not sure about Anthony Callea; a bit short for my tastes. And I'm not really sure I would classify him as "enormously popular" here is Australia. I don't think any post-Idol person fits that description. I'm happy for them though.

I'm still surprised that Rufus is with someone. I love him, but he sounds a little high maintenance. I'm glad he found someone that can handle it.

He's not really a celebrity but what about writer Greg Berlanti? Does he have a boyfriend I'm only (shamelessly) asking because I saw a pic of him on your website the other day and he is hot. :D

Reth's picture

Yeah, I've got to second

Yeah, I've got to second this one. Callea's not really that popular at all in Australia, at least not anymore.

And when it comes to American gay power couples, what about Portia and Ellen?

LgH's picture

I recall reading an

I recall reading an interview ( Here on AE IIRC) where Greg does mention a BF. And it's not Luke Macfarland darn it... I think they would make a fantastic couple.. Speaking of Luke, I would be very surprised if he didn't have a BF... or at least dating someone. He talks about his love of Mountain Biking and the Cello, but wants to keep his other loves as private as he can. More power to him if he can keep it that way.

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new interview with Callea & Campbell

Here's a recent funny radio interview with Anthony Callea and Tim Campbell. Scroll down the page to the clip entitled "We're Happy Together" - Tim Campbell on Anthony Callea".

http://www.fox.com.au/shows/mattandjo/listen/guests

As for what constitutes "enormously popular", I guess it depends on one's perspective. Callea has quite a dedicated fan base that turns out in droves to see him in projects like the musical "Wicked" and the celebrity singing competition tv show "It Takes Two" during the last 2 seasons.

cjordan's picture

Thanks!

Thanks for your post.

Anthony's voice is very beautiful not only singing but also speaking even.

cjordan's picture

Anthony & Darren

Thanks for your posting!

I love Anthony & Darren, both are originally Australian singers.

Darren currently lives in UK, Anthony is still in Australia.

Anthony broke up with his former boyfriend about two years ago probably, I don't remember exactly though, and met a new boyfriend Campbell.

Anthony will release a new CD in December, I can't wait.

Both couples are so cute.

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Mystery Men

I've been ever so curious to see a photo of Stephen Fry's boyfriend, but haven't found one aywhere~ if anyone could do it, it would be you.  This is a very fun article, keep up the good work! 

 

 

She is too fond of books, and it has turned her brain~ Louisa May Alcott

Lee Wind's picture

WOW!

In our celebrity-obsessed culture, with PEOPLE magazine and all the rest shouting at us 24/7/365 about which straight celebrity is dating which, it's easy to forget how numbing and heteronormative it all is.  THIS was so much fun - I completely reverted to my inner 7th grader, looking at the pictures, reading about who all these smiling and happy gay male couples are, and it made me really happy. 

Thanks!

Lee

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Darren Hayes & Richard Cullen: COULD NOT BE CUTER!

All they need is a fuzzy dog to be complete.

I had to watch like 5 Gay/Lesbian Romantic Comedies plus Les Chansons D'amour last night just to get the prop 8 ick off my heart.

THIS TOTALLY MAKES ME HAPPY.

SHINEY HAPPY GAY COUPLES = LOVE

I fairly postive I was meant to be a daughter of two dads!

THANKS BRENT.

 

 

"Heterosexuality is not normal, it's just common." (Dorthy Parker)

Samantha Johnson's picture

They do!!

But they do!!! lol

Well, he's not that fuzzy, but they have an English Cockerspaniel named Wally, and the dog alone is cute!

Darren and Richard are my all time favourite gay couple, not only coz I'm a fan of Darren and Richard or because they're both totally hot, but because they compliment each other so well, personally and professionally.

 xs

 

ps Love that quote btw. 

Knickie's picture

Not just a picture of Dan

Not just a picture of Dan Savage's boyfriend Terry, but a picture of Stinker, the one-eyed POODLE, too! (You have to be a fan of "The Commitment" to get this, but believe me, it's major!). Thanks!
Terry's picture

Gately's beau is fine

Okay, I admit it, I'm jealous.  Andrew Cowles is hot.  Stephen, you bitch, how did you land him?!?! LOL.
boyd's picture

Just fun!

Love this feature, Brent, and looking forward to future installments. It's great to see guys in love, showing a little genuine affection in public. I love a homoerotic underwear pic as much as the next guy, but real same-sex couple are heart-warming, affirming -- and in their own way, hot.

So thanks!

 

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jsg03jd's picture

Thanks for the Irish Boybands!

I'm a massive fan of WESTLIFE and I like BOYZONE, so thanks for the coverage on Mark Feehily and Stephen Gately and their beautiful boyfriends!
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Randommer's picture

I was flicking through

I was flicking through Hello! (one of the two biggest glossies in the UK/IRL) last week, and they had a huge (10 page) spread on Nicky from Westlife's birthday. Kevin was in all the 'and wives' photos, which is pretty cool.
Chuckles's picture

Lovely article but...

Well, I still don't like Rufus Wainwright, and the snippit from his article just oozes with arrogance.  As if no one else couldn't find a boyfriend who's just as open?

In a lighter note, Savage definitely lucked out with the cute hubby (with fake mustache of course!).

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cjordan's picture

Tim Campbell Interview

Here is an interview with Tim Campbell on YouTube.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ITGvVMcvFgc

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Dan's Rebuttal

 

I am an ardent fan of Dan's columns and books and he NEVER talks about the intimate details of his and his boyfriend/husband's sex life. Anyone who reads anything by Dan would know that.

Here's a rebuttal he posted on the Slog

Confidential to After Elton

posted by at 8:41 AM

I don’t write about “the intimate details… of [my] own sex life” in my column, in part because my fake-mustache-wearing boyfriend would divorce me if I did. Our love life? Sure. Our married life? Obviously. But our sex life? Uh, no. So there’s actually quite a lot my readers don’t know about my boyfriend. And that’s just how Terry likes it.

And anyone curious about why Terry occasionally wears a fake mustache can find the answer here.

 

http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/11/confidential_to_after_elton#comments

 

 

 

If By Gay You Mean Totally Freaking Awesome, Then Yeah, I Guess It's Pretty Gay

--Des Ark

 

 

Brent Hartinger's picture

I seem to know a lot about Dan's sex life

Where he met Terry, what they did on their first date and where, that they've had one threeway and what the circumstances were, that they're otherwise monogamous, what Terry's body type is, what Dan's attracted to, etc., etc. In fact even the link he gives in that post is to a column where he writes about not being attracted to Terry anymore. It's not EXPLICIT details, of course, but who would ever write that? I'm not sure Dan is aware how much info he's let slip out over the years. ;-)

 

 

 

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RJ's picture

love life vs sex life

Brent, I think this issue comes down to the terms being used. What you and many others define as "sex life", Dan Savage considers "love life". You ask who would ever write about explicit details? Well, Dan does that quite frequently. In his advice columns, he gives advice using very explicit terminology and that is what he considers "sex life". Using movie ratings as an analogy, it's the difference between an R-rated movie and an X-rated movie.
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Yes, I think you're right

But the point is, I know more about what Dan does in bed and with whom than I do many of my friends! ;-)

 

 

 

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Insideguy's picture

Boys need Boyfriends.

Could someone please tell Elton John and David Furnish that I need a boyfriend too.  I have long crushed on Stephen Gately, but, I am happy he has landed an equally adorable boyfriend in Andrew Cowles.  They seem to just look right together. I hope thay have many other attributes that enhance each other through a long and happy union.

Simma down now, Lance, you need to land on your very own. 

Other gay Celeb boyfriends I'd like to see:  Cheyenne Jackson, Christopher Sieber, David Drake, David Marshall Grant, Ryan Murphy, Greg Berlanti, Adam Ruggerio, Bill Bochtrup, Edward Albee, and Clive Barker, among many other possibilities.

INSIDEGUY

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TerrynJames's picture

Clive N Hubby :)

Just for you inside guy :)

Thats Clive Barker and his partner David Armstrong. I'm not 100% if he's his boyfriend or his husband though. They have a daughter as well who is from a previous relationship of Davids.

James

xxx 

 

Amansviri's picture

Forgetting someone Wicked

Thanks for the picture!

Let's also not forget Gregory Maguire, author of "Wicked," and his husband, painter Andy Newman. I couldn't find any pictures of them, though.

Vale v'shalom.

LoTr1985's picture

Lovely!

I get sick of reading about the heteros and their constant bed hopping (it seems so incestous).  But I admit, this was really fun. 

I LOVED seeing the pics of the boys and their husbands/boyfriends/partners.  And I am a total boy band whore b/c holy jesus that boy band couple was HOT!!!  I see them all the time in Hello! but it's nice to see them in the context of other couples.  Thanks for this!

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Jorn Weisbrodt

Just an update on Jorn. He was working for a Berlin opera when he and Rufus met, but three years ago he moved to New York to live with Rufus. He now works as an arts administrator for Robert Wilson at the Watermill Centre
Tricia's picture

I don't know if you've seen

I don't know if you've seen the new video from Boyzone, the video has the whole band getting smoochy and  Stephen Gately gets a guy,  not the lovely Andy but you can't have everything.
I hope the link works.
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RANDY HARRISON

is it true?? as in a recent interview with a magazine Simon Dumenco said that they are still together dated 17th October 08. Can someone tell me? is it official?
roni1133's picture

Michael Stipe's boyfriend?

How about featuring Michael Stipe's boyfriend in a future installment?  I've searched a bit for some info on him and came up empty except for a photo here

http://www.brooklynvegan.com/archives/2008/10/antony_lou_reed.html

with someone in the comments identifying the guy with Michael as his boyfriend, Thomas Dozol. 

Anyway, I absolutely love these.  They make me feel all warm and mushy inside.  Keep 'em coming!

Dean's picture

Is this all there is?

Is this all there is?  I loved reading both of these articles, they're great, but what about the rest... lets see em guys!  Bring em on.... there’s got to be more....... and IMPO Randy Harrison can always do much better than Simon Deumenco…. Randy just needs to say good riddance to him.  Is he with anyone else that you've heard of at this time?

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randy harrison

hey no i havent heard that he is wid someone else but i do fantasize or i rather have this real belief that he and Gale are somewhat involved, he announced his breakup after Gale's accident...i really believe that they are dating but they dont say nethin fer Gale's sake :) i hope soo :( coz it was soooo reallllllllllllllll in QAF if u have watched that show..how cud all the chemistry be fake?? plz comment

Howard Boyd Shade's picture

Nice to see some regular joes as boyfriends

As a regular joe myself, it was nice to see some real men, not underwear models, included as the boyfriends listed in this article.  Not everyone is into the thin twinks or muscle men types.   

 

 

The Tide is High, But I'm Holding on, I'm Gonna be Your Number One -- Blondie via John Holt