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Dónal Óg Cusack, Star Irish Athlete Comes Out

I have to confess I normally associate the word "hurling" with drunk college students, but the term also refers to an ancient Irish (or Gaelic) sport hugely popular in Ireland. And this weekend, hurling acquired it's first out star when 32-year-old goalkeeper Dónal Óg Cusack told the Irish Mail in an exclusive interview that he is, in fact, gay. The interview precedes Cusack's forthcoming autobiography Come What May which will detail both his private and public life.

In the book, Cusack discusses knowing he was gay since his early teens:

Since I was 13 or 14, I knew I was a bit different. I hate labels though. That's the way I am. I live with it and I am fine with it. People close to me will tell you there were never any tears. There was never agony. I just know this thing.

I've had to say this to people I'm close to again and again. This is who I am. This is what I do. I spend a lot of time trying to work things out but once I know something about myself, I know it. I don't agonise. It's logical to me. I thought about this but never had any problems dealing with it.

The Irish Examiner reports that Cusack's teammates are 100% supportive of his coming out

"Of course he has my support," said long-serving forward Timmy McCarthy, a stance echoed by midfielder Tom Kenny.

"He’s a top man," said Ben O’Connor, Cork All-Ireland winning captain in 2004. "He is one of the best genuine GAA men around and will be supported by Cork players and genuine GAA people 100%."

Those sentiments were endorsed by O’Connor’s clubmate and inter-county colleague Cathal Naughton: "We’re all fully behind him, he’s a great man and has so much for all of us. This won’t change anything."

It's encouraging to see such a positive reaction to the news. I looked but was unable to find any articles where comments were allowed. It will be interesting to see how Irish fans react to the news. I'd live if some or our Irish readers would share what they know about the reaction to Cusack's news. But whatever the reaction, let me just add "Welcome, Donal! Happy to have you!

Thanks to AfterElton.com reader Ben for the tip about the news!

beero's picture

Ah hurling

Its like hockey only brutal! I have seen a few matches while visiting mates over there (mainly amateur) and its a fun sport akin to the scots shinty both of which should be better known than they are.

Good for him for feeling contented and comfortable enough to come out and I'm glad he has got the support of his team mates, hopefully this might encourage more people to take the leap.

Found a clip which says hes playing in it http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IMhiLF5B8WM

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deegeezee's picture

very fun

I saw a pro match in Dublin, and it was a lot of fun -- although, like you said, very brutal!  The fans are craaazy; i hope they don't abuse him too much.  And if they do, i hope they get a hurley to the face ;) 

chuck's picture

This is nice

but I long for the day when stories like this have an addendum to the headline that says, 'Yes, I'm gay -- so what?' or more for the day when these stories don't even make news anymore.  Seems like a stand-up guy to me, like most of the Irish.  
snicks's picture

wonderful!

We need more athletes to come out while they're still playing. And this is such heartwarming news, I'm not even going to touch that "he's a top man" line. ;)
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Sean's picture

...

Is it bad that when I read the line "he’s a great man and has so much for all of us. " I immediately thought dirty hurling related thoughts?

I've just joined hurling at my uni, and no one on the team seems to care that I like men, too, I just think it's not as homophobic as, say, football. It's when football players come out that I think things will really change. 

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Narcassa's picture

Top man

If you follow Irish news this isn't getting a lot of coverage because most people in the Republic don't care he's gay. Even after reading some of the articles they mention the fact then they go on to talk about other stuff mentioned in his biography. Pity current Irish legislation isn't at the same level as public opinion.
belinda's picture

Why it so hard for.

 

football players come out?(is because they have a lot  of fans around the world?.) 

 

Liz's picture

heh...

"He’s a top man," said Ben O’Connor, Cork All-Ireland winning captain in 2004.

that's all. :-P

Bubba in TX's picture

They Say "He's A Top Man"...

...and yet they're "all fully behind him."  So at the very least, he's versatile.

But seriously, this is good news for gays in sports.  Here's hoping it becomes a trend (and involves athletes from more mainstream sports, as well).

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Anthony's picture

I'm Irish

But I don't follow Hurling :(

 But whatever: this is very nice news :) 

"In spite of language, in spite of intelligence and intuition andsympathy, one can never really communicate anything to anybody"-AldousHuxley

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colmd's picture

Anyone who wants to know more about hurling

can look it up on youtube. There is loads of footage. Hurling is the fastest field sport in the world (apparently but dont quote me).

 

As for the media reaction....most people on radio and in newspapers are pretty much "Donal óg cusack is gay...okay. Anyway where were we." Nobody seems to give a damn. There is an Irishforums website and again most the comments were all positive or apathetic. Many people now don't give a damn who is gay and who is not (okay it is nice for a bit of idle gossip). The reaction to the funeral of Stephen Gately just proves it. Whether you are gay or not you are one of us. 

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colmd's picture

i just found on the

i just found on the ww.rte.ie website a video piece from the 6 o'clock news. If you go to the bottom of the page (Video Highlights) the 4th piece : Six One News: Cusack praised for autobiography declaration
r_m_s's picture

Irish response

A good barometer of the general response in Ireland can be found by reading the relevant thread on boards.ie, basically Ireland's biggest message board. Generally positive - a few suggestions that it's kinda cynical to use this to hawk his autobiography, but only a handful of actually negative comments and, most heartening of all, they got hopped on fairly quickly by the majority of people saying they'd have no problem with it and wishing him well. A big part of that comes from the fact that this isn't exactly a shock - Dónal Óg Cusack's sexuality has been an open secret for years, even among people like me who know almost nothing about GAA.

One thing I find particularly heartening, though, is that Cusack isn't a particularly popular player. It's too boring and complicated to go into (it's tied into the fact that some GAA players want the sport to turn professional while the GAA itself and many others don't), but the number of messages on the thread I linked saying "He's still a twonk, but fair play to him for his honesty - I'd never hold that against him" is nice. If he was someone generally popular and well-liked (one of the Ó hAilpíns for instance) it'd be easy to write off a positive response as being personally linked. A disliked figure getting support en masse is much cooler :)

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Chuckles's picture

*shrugs*

Not the same impact as say a Roger Federer or Brent Favre coming out, but still a step in the right direction.  Although, the seriousness of his look in both the article and his book cover bring the mood down a little bit.
rolan's picture

Newspaper Serialisation

Donal Og's autobiography is serialised in the Irish edition of The Daily Mail.

This is the same paper that last week publish Jan Moir's column about Stephen Gately's un-natural death. Although only in its UK edition and not the Irish one.

It also is the paper that gives a regular column to well-known anti-gay rights columnist Brenda Power (who hides her homophobia behind 'think of the children' style bigotry)

In today's Irish Daily Mail that continues to call Andrew Cowles, Stephen Gately's partner.

But we should probably be thankful for the small mercy that they recognise the relationship, at all.

beero's picture

Well he was technically his partner

Not everyone has used the term "Husband" BBC and channel 4 both used "Partner" some gay people like that term others do not, As much as I hate the DM I do not think its a big deal to use the correct legal term.
spanishguy's picture

Michael I give you a link of

Michael I give you a link of an irish paper where there are a lot of comments: http://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/local-national/irsquom-gay-reveals-gaa-star-in-new-autobiography-14535587.html

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